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preface
Don't look at Chen Xuedong now that he is thriving and has unlimited scenery, in fact, what happened to him when he was a child was very bad. Chen Xuedong's parents divorced when he was 7 years old, and neither of them wanted this son, so they left Chen Xuedong aside.
Fortunately, his aunt single-handedly pulled Chen Xuedong up, and raised him with hard work. However, just after Chen Xuedong became popular, his mother and father, who had been divorced for many years, started the "firefighting" type of asking mode, and the scene was embarrassing for a while!
Since Chen Xuedong can remember, his parents have been quarreling a lot. The two of them quarrel over this and that every day, and they are tired enough. During this period, Chen Xuedong did some trivial things wrong and was beaten several times, which was quite impressive.
After the divorce, Chen Xuedong's parents didn't take their children's affairs to heart, and it seemed that it was very important to work hard. So, the child was thrown to the aunt to pull with one hand. At that time, the conditions at my aunt's family were also average, and it was not easy to take care of Chen Xuedong. However, the aunt is sincere and loving to Chen Xuedong, and Chen Xuedong has learned to be considerate and grateful since he was a child.
After graduating from junior high school, I started working part-time
Chen Xuedong's experience made him precocious than other children. When he went to high school, he began to work outside to earn money, so that he didn't want to burden his aunt too much. He worked on Sundays and during the summer vacation, and it is estimated that he didn't have time to play well at that time. However, these hardships also exercised Chen Xuedong's good character of independence and independence, making him very sensible since he was a child.
Although he has never had much contact with his parents, Chen Xuedong has no resentment towards them. On the contrary, he used all the first pot of gold he earned to buy a house for his grandparents and aunts who loved him to repay their nurturing kindness. Watching his parents drift away from him, he didn't have any resentment, saying that this was the life they had chosen.
Just when Chen Xuedong was holding back his strength all over the country, his parents, who had been ignoring him for a long time, came to the door. It seems that he wants a piece of the pie and asks Chen Xuedong to support them and their children. In this regard, Chen Xuedong's attitude is very resolute, saying that he does not approve of his father's current wife, and he has no intention of treating her as a mother.
Emotional delicacy
As an actor, Chen Xuedong's emotions are indeed much more delicate than ordinary people. In a variety show, when a debater called his stepmother "new mother", Chen Xuedong immediately blew up and was so emotional that he couldn't speak. Then he angrily declared that the woman would never be his mother. It seems that the trauma in his heart about his parents' divorce has not been completely relieved.
Marriage is a husband and wife's business, but if you have children, you can't be so willful. A child's desire for his or her biological parents is often greater than anything else. Those heart-wrenching thoughts, even if they grow up, can't be easily relieved. The shadow cast by the divorce of parents on children is indelible, and I hope everyone will think twice about this issue.
In the end, Chen Xuedong became a star with his own efforts. Looking at him now prosperous, and then looking back at all kinds of unpleasant encounters in the past, it is really emotional.
The more tribulations you experience, the more you will appreciate the preciousness of life
Now Chen Xuedong is popular all over the country and is an idol sought after by countless people, but his road to fame was not achieved overnight. As we said earlier, Chen Xuedong has experienced all kinds of unsatisfactory family problems since he was a child, and the trauma brought to him by his parents' divorce has lasted for a long time.
Once upon a time, Chen Xuedong also had doubts about marriage and love, and in an interview, Chen Xuedong once talked about his views on love. He said that since he was a child, he watched his parents quarrel every day, and finally divorced, and he had some doubts about marriage and love. But fortunately, under the careful cultivation of his aunt, Chen Xuedong gradually established a correct view of love.
A single-parent family does not mean that a child with poor character will be raised. On the contrary, in Chen Xuedong's case, the divorce of his parents allowed him to learn to live independently earlier and to cherish the people in front of him. Starting to work in high school to make money is the best embodiment of Chen Xuedong's independent ability.
Chen Xuedong sincerely thanked his aunt for her careful care. If it weren't for the careful cultivation of his aunt, Chen Xuedong might not have been able to achieve today's achievements. The aunt is the most important guide in Chen Xuedong's life, giving him selfless care and support. Because of this, the aunt has become the most filial benefactor in Chen Xuedong's mind.
For many people, biological parents are a role that should always be kept in their hearts. But Chen Xuedong doesn't seem to have much nostalgia for his parents. After all, they just gave birth to Chen Xuedong, but they did not fulfill their responsibility to raise them. This may also be the reason why Chen Xuedong can face his parents so indifferently.
epilogue
From Chen Xuedong's personal experience, it can be seen that the definition of close relatives is not blindly determined by blood. The aunt's kindness to Chen Xuedong is much greater than the contribution of his biological parents to him. Therefore, in Chen Xuedong's heart, the aunt is the closest relative who should be respected the most. This also shows from the side that family affection is exchanged for action and intentions, not just whether there is a blood relationship.
Along the way, Chen Xuedong has experienced too many twists and turns. However, it was these encounters that exercised his ability and courage to take charge of himself. If it had been smooth sailing, he might have stopped at the life of ordinary people long ago. It is precisely because of these experiences that Chen Xuedong can use his strength and perseverance to finally reach the peak of life.
Many people admired Chen Xuedong's success, but they did not think deeply about what happened behind him. In fact, who in life is not so displaced? Only by facing all difficulties and tribulations can we create an extraordinary life. Chen Xuedong interpreted this truth with his practical actions.
I hope he will have smooth sailing and happiness on the road of life in the future. It seems that for Chen Xuedong, only by facing up to the trauma of the past can he better cherish the beauty of the present.
Even if life has been bumpy, as long as you persist in hard work and independence, you will eventually reap success and happiness. His filial piety to his aunt and his relief to his parents all reflect his good character.
Even if you encounter family misfortunes, as long as you treat them with a positive attitude and make full use of your own strength to change your fate, you will eventually be able to create an extraordinary life. Let's draw strength from this and use courage and perseverance to build our own wonderful life.
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