This idea is often mentioned in the discussion of gender relations, as if it reveals some deep and universal truth about human nature.
Men's difficulty in quitting "sex" is, to a certain extent, driven by physiology and instinct. Visual attraction often has a strong impact on men, and beautiful faces and attractive postures may instantly attract their attention. However, this does not mean that men are limited to such superficial desires. A truly mature man knows how to translate this instinctive impulse into an appreciation of beauty and respect for women. They understand that it is superficial to only pursue external "color", and it is more important to understand and cherish the inner quality, wisdom and emotion of women.
And women seem to be born with a close connection with "love". Deep down, they yearn for a sincere and deep emotional connection, to be understood, loved, and valued. For women, love is not only passion and romance, but also a kind of spiritual fit and companionship. However, over-indulging in love can also make a woman lose herself and become blind and dependent.
So, what is the highest level of gender relations? Perhaps it is not to completely quit men's "lust" or women's "love" attachments, but to find a balance and harmony between the two.
In an ideal relationship between the sexes, a man is able to see a woman's beauty with an appreciative eye, while at the same time being able to penetrate into her heart and respect her thoughts and feelings. They will not easily waver in their loyalty and commitment to their partner because of external temptations, but will integrate the pursuit of beauty into the care and love of their partner. This moderate grasp of "color" enables them to adhere to the bottom line of morality and responsibility while appreciating beauty.
Women, on the other hand, remain independent and autonomous in the pursuit of emotional gratification. They know how to love others as well as themselves, and they don't lose themselves by relying too much on their emotions. They are able to look at love rationally, and while giving love, they also know how to reserve a space and dignity for themselves.
The highest level of the sexes is also reflected in the mutual growth and support. Men and women should be motivators and enablers for each other in a healthy relationship. When a man encounters a setback in his career, a woman is able to give gentle comfort and firm encouragement; When a woman feels lost on the path to pursuing her dreams, men are able to provide rational advice and strong support.
Communication is also a key factor in achieving the highest level of sexuality. Both parties are able to express their needs, expectations, and feelings openly, listen to each other's ideas, and respect each other's perspectives. In the face of disagreements and contradictions, instead of choosing quarrels and cold wars, seek solutions through peaceful communication.
In addition, shared values and goals are essential for the sublimation of gender relations. When two people have similar life pursuits and value orientations, they can move forward hand in hand on the road of life, face the wind and rain together, and create a better future together.
In short, men can't quit sex, women can't quit love, this is part of human nature. The highest level of gender relationship is to build a deep, harmonious and happy emotional connection through mutual understanding, tolerance, support and growth on the basis of respecting and accepting these natures, so that each other can bloom and achieve together in the ocean of love.
In real life, it may be difficult for us to achieve this state of perfection, but as long as we have a yearning for true love and continue to work hard to manage and improve the relationship between the sexes, we can continue to move towards this goal and create our own chapter of happiness.