CCTV is the biggest stage, and excellent hosts are like facades.
Kang Hui, Dong Qing, Sa Beining, Zhou Tao and others can be called the best among them, but no matter how glamorous and beautiful the appearance is, it is inevitable that there will be a difficult scripture at home.
Zhou Tao is an example, with dignified appearance and outstanding skills, and her name is a household name.
But in life, she married and divorced her senior brother, and after she turned around to marry a rich man, she bluntly said that she felt guilty about her daughter, what is going on?
Talented and beautiful
"Let's get a divorce."
In 02, a loving couple stood together but looked at each other, and no one could have imagined that the relationship that had come all the way from the campus would eventually fall apart.
This couple is Zhou Tao and Yao Ke.
The two met at Beijing Broadcasting Institute, when she was a junior sister who had just stepped into the campus, and Yao Ke was a senior brother who was three years higher than her.
Compared with Zhou Tao's beauty and generosity, Yao Ke's appearance is not outstanding enough, but his talent can make up for it.
In an intramural competition, Yao Ke was on stage and Zhou Tao was offstage, and the talent of the senior brother attracted Zhou Tao and made her have a good impression of this man.
And Yao Ke is even more, in the crowd, he saw this girl at a glance, which can be called love at first sight.
A senior sister matched them, and the two quickly became acquainted, and the more they got along, the more they found that the other party was quite compatible with themselves.
They talked about everything, they hated to see each other late, and it was natural for them to come together later.
Campus love is always innocent and warm, Zhou Tao and Yao Ke are like talented and beautiful women who have come out of the opera.
Maybe all young people who are immersed in love are the same, they made an appointment, and when Zhou Tao graduated from university, they would get married, and then be together for a lifetime.
90 years is a confused day in Zhou Tao's life, the indicators of the broadcasting major to stay in Beijing are limited, and in the face of life, dreams can only lean back.
She tossed and turned many times, and finally landed in the Beijing Municipal Public Security Bureau, she was working while looking for opportunities, and the host's goal, she still wanted to go enough.
If there is anything else to be happy about, it may be that her love with Yao Ke has finally come to fruition, and Zhou Tao is looking forward to a happy married life.
But as a person who has come over, parents are not optimistic.
One is that the two of them are too young to bear the responsibility of marriage, and the other is the character of the two, which seems to be destined for them not to be all the way.
In the very beginning of their marriage, both husband and wife were nameless, and the same was true for couples in distress.
But slowly, Yao Ke's work is on the right track, and the host's work is booming.
Zhou Tao is doing a job he doesn't like, the future is confused, and there is no future, and those who can succeed have the courage to start again, and Zhou Tao is the same.
In 92, Beijing TV selected the host, and for Zhou Tao, her opportunity came.
She resigned from her stable job to recommend herself and fight for it, with her outstanding appearance and good conversation, Zhou Tao was lucky to get this opportunity.
Love is the best source of motivation, since re-embarking on the host road, Zhou Tao will complete every task extremely well, this is a hard-won opportunity, she must learn to cherish.
The hard work paid off, and in just two years, she won the award for the best program host.
When his career was booming, Zhou Tao's life went wrong.
Cracks in couples
People's energy is limited, and if they can take care of this head, they can't take care of this head.
From an outsider's point of view, Zhou Tao went from being unknown to hosting "Variety Show", and later appeared on the Spring Festival Gala many times, she is a first-class talented woman, and her marriage with Yao Ke was also praised and praised, saying that it was a godsend.
But back at the home where there were only the two of them, the couple who were envied by the outside world had already had an irreparable rift.
Yao Ke hopes that Zhou Tao can get closer to a wife in the traditional sense, put his career in the back row, and turn more energy to the family, husband and children, and have children, they have no children, this issue should have been put on the agenda a long time ago.
But in Zhou Tao's opinion, her career development at that time was in full swing, almost everyone knew her as a household name, and the opportunity could not be lost and never come again, there were too many excellent people in the world, and she couldn't let go at this time.
All this is as if their parents expected before, Yao Ke does not have too strong a sense of professionalism, slowly falls silent, eating the old book, Zhou Tao is like a kite string that can't be pulled, flying higher and higher.
The two people who hedge their ideas are indispensable to quarrel, the more noisy the love is, the more they quarrel, the more they scatter, and their marriage cannot be called happy.
So in the end, the long-brewing divorce still blurted out, as if such a choice is the real freedom of two people.
After more than ten years of dependence, it is impossible to have no feelings, divorce is not just the separation of two people, but more like a family being torn apart.
Zhou Tao also realized that when the two were together, passion was not enough.
Second husband
Excellent people have never lacked suitors, Zhou Tao has returned to being single, and naturally there are other people who like her, Lu Yun is.
In fact, the two have known each other for a long time, at that time, Zhou Tao was entering the TV station, but the original unit could not release people for the time being, she asked her husband for help, but Yao Ke found two people and didn't solve it.
Annoyed, he also said that Zhou Tao was restless and not content.
Zhou Tao was naturally disappointed by what her husband said, so she could only rely on herself to toss, and it was at that time that a friend introduced her to Lu Yun, who was quick and enthusiastic, and quickly solved the matter.
Since then, they have become friends.
I don't know when Lu Yun fell in love with Zhou Tao, but after Zhou Tao's divorce, he immediately began to pursue it.
Zhou Tao knew that he was a very good person, but at first, she did not have the idea of stepping into marriage again.
Lu Yun did not flinch because of this, he was still meticulous, caring everywhere, people's hearts are the softest thing, Zhou Tao was a little shaken, but he was afraid of repeating the mistakes of the past.
Until the appearance of Lu Yun's mother.
The old man was sick, it was an advanced stage of pancreatic cancer, Lu Yun was in pain, he did everything himself, meticulous and caring, and filial piety touched people, and also let Zhou Tao see that he could take on the responsibility of the family.
In 03, Zhou Tao made a decision to marry this person who was wholeheartedly good to himself.
Because Lu Yun is in the cultural industry and is also a rich man in everyone's eyes, I don't know how many people say that Zhou Tao married him, but he fell in love with money.
However, Zhou Tao didn't care about these remarks, she only knew that she was very happy in this marriage, and judging from her personality and the way the two of them got along, they were the most suitable person.
Lu Yun respects her and understands her, this is what Zhou Tao needs most.
At that time, Zhou Tao's work tended to be stable, and the little life that belonged to the two of them quietly arrived.
In October 05, Zhou Tao gave birth to a daughter, and they named the child Xiangxiang.
After giving birth to a child, she only took a few months off, and then she returned to her career, which was her battlefield.
The family is happy and happy, why would Zhou Tao say that he is ashamed of his daughter?
Guilt in my heart
Xiangxiang was only one year old, she was hospitalized with a fever, Zhou Tao was preparing for the Spring Festival Gala in 06, only Lu Yun was by her side, she felt distressed and guilty, but this was just the beginning.
In the 08 Olympics, it was a year for us to show the outside world, and Zhou Tao couldn't spare his hand, and he also found a house near the Olympic Organizing Committee to live in for half a year.
When the child needs companionship the most, the mother is not around, obviously the closest person, the daughter looks at her, but says, "I don't know my mother anymore."
Coincidentally, the financial crisis made Lu Yun a little inseparable.
The absence of family companionship makes Xiangxiang a little introverted and doesn't even like to talk to people.
Zhou Tao has a career in the future, her dream has been realized, looking at her daughter's lovely face, she feels that it is time.
In 16 years, Zhou Tao withdrew from CCTV, which was her decision after careful consideration.
She began to spend more time with her daughter and watched her become lively and better.
Of course, a strong woman who used to be in her career would not let herself become a housewife, she just shifted her focus, which does not mean that she is silent.
In addition to her family, she went to participate in dramas, worked as a commentator for various large-scale events, and also served as the chief director of the Spring Festival Gala "Hundred Flowers Welcoming Spring" of the China Federation of Literary and Art Circles.
She just changed her way and appeared in front of the audience.
In addition, Zhou Tao also serves as the chairman of Beijing Poly Performance Co., Ltd., and she seems to have embarked on a completely different path from other hosts.
Think about the confusion when I graduated, the rift in my family, and the hardships of my work, as I moved forward step by step, all of this was solved, and the light boat had crossed the mountain.
Family and career seem to be an unsolvable proposition for women.
As many people say, between the 20s and 30s is the best time for a woman to get married and have children.
But think about it the other way, isn't being honest and in the prime of life also a good time to work hard for your career?
It can only be said that different people have different choices, and everyone is responsible for their own choices.
I wish Zhou Tao a happy life and better and better.
If you were her, would you choose family or career?
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CCTV March 19, 2007 Report on Zhou Tao's remarriage