Recently, the college entrance examination results of various provinces have been released one after another, and many children's score checking videos have been exposed.
Ten years of hard study, once the title of the gold list.
Through the screen, you can feel the excitement and joy of the candidates and parents.
A female student in Zhejiang, with an astonishing high score of 726, won the top prize in Zhejiang's college entrance examination, and was successfully admitted to Peking University.
Her report card is a sight to behold.
137 in Chinese, 149 in Mathematics, 143 in Foreign Language, 100 in Physics, 98 in Chemistry and 99 in Biology.
Many parents are envious after seeing it, looking at the babies whose grades are often craned, parents can't help but sigh: How are these excellent children cultivated?
Primary school is the starting point for children to enter the campus, high school is the stage of children's hard work, and junior high school in between is the development and stability period of children's academic career.
Junior high school, as a critical period for children's growth, lay a good knowledge foundation and form good learning habits at this stage, so that children's future learning path will be smoother and smoother.
Many parents find that the learning difficulties faced by their children in high school are inseparable from the problems left over from junior high school.
In junior high school, it is very important for parents to guide their children to do these 3 things well!
01Develop good study habits
Education experts conducted a questionnaire survey of 1,560 students to examine the impact of poor study habits on academic performance.
The survey results showed that 72.8% of the students believed that bad study habits had an impact on academic performance.
Education experts then interviewed 200 top students and found that each of them had good study habits.
Mr. Ye Shengtao once said: "The essence of education is to cultivate habits."
I think so!
90% of children's habits are formed in the family, and children's habits are inseparable from the reminder, supervision and guidance of parents in the early stage of habit formation.
As a mother who won the college entrance examination said:
"Children's learning habits must be cultivated from an early age, and all habits must be helped when he does not have the ability to think independently, so that the road ahead can be easily walked."
If grades are compared to a building, good study habits are like a solid foundation, and only a solid foundation can build a good house.
For example, develop a correct writing posture and adhere to the habit of practicing calligraphy.
"China Youth Daily" reported that an 800-word essay in the college entrance examination takes only 40 seconds, less than a minute.
If the candidate's handwriting is sloppy and illegible, the marking teacher needs to find the mark within a limited time, which is very likely to cause a misjudgment.
Writing a good hand, in the exam, is also a hidden plus. Help children choose a favorite calligraphy book and insist on practicing calligraphy for a long time;
For example, develop the habit of previewing before class and reviewing after class, so as to truly learn from the past. According to the Ebbinghaus forgetting curve, parents help their children master the rules of memory to achieve twice the learning effect with half the effort.
There is also how to take notes in class efficiently and find a note-taking method that is constantly suitable for your child. Parents can explore and use methods such as Cornell note-taking method and mind map with their children to improve the efficiency of their children's classroom records and knowledge connection.
Let children develop the habit of sorting out the wrong problem set, and strengthen the consolidation training for the existing weak points.
Help your child identify your favorite subjects in advance, and determine the general direction of future employment according to your child's interests and hobbies. Encourage children to understand and think more about the direction of future career development, instead of waiting until the end of the college entrance examination to think about it temporarily.
Zhong Fangrong from the Department of Archaeology of Peking University, because of reading the archaeological works of Teacher Fan Jinshi, she has a yearning for the archaeological industry, and she hopes to engage in archaeology like Teacher Fan Jinshi in the future, so she resolutely applied to the Department of Archaeology of Peking University.
Insist on extracurricular reading, let children choose the reading content they are interested in, master the basic reading methods, and learn to memorize and write reading experiences in the process of reading.
02 Super concentration
After the child enters junior high school, with the difficulty of knowledge increasing significantly, the number of subjects to learn, the concentration of the child in the classroom becomes higher.
Children with good concentration have better brain concentration and block distractions;
Children with poor attention span have a much weaker ability to use their attention to select information.
A group of findings suggests that children with greater concentration at an early age are more likely to succeed as adults.
Xie Xinying, the top science student in the Chongqing College Entrance Examination in 2020, scored 726 points. She was not only the champion of Chongqing's high school entrance examination that year, but also the champion of the college entrance examination.
When asked about Xie Xinying's study secrets, the girl's homeroom teacher said:
She doesn't brush questions, doesn't go to tutorial classes, and will ensure 100% concentration in class.
According to a survey by the China Children's Health Development Fund, 660 large and medium-sized cities in mainland China:
20% of children are often distracted;
42% of children are unable to concentrate during class;
60% of the children could not insist on attending the class for more than 30 minutes;
75% of children have attention problems of varying degrees.
Attention problems have become a common problem for many children, and it is also a major obstacle on the road to school.
Many children seem to be sitting at their desks, but their thoughts have already drifted away. In the learning process, there are many small actions, and such a learning state is destined to be inefficient.
I have seen such a picture circulating on the Internet, which makes people cry and laugh.
In the classroom, when the teacher started the lecture at 4G speed, he vividly reproduced the listening status of different children, which was a world of difference:
Xueshen listens at the speed of Wifi;
Xueba writes at 3G speed;
Some children, looking at 2G speed;
Some children listened to it and dropped the connection;
Some children did not have a data connection at all;
There are also a few children, who have been in airplane mode;
Some children have automatically turned off their computers since the beginning of class...
Know that attention is the foundation of learning. In our brain, there is a "brain within a brain": the prefrontal cortex, where the secret of attention is hidden.
03Excellent time management skills
When children study, procrastination makes many parents have a headache.
Behind this is the lack of time management skills in children.
Parents need to help their children make a daily schedule and divide their time into ...... study, play, exercise, sleep, etc.
Plan what time it is, what needs to be done.
When planning and arranging things, children can distinguish the order and priority of things, and distinguish what needs to be done, what they want to do, and what they don't need to do.
Deng Deng, the gold medalist of the 60th International Mathematics Competition, once shared his time management schedule.
During the holidays, he arranged his studying, reading, and sports time in an orderly manner.
Every week, I will set myself a few small goals, such as reading a few extracurricular books.
Behind his super time management skills, he is inseparable from his mother's careful education.
At a very young age, his mother taught him to make a daily planner. When making a plan, Mom will fully respect his ideas and only give some suggestions.
After the plan is formulated, his mother is responsible for supervising him every day, and he will be rewarded with corresponding points for each completion of a plan, so that he can experience a sense of accomplishment every day, and unconsciously, he will develop good time management skills.
When children can grasp and allocate time in an active way, and do things in a planned way, they will not procrastinate and be much more efficient.