The central government finally took action and was not married. Congratulations, really blessed. I heard that the central government is starting to take action. There is hope for those who are not married yet. Just like it is really hard to marry a daughter-in-law in our village, our bride price is getting higher and higher, and the bride price is rising much faster than the price of other people's houses. Marrying a daughter-in-law feels like it's really harder than climbing to heaven with us. Originally, everything in this world was scarce and expensive, but now the bride price is getting higher and higher, and there are some reasons for this.
In this way, it has brought considerable economic pressure and psychological pressure to those boys who are not yet married and have just reached the marriageable age, resulting in more and more boys who cannot marry their daughters-in-law. Take a group in our village, for example, there are only about 100 people in it, and there are only 20 or 30 families in a team. There are more than a dozen singles alone. If you think about it, this is a dozen or so families, and more than half of the families have children who are not married, which is really unimaginable.
In the past, like our parents' generation, as long as there was a similar house and one room, it was fine, like at that time, my brother gave a bride price of 6,000. But with the changes in the past few years, the conditions for marrying a daughter-in-law are getting higher and higher, and if you want to get married, you have a house in the city, and you must have a car, and the bride price must not be less. From a few thousand dollars in the past to hundreds of thousands now.
For the bride price of 188,000, some people still think that this is just general, not to mention the bride price, the woman needs at least three gold, and the three gold will cost about fifty or sixty thousand to buy, plus the wedding will be held at that time, and then spend tens of thousands, this set of combinations is all down, the amount of money spent is unimaginable, how much economic pressure does this have to bring to the man?
For a rural family, most of them are peasants with their faces facing the loess and their backs to the sky. How many years of work do they have to earn that 1 million? The increasing bride price is also unaffordable for many ordinary families. In such a situation, there are many boys who simply don't consider getting married, and they will beat the singles, and now the bride price is getting higher and higher, and some boys also understand that in order not to let their families go into debt, they would rather not get married. Single, single.
But in order for their children to continue their lives and to be able to rely on their children, parents would rather take on debts and go outside to scrape together, hoping that their children can get married. But is that really good? If the woman marries in and faces these debts, I don't think the family will be harmonious, and it will be noisy all day long. That kind of marriage won't be considered good by everyone.
Now don't worry, the state has also taken action, in response to the chaos of the bride price in the countryside, as well as those big exercises, comparison of favors, thick burials, extravagance and waste and other rural folk customs will focus on special rectification, the country's civil code has also issued a law, prohibiting the use of marriage to solicit property. In the past, because of the bride price, there are laws in place. There is no controversy about the bride price. Regardless of whether they get married or not, this bride price can also be returned, which makes most rural boys see hope, and those who are not married in this way do not have to worry!