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Speaking of model couples in the entertainment industry, many people may think of Zhao Liying, Feng Shaofeng, Li Jiaxin, Xu Jinliang. But you know what? There is an old couple's love story that is even more enviable. She is the old drama bone Lu Zhong we are familiar with, and her husband Wu Guiling. The two have gone from elementary school classmates to lovers who have been together for 53 years. There are sweetness, hardships, and mutual support in this marriage.
Fate is wonderful, and primary school classmates become the love of life
In 1949, 9-year-old Lu Zhong moved to Beijing with his family from Baoji and started a new study life in Xisibei Primary School. Who would have thought that here she met her true destiny - Wu Guiling. At that time, Lu Zhong's family was wealthy, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and he stood out among his classmates. And the unknown Wu Guiling can only secretly have a crush on this outstanding female classmate in her heart.
After graduating, the two embarked on different paths in life. Lu Zhong was discovered because of his literary and artistic talent and went to the Hebei Provincial Drama Theater as an actor. Wu Guiling stayed in Beijing and entered Beijing Renyi to learn acting.
Fate is such a magical thing. In 1959, Lu Zhong performed at the Capital Theater with the crew of "Red Flag Spectrum". Backstage, she almost collided with a tall man. The moment they looked at each other, they both felt familiar with each other, but they couldn't remember where they had seen each other. One day two years later, Lu Zhong went to Beijing Renyi to look for information, and the staff told her: "You can find the stage manager Wu Guiling, he has it there."
The two who reunited again talked happily, and only then did they solve the mystery of two years ago - it turned out to be elementary school classmates! From then on, Wu Guiling took the initiative to ask for Lu Zhong's contact information, and the two began to exchange letters. They talked about drama and life, and slowly, the seeds of love took root in their hearts.
Wu Guiling ran to Hebei as soon as she was free, and walked around the park and pressed the road with Lu Zhong. Later, he took the initiative to visit Lu Zhong's house and introduced himself as Lu Zhong's boyfriend. When Lu Mu saw that this young man was brave and honest, she immediately nodded in approval. In 1963, the two tied the knot. There was no grand wedding, just a meal in the unit cafeteria, and the two single beds were a marriage bed. It's simple, but it's full of happiness.
The test of long-distance relationship, the train every weekend becomes a special train for love
After marriage, because of work, Lu Zhong was in Hebei and Wu Guiling was in Beijing. Every weekend, Lu Zhong takes the train back to Beijing to reunite with her husband. Wu Guiling always waited early at the train station and took his wife home on her bicycle. Cooking together, strolling together, the weekend became a sweet time for them to talk about their thoughts.
Such a "Cowherd and Weaver Girl" life is 10 years. The distance did not bring a gap to their feelings, but made them cherish their time together even more. In 1973, Lu Zhong was finally transferred to Beijing to work in Renyi. Since then, the couple have become colleagues, and finally they don't have to run for love anymore.
After getting married, the relationship between Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling became deeper and deeper. There is a calligraphy and painting hanging in their home, which depicts a string of sugar gourds, and the words next to it read: "Forty years ago, I got married, I presented the art world in my prime years, and I became a late Lu Zhong opera, and the rock sugar gourd Guiling is sweet." This string of sweet sugar gourds represents the intimacy and happiness of their decades of married life.
In life, Lu Zhong has a big personality and often loses everything. Wu Guiling is very careful, every time Lu Zhong goes out, he will make a list of the things in the box, and remind his wife to bring them all when she comes back. Lu Zhong doesn't like to bring a mobile phone, because Wu Guiling is her "human mobile phone". He would help Lu Zhong make the phone, and the person who answered the phone would often hear: "I am Wu Guiling, and Teacher Lu Zhong is looking for you."
At the age of 58, Wu Guiling decided to learn to drive. Why? Because Lu Zhong didn't know the way very well, he had to be a driver to escort his wife to various places. There are no sweet words between them, but they integrate love into every bit of life. This kind of tenderness is more moving than any mountain alliance and sea oath.
Complement each other and advance together, and husband and wife work together to break through the sky
Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling complement each other's personalities and support each other in their careers. Lu Zhong is decisive, while Wu Guiling is more cautious, but always supports his wife's decision. For example, the major event of buying a house was decided by Lu Zhong to take out a loan. Wu Guiling supported it without saying a word. During that time, in addition to working on the drama stage, the two also relied on dubbing to make money to repay the loan.
Lu Zhong dubbed classic dramas, such as Jia Mu in Dream of Red Mansions and Liu Xiaoqing's version of Wu Zetian's voice in his old age are all her masterpieces. Wu Guiling is the actor of Zhenyuan Daxian in Journey to the West, and also dubbed the roles of the Jade Emperor and Ziyun Zhenren.
As he grows older, Lu Zhong has more and more opportunities to get in touch with film and television dramas. At the age of 73, she won the crown of the actress of the Asia-Pacific Film Festival with her film interloper. This hard-won honor is inseparable from Lu Zhong's courage, not to mention Wu Guiling's silent support.
Lu Zhong summed up that the way for husband and wife to get along is to "learn from each other's strengths". Don't blame each other's shortcomings for your own strengths, and don't feel inferior because your weaknesses are compared to the strengths of the other person. Mutual appreciation and tolerance can make the relationship last for a long time.
On the day of the golden wedding anniversary, Wu Guiling made a picture album with her own hands, which is the various character images created by Lu Zhong over the years. This unique gift is full of his love for his wife and envy others.
There are unpredictable circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck. In her later years, Wu Guiling suffered from complications caused by diabetes, and her health deteriorated. Lu Zhong never gave up and took care of her husband carefully. She wrote down all the dosages and time of medication clearly, placed them neatly, reminded her husband to take his medicine on time, and supervised him to spend more time in the sun.
From being taken care of to taking care of people, Lu Zhong has done a good job. "My husband used to do a lot of things for me, and I never had to think about it," she said. Now he's in a health problem and I have to take care of everything. Lu Yu once asked Lu Zhong: "If you go back again, will you choose this person?"
Lu Zhong replied without hesitation: "It's still this person." Together, weal and bene, 53 years together is a lifetime. If there is an afterlife, they must still be together.
The warmth of the four generations in the same house, the filial piety of the daughter-in-law of the actress
Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling's families were most lively when they were in the same house for four generations. There is an old mother in her 90s, a son, a daughter and a granddaughter. Such a big family is both happiness and responsibility for Lu Zhong. Her mother often doesn't recognize her when she is old, but she knows that she is taking care of herself, and sometimes calls Lu Zhong "sister".
In the hearts of the elderly, "sister" means to take care of people. Although Lu Zhong's mother-in-law is old, she still thinks about her from time to time: "Shoot less, don't be too tired." This care made Lu Zhong feel warm.
The children of Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling are very good. Daughter Wu Qing is an aerospace officer who has made outstanding contributions to the country. His son Wu Bing is a director, screenwriter, and professor at Beijing Film Academy.
daughter-in-law He Lin is a powerful actor who has won the International Emmy Award for Best Actress. The love story of He Lin and Wu Bing is also very romantic. The two went on their first date at their alma mater, Beijing Film Academy, and although they were not in the same class, they had common memories on campus and shortened the distance between them.
Wu Bing is very good at taking care of people, in order to make He Lin in Beipiao feel at home, he learned to cook and made a table of dishes for He Lin. He also said, "It doesn't matter if you can cook or not, I will." This thoughtfulness touched He Lin's heart.
He Lin is also very empathetic. The relationship between the two is getting better and better, and Wu Bing took her to meet her parents. Lu Zhong fell in love with this beautiful, intellectual and low-key prospective daughter-in-law at first sight.
After He Lin and Wu Bing got married, they were very filial to their in-laws. During Wu Guiling's illness, He Lin took the initiative to ask for leave to come back to take care of her. She said: "Our generation should be more filial piety, so that the elderly can enjoy their old age in peace."
This filial piety moved Lu Zhong. She often said: "We have a good daughter-in-law in our family, and we are very happy." Looking back on the past, Lu Zhong was full of emotion. The love story between her and Wu Guiling is not vigorous, but a long stream. After 53 years of marriage, they managed it with heart and watered it with love, so they had such a beautiful result.
Although Wu Guiling has passed away, their love story is still touching countless people. This relationship, which spans more than half a century, has taught us what it means to be truly in love with each other and what is an unswerving commitment.
In this fast-paced society, the story of Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling is undoubtedly a refreshing medicine that makes us rethink the true meaning of love. The world is worth it because of such sincere feelings. What do you think?
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