Female star Zhao Yihuan was asked by netizens how to celebrate this holiday with her husband in the 520 live broadcast.
Zhao Yihuan, who has always been in love with her boyfriend, suddenly changed her normal state and carefully explained to netizens that when she was not married, she would not call her partner her husband.
The love in her heart is divided into three stages: boyfriend, fiancé, and husband. As soon as the topic came out, it triggered heated discussion among netizens.
Some people may feel that it is very casual to call these things, and they can call them whatever they like. Others say they know this.
Calling the boyfriend a husband in advance during the relationship will instill in men the awareness that the revolution has been successful in advance, which is not conducive to improving the sense of ceremony in the future.
Many people are most impressed by Zhao Yihuan is that she announced her relationship with her boyfriend Li Bourne on Weibo.
When she was bold, she said directly, "Found the man who knelt down as soon as I glanced at it."
Since the public, Zhao Yihuan and her boyfriend also sweetly participated in the wolf reality show "Oops Good Body".
In the show, many people also saw how her boyfriend Lee Bourne sweetly spoiled her.
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How does Zhao Yihuan maintain a sense of proportion in love?
1. Be strict with yourself and your partner
The name Zhao Yihuan may not be very familiar to many people, but she has played the heroine in many plays.
She is best known for her role in the "Adolescence" series of micro-films.
At that time, when the network was not so developed, the "Adolescence" series of micro-movies reached 2 billion views.
This impressive achievement really made Zhao Yi angry.
Since "Adolescence", Zhao Yihuan has also successively acted in several works, but none of them are as popular as "Adolescence".
Slowly faded out of the audience's sight, but also by netizens pointed out that she is the actress who has the fastest powder paste.
Later, after the team re-reformed the direction, Zhao Yihuan transformed and no longer took the sexy style.
She is highly demanding of herself, fitness, pole dancing, and returning to the audience's sight with a healthy and positive image of sunshine.
She has high demands on herself, but she also has requirements for her partner.
Zhao Yihuan's boyfriend Li Bourne, according to the Internet, there are two relatives in the family are doing business, graduated from a famous school, filmed and sang in the show business circle, and the two have known each other for five years.
Li Bourne is good at everything, has patience, knows politeness, has knowledge, is reasonable, and loves Zhao Yihuan.
His only drawback is that he can't control his diet, which leads to excessive obesity and affects his health.
As a girlfriend, Zhao Yihuan's only requirements for Li Bourne are weight loss and exercise.
For ordinary people, it seems that losing weight is not so difficult.
But for Li Bourne, a heavy reliant on high-calorie food, this is the biggest test of his relationship with Zhao Yihuan.
Many people in love will have many dissatisfaction with their partners.
However, blindly being picky will only make your partner feel suspicious. There is a feeling that he is not good, and it is a feeling of disgust for him.
Slowly accumulating less into more, it will become too much dislike, in fact, it is due to not loving him, increasing the misunderstanding of the two people.
When asking each other, at the same time, let the other party see that they are also strict with themselves.
What you can do, why can't the other party do it?
In this way, when explaining the problem, it is more convincing and easier for the other party to understand.
Asking for the right is love, and asking the right is the burden.
2. Absolute softness in getting along
Zhao Yihuan has a cheerful and fiery personality, and her clear requirements for her partner can reflect her sense of proportion in love.
Zhao Yihuan's Weibo post mentioned that she found her boyfriend who knelt down at the first glance. That's her mate selection criterion.
The man she likes, must spoil her and listen to her. Lee Bourne is indeed such a good boyfriend.
In the program "Oops Good Body", Li Bourne is indeed very obedient, and everything he eats depends on Zhao Yihuan's eyes.
When he was eating, he finished eating the noodles and soup in his bowl, and saw that there was still a lot of noodle soup left in Zhao Yihuan's bowl.
He wanted to drink the remaining noodle soup left by Zhao Yihuan, and Zhao directly put the napkin in the bowl.
In the face of this deliberate behavior, Lee Bourne only said softly: "You are really excessive." ”
In fact, Zhao Yihuan was just worried that he kept eating too much high-calorie garbage, and criticized Li Bourne, who saw that Zhao Yihuan was gradually angry, so he obediently took it soft to wash the dishes.
A man who is willing to tolerate at any time, does not quarrel, and is soft in front of lovers is full of love.
No matter how dirty and tired the work, even if it is to deal with camel poop, as long as Zhao Yihuan makes a request, Li Bourne did not refuse.
Well-behaved and cute, spoiled and sweet, even netizens said that Li Bourne is simply a boyfriend of dreams!
Zhao Yihuan's request to Li Bourne is not to lose 30 pounds and not to get married.
Zhao Yihuan's parents think it is good that men are fat, while Li Bourne's father is very supportive of Zhao Yihuan.
At first, Li Xiang also did not understand this confusing requirement, thinking that the character of men marrying is the most important, why should there be requirements for appearance and weight.
After seeing the results of Li Bourne's insistence on weight loss, Li Xiang finally understood: "Men say how much they love you, saying how good they are to you, if even the requirements of losing weight so easily can not be done for their girlfriends, let alone in the future!? ”
The sense of proportion in love determines the rhythm of two people getting along in the future.
When in love, examine each other, make requests that can be done, and consider each other before doing things, not only patiently examining men, but also observing men's true feelings.
If a woman puts her status very low before marriage, it will be difficult to turn over after that.
If you want to be more consistent in a relationship, you must stick to your sense of proportion, not humble, and test comprehensively, which is the best policy.
3. The power of positive communication
In addition to Li Bourne's sweet pet for Zhao Yihuan, the two people also have their own set of methods for getting along: reasoning.
Zhao Yihuan asked Li Bourne to dig a slide on the sand mountain under the big sun, so that he could have both physical exercise and health.
Mr. Good Lee Bourne habitually agreed, thinking that the project could be completed easily, but laid the groundwork for the misunderstanding between the two people.
The slide is very long, and Lee Bourne, who has just started digging, still feels quite relaxed.
Under the scorching sun and the baking of the desert, Li Bourne, who did not eat much because of weight loss, felt extremely hard.
The mood gradually changed from relaxed to negative, and Lee Bourne, who was more and more unhappy, finally stopped speaking.
Lee Bourne, who had been angry all day because of this incident, finally spoke out his hatred when he ate at night.
This made Zhao Yihuan very uncomfortable to hear, and gradually raised the volume, red eyes.
Finding that Zhao Yihuan's mood was not right, Li Bourne first reflected on himself, and it was his own negative emotions that affected Zhao Yihuan.
After calming down again, Li Bourne patiently reasoned with Zhao Yihuan, and he was not the girlfriend who hated to let him lose weight and slip.
I am angry that I have been eating, so fat, to lose weight so hard. After listening to the explanation, Zhao Yihuan quickly became angry. Two people reconciled as ever.
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Communication skills for two people getting along
1. Encourage each other
No matter what happens to Li Bourne, he will encourage Zhao Yihuan and actively guide Zhao Yihuan's emotions.
He would not quarrel with Zhao Yihuan. And when Zhao Yihuan is angry, he will do some very cute actions.
Such as grimaces, or some cute words, to ease the atmosphere
2. Adhere to the sense of ceremony
After a day of exercise, Zhao Yihuan prepared a delicacy for Li Bourne.
Looking at the table full of food, Li Bourne insisted that Zhao Yihuan engage in some pre-dinner "desserts", rewards from the love of lovers.
When Lee Bourne gets along with lovers, he will create a more mischievous atmosphere.
In the matter of kissing, it does not make both parties very stiff, and he asks for the encouragement of his partner's love on the grounds that my cheek is past or your mouth is coming.
After receiving encouragement, he would also cry out to the pool cutely: "The sea, you see, I have successfully kissed." ”
Proper communication can resolve conflicts and build emotional bonds.
This not only reduces friction between lovers, but also increases the sense of trust between lovers.
It is easy to fall in love, it is difficult to get along, and only by clearly grasping the sense of proportion in love can we grasp the initiative, communicate more effectively, and maintain the feelings of lovers.
For feelings more attentively, it can be more solid.
The author | Yubing, graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a film and television analysis researcher at home and abroad, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and improve themselves.