In 1987, Li Yong and Ha Wen walked into the campus of Communication University of China, and the trajectory of their lives changed. Li Yong, a literary young man with half-long hair and a cold face, longs for love deep down.
Harvin, the child of a high-ranking cadre with a strict family education, behaves decently and is not easily shaken by suitors.
Li Yong always remembered his father's instructions in his heart: "Your most important task this time is to bring me a daughter-in-law back." With this sacred expectation, he often came to the Central Academy of Fine Arts with a sketchpad on his back, hoping to meet a like-minded girl.
However, fate always comes inadvertently - he found out that Harvin was actually in the same class as him, and he couldn't help but sigh: "What a good fate".
In the face of Harvin's coldness, Li Yong adopted a series of unique pursuit strategies. He became Harvin's henchman, rushing to sit next to her every day, amusing her from time to time. When Harvin was angry, he silently painted her portrait again.
Although Ha Wen was disdainful on the surface, he wrote the word "hate" on the note, but even so, Li Yong remained keenly aware of hope.
At a Christmas party, Li Yong plucked up the courage to ask Harvin about her criteria for finding a boyfriend. Haven smiled slyly and said, "At least one meter eight!" Although Li Yong was a little disappointed, he did not give up and continued to ask the bottom line.
When Ha Wen said "more than 1.75 meters", Li Yong excitedly patted his legs and applauded: "It's a coincidence, isn't it!" I'm just 1.75 meters, this is simply a godsend! "。
On the road of love, Harvin's father sternly rejected Li Yong's courtship, which made Li Yong feel extremely frustrated. Surprisingly, Li Yong did not give up because of this, but decided to win Havin's heart first.
So on the afternoon of New Year's Day, after the performance, he expressed his love to Harvin, and although he forgot to prepare a gift, he skillfully plucked a wild flower, handed it to Harvin with affection, and said sincerely: "If you agree, take it!" ”。
Harvin quietly took the wildflowers sent by Li Yong, and the two hearts were slowly approaching. Two years later, Li Yong visited Havin's grandmother with his savings and touched Havin's family with his sincere intentions.
Finally, in 1989, they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand and started a new chapter in their lives.
The ES story is a soulful account of his determination and wisdom, and a deep emotional foundation for their future life partner.
After marriage, the relationship between Li Yong and Harvin became deeper and deeper in the tempering of their careers. In order to reunite with her husband, Harvin returned to his alma mater to study TV program production, and after graduation, he was successfully transferred to CCTV with excellent results, opening a chapter in their careers working together.
On the stage of CCTV, the talented couple quickly became the strongest partner. They have co-produced a number of popular programs, such as "Lucky 52", "Very 6+1", "Dream China", etc., which are deeply loved by the audience.
Li Yong's unique humorous hosting style and Harvin's rigorous and meticulous production ability complement each other, and the two show a high degree of tacit understanding and complementarity both in front of and behind the scenes.
Haven's talent has improved dramatically, and she has had a major breakthrough in her career. Since 2012, she has shouldered the responsibility of serving as the chief director of CCTV's Spring Festival Gala, which is a pivotal position in the Chinese television industry, which not only reflects her professional level, but also demonstrates her leadership skills.
Similarly, at the same time, Li Yong's career is also developing steadily, and he has become one of the favorite hosts of the national audience.
However, at the peak of his career, Haven made a surprising decision. In 2015, she resolutely resigned from CCTV and chose to return to her family and become a full-time wife. Behind this decision is Harvin's thoughtfulness about the family.
She realizes that the harmony of a family requires someone to give, and although both people are busy with their careers, they can achieve brilliant results, but it may affect the development of the family.
The relationship between Li Yong and Ha Wen, a couple of mutual support and common achievements, reflects Li Yong's wisdom. Their stories tell us that a true partner is not only a collaborator in a career, but also a dependent in life.
They interpret a happy marriage that supports each other and complements each other with practical actions.
One morning in June 2017, fate played a cruel joke on the happy couple, Li Yong inexplicably felt a wave of nausea and dizziness in the CCTV dressing room, he tried hard to keep working, but eventually fainted in the dressing room.
After being rushed to the hospital, the doctor made a shocking diagnosis that Li Yong had cancer, and it was not in the early stages.
Haven has always been very strong. Although she was also panicked in the face of challenges, she was soon able to face them calmly and discuss solutions with her husband, Li Yong.
Given that their daughter was studying abroad, the two decided to go to United States for treatment under the pretext of being with their daughter. This can not only allow the daughter to study with peace of mind, but also avoid worrying the parents.
This hasty decision aroused suspicion and doubts among the general public, and many people even mistakenly believed that Li Yong and his wife had "made enough money from the Chinese people and went abroad to live happily".
Rumors spread on the Internet, and the good image that Li Yong has built up in the hearts of the audience over the past years has fallen to the bottom.
Faced with overwhelming negative evaluations, Li Yong chose to remain silent. In order not to worry his parents, he would rather endure these groundless accusations and abuse. Harvin also silently accompanies her husband to face this major test of life together.
In the process of United States treatment, Li Yong and Ha Wen supported each other and faced the disease together. Despite being in a foreign country, they have remained optimistic and strong in the face of the unknown outcome of the treatment.
Li Yong is especially concerned about her parents who are far away in China, fearing that they will notice something unusual.
This difficult experience not only reflects Li Yong's deep love for his family, but also shows his composure in the face of difficulties. Harvin's unwavering support during this period is a testament to the depth of their relationship.
Although Li Yong's choice has endured tremendous pressure from public opinion, he has protected his loved ones, and this wisdom and responsibility are worth pondering.
At 5:20 a.m. on October 25, 2018, the sad news of Li Yong's death came United States. The widow Ha Wen used the cloudy "Never Lose My Love" on Sina Weibo to fully demonstrate her incomparable grief and deep reluctance.
This world-shaking news shocked hundreds of millions of viewers and fans who paid attention to Li Yong.
The truth of Li Yong's death after going to the United States was revealed, and the doubts and misunderstandings that had existed disappeared in an instant. Countless people regretted and ashamed of their previous remarks and expressed their condolences to Li Yong on the Internet.
However, the controversy did not end there, and Li Yong's funeral arrangements once again sparked controversy.
Li Yong's funeral was held in the United States on a small scale, with only a few people in attendance. The public was skeptical about his parents' non-attendance, speculating that Harvin deliberately did not invite them, or because he was worried that his in-laws would fight over the inheritance.
In the face of constant doubts, Haven chose to remain silent. It wasn't until later that she explained the reason for this arrangement: it was Li Yong's last wish. Li Yong hopes to sleep beside her daughter for a long time, but at the same time, she can't bear to let her elderly parents cross the ocean and suffer a huge mental blow.
He thinks that if his parents didn't see his body with their own eyes, they might be able to think that he was just traveling to another country.
Although Harvin respected her husband's last wishes, she did not ignore her in-laws' feelings. While handling Li Yong's funeral, Harvin would call his in-laws every night to inquire about their situation and express his concern.
This difficult decision not only reflects Li Yong's thoughtfulness, but also shows Havin's unwavering loyalty to her husband. Their choices, though beyond popular comprehension, are actually to protect their loved ones.
This wisdom and affection, perhaps only those who have experienced the test of life and death can truly understand Li Yong's death, which is not only the curtain call of a public figure, but also a major turning point in a family, testing the wisdom and courage of each family member.
After Li Yong's death, Harvin's behavior further revealed Li Yong's wise choice of mate. After the death of her husband, she did not choose to remarry, but kept her promise to Li Yong and family responsibilities.
Her behavior not only touched Li Yong's parents, but also won the respect of the public.
Ha Wen said to his in-laws many times: "I will always be the daughter-in-law of the Li family, and I will always regard my in-laws as my biological parents." This is not just an empty word, she has fulfilled her promise with practical actions.
Although Li Yong's parents were not short of money, Harvin still regularly sent living expenses to the second elder, hoping that they could improve their lives and eat more nutritious food.
On the basis of financial support, Harvin took great care of his in-laws in terms of spirituality. She often calls to inquire about the health of the two elders and pay attention to their daily life.
In addition, from time to time, Harvin will choose some high-quality health products to visit her in-laws in person, chat with them, and bring warmth and comfort to the family who lost her son with her enthusiasm and love.
Haven is not only out of love for her late husband, but also out of inheritance of traditional Chinese virtues. She uses practical actions to show what is true filial piety and what is a marriage vow that will never fade.
In her understanding, Li Yong's departure does not mean that her fate with the Li family is severed, on the contrary, she should take on the responsibility of taking care of her in-laws.
For Li Yong's parents, although they lost their son forever, Havin's filial piety and affection made them feel that their son's love still existed, and also made them see hope in their grief.
Ha Wen's choice and persistence not only verified Li Yong's vision, but also made people see the power of sincere feelings. She interprets the roles of "wife" and "daughter-in-law" with practical actions, showing a person's character and responsibility.
In this uncertain world, Harvin's perseverance is like a beacon that illuminates people's faith in love and family.
Over time, the public's perception of Haven has changed dramatically. From the initial questioning of Li Yong's funeral arrangements to the later appreciation of Havin's behavior, people began to understand and respect the family's choice.
"Haven is a true temperament, if he has a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for?" Such comments frequently appear on the Internet, reflecting the public's recognition of this relationship.
More than four years after Li Yong's death, Ha Wen, his daughter, and Li Yong's parents gradually came out of the haze of losing their loved ones with each other's support. Instead of being crushed by their grief, they chose to face their new life positively.
Haven continued to study and work, and he did his best to take care of the family. Li Yong's parents, accompanied by their daughter-in-law, gradually found a new rhythm of life.
The story of this family has touched countless people, and it has sparked deep reflection on love, marriage, and family. Li Yong's wisdom is not only reflected in his career, but his marriage choices are also wise.
He found a partner with whom he could walk through the ups and downs of life, and even after he left, the family remained full of love and warmth.
Looking back on the past of Li Yong and Ha Wen, we can see a deep and affectionate love, a warm and happy family, and their perseverance in the face of difficulties. Li Yong's choice shows his foresight - he chose a partner who can not only fight with him in his career, but also support each other in life.
Harvin's performance proves that Li Yong's vision is unique.
The story of this family has become a warm light in people's hearts, inspiring everyone to cherish the people around them and bravely face the challenges of life. This story teaches us that true love and family can transcend life and death, and even in the last moments of life, they can still shine.
Although Li Yong has left us, his wisdom and love continue to influence our lives through Ha Wen and this family.
As the title of the article says: "Li Yong died of illness for 4 years, looking back at the choice of his widow Ha Wen, it can be seen how smart Li Yong is." This wisdom is not only reflected in his life choices, but also in the eternal love he left for his family.