Dear friends, today I want to talk to you about the raging dispute between Wang Xiaofei and Da S.
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We all know that Da S and Wang Xiaofei used to be a loving couple, who would have thought that now because of the custody of the child, there will be a lot of trouble. The breakdown of their marriage is enough to make people sigh, but this custody struggle has pushed this drama to a climax. Xiao Linlin is so pitiful, he should have grown up happily under the love of his parents, but his parents divorced, his father's love and mother's love were lacking, and he couldn't study in school, so he could only have some fun in mobile games.
Big S took the child to Korea, which made the situation even more chaotic. The child gets along with his grandmother so badly, and the pressure on him is great. Back in Taiwan, Big S is good, throwing the child to the nanny, can this not make people question the way she takes care of the child? Wang Xiaofei is on vacation in Europe, thinking about the child and wanting to take the child out to play, but she still has to look at Da S's face. He kept fighting lawsuits for custody, but the court seemed to be still facing the locals, which made Wang Xiaofei difficult.
Xiaobian thinks that the most hurt in this fight is the child. Parents quarrel all day long, how innocent the child is, and they have to endure so much pressure and pain for no reason. What children want is a warm and harmonious home, the company and love of their parents by their side, not as an object for them to fight for.
Think about it from a child's point of view, how fragile their little hearts are. It is the critical time to grow the body and mind, you must have a stable environment, and you must have your parents to take care of you. But Big S and Wang Xiaofei are fighting back and forth, putting the child in a dilemma. Can the child not mutter in his heart? Can you not be anxious and helpless? Maybe when you grow up in the future, you will have a shadow in your heart, which will affect your personality and affect your dealings with people.
Let's talk about Big S, maybe she has her own difficulties and ideas, but throwing the child to the nanny is really not authentic. As a mother, you have to accompany and take care of your children well, not just superficial work. Sometimes overprotection will make children less opportunities to exercise, which is not good for children's growth.
Wang Xiaofei's side, working hard for custody for the sake of the child, this father's love is worth praise. But when fighting, we must also pay attention to ways and means, don't always be tough, too tough is easy to make the contradiction bigger, and it is even more difficult to solve the problem.
Xiaobian really thinks that in this matter, they both have to be calm and calm, and think more about their children. The happiness of the child is the most important thing, let go of the past grievances and grievances, sit down calmly and discuss well, and find the best way for the child together. For example, find a professional counselor to come up with ideas, or find a neutral person to mediate.
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I really hope that Da S and Wang Xiaofei can solve the conflict as soon as possible and give the child a healthy and happy growth environment. Don't let your child live in the shadow of their parents' quarrels every day, so that your child can grow up without heart and lungs. After all, children are innocent, and they deserve a loving childhood.
Friends, what do you think about this custody matter?