#红楼梦中贾宝玉的婚事贾政在意吗?#当然在意, how could you not care!
In "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Zheng's attitude towards Jia Baoyu's marriage is not clear, clear and unswerving. Although he admires Daiyu's talent and praises Baochai's learning, this does not mean that he intends to choose any of them as his daughter-in-law - choosing a daughter-in-law is not the top student in the examination, can talent and knowledge be used as a determining factor?
On the surface, Jia Zheng hated Baoyu. In fact, this is "the depth of love is the responsibility of the cut", in the saying "hate iron does not become steel". Jia Yucun, a "traitorous male", has seen through Jia Zheng's thoughts, and every time he comes to Jia Zheng, he must see Baoyu. He is such a snobbish philistine, and Baoyu is so unmotivated, what common language can he have? Of course, it was by getting close to Baoyu to curry favor with Jia Zheng.
Jia Zheng is very concerned about Baoyu, just because Jia's mother is kind and does not allow him to discipline him strictly, and he himself realizes that there is a problem with the discipline method (after beating Baoyu, Jia Zheng "was also discouraged and regretted that he should not have been poisoned to such a point"), so "I took care of it first, and now I don't dare to take care of it".
However, Baoyu's marriage is not like accepting a drama or a maid, it is a common thing of that class in that era, although it is not good, it is not bad. Baoyu's marriage is a major event related to the future and fate of Jiafu!
Ning Rong's second duke asked the police illusion fairy to teach Baoyu, and said this: "My family...... Although there are many children and grandchildren, there is no inheritance to inherit. Among them, Sun Baoyu is the only one, with a perverse temperament and strange feelings, although he is smart and wise, he is expected to succeed, but his family's fortunes are combined, and I am afraid that no one will introduce the Tao. Baoyu is the only possible candidate for "inheritance", but no one has "introduced the Tao".
In other words, as long as Baoyu is given a person who "rules the Tao", he may (is possible!) Not necessarily. But there is no way to succeed in the job, and this only thing may not be used well? Inherit the family business and save the defeat. Who, then, is likely to "bring it into the Tao"?
Baoyu showed interest in the fat powder hairpin ring from the time he caught Zhou, so much so that he was characterized by Jia Zheng as "the future wine-colored ear". Later performances proved that he was particularly interested in beautiful women. Therefore, a beautiful and admonishing wife may be able to "introduce Baoyu into the Tao" and may finally save the fate of Jiafu.
However, on the other hand, Baoyu's feelings for Daiyu are so blatant and unscrupulous. He didn't say it, but told everyone with his actions: If I lose Sister Lin, I will die!
Lin Daiyu is also smart and beautiful, but she doesn't like to advise: "Lin Daiyu is the only one who has never persuaded him to stand up and become famous, so he respects Daiyu deeply." This is also one of the foundations of their love.
On the one hand, Xue Baochai, who may "introduce the Tao", and on the other hand, Lin Daiyu, who will die if he loses, Baoyu's marriage partner, how can it be easy to decide?
No matter how concerned Jia Zheng is, no matter how anxious he is, he can only stand still for the time being and wait and see what happens.