First, in the early 90s of the last century, there was an enviable star couple in the Chinese entertainment industry - Yingda and Song Dandan. Their combination can be called a perfect combination of talented and beautiful women, and they are known as the "golden boy and girl".
Yingda, a young and promising director, is on the rise of his career. The TV series and movies he directed have received praise one after another, and their reputation and results are quite good. His keen artistic vision and innovative spirit have made him a dark horse in the director's industry, and he is known as "the trendsetter in the director's industry".
Song Dandan, who is matched with her, although she was born in a strict military compound, her upbringing was full of drama. When she was young, she was not outstanding in her studies, and she even failed to be admitted to university for two consecutive years.
However, Song Dandan did not give up because of this. With her tenacity and love for acting, she was finally admitted to the famous Beijing People's Art Theater in China and started her acting career.
The union of this pair is not only the union of two hearts who know and love each other, but also a strong alliance in the art career. One is a talented director, and the other is an actor with deep skills, and they have a common language and tacit understanding in their work.
Before 1992, Yingda and Song Dandan's married life could be said to be very happy. They work together and support each other, and they seem so harmonious in both career and life.
In the eyes of outsiders, Yingda and Song Dandan are the "model couple" in the entertainment industry. Their relationship seems to have stood the test of time, enough to make people believe that there is really a love that grows old together and works together for a lifetime.
However, no one expected that this seemingly perfect marriage was about to usher in a storm that could change everything. The turning point of fate is quietly coming, and the dream of this "golden boy and girl" is about to face a severe test.
When Song Dandan found out about her husband's betrayal, her world collapsed instantly. The husband who was once perfect in her mind is now the culprit of her heartbreak.
Second, as a principled woman who is willing to fight for love, Song Dandan did not immediately give up this marriage. She chooses to give Indah a chance, and as long as he can repent and do good, she is willing to continue the relationship.
To Song Dandan's disappointment, Yingda did not cherish this hard-won opportunity. Not only did he not look back, but he was extremely stubborn, and finally chose to elope with the young actress.
It's been a few years, and Yingda seems to have completely forgotten that she still has a wife and a son. Yingda's choice undoubtedly dealt a devastating blow to the family. Song Dandan had to face the reality alone, not only to raise his young son Batu, but also to maintain his own career.
She endured the pain in her heart and gritted her teeth to carry the burden of a person. As for the young Batu, he could not fully understand what was happening, but he sensitively felt the change in the family atmosphere.
The sudden departure of the father cast a shadow over the child's young mind. In the days to come, Batu will grow up in an environment devoid of fatherly love, which will undoubtedly have a profound impact on the formation of his character.
Yingda's betrayal not only destroyed a happy family, but also left Song Dandan and Batu with wounds that are difficult to heal. The breakdown of this marriage marks the complete destruction of the myth once known as a "model couple".
From now on, Song Dandan will continue the journey of life as a single mother, while Yingda, in the arms of her new love, seems to have temporarily forgotten the existence of her own son.
Under the careful care of his mother Song Dandan, Batu gradually grew up. However, the shadow of a lack of fatherly love always hangs over this sensitive child. Whenever he saw other children and their parents at the party, Batu always bowed his head silently, and his heart was filled with bitterness.
He longs for his father's love and a complete home, but the reality is so cruel. From an early age, Batu showed some withdrawn, introverted personality traits. This may be a direct consequence of the lack of role models for fathers.
Although Song Dandan tried her best to give her son love, she could not fully fill the vacancy of the role of a father after all. In the depths of Batu's heart, there is always a wound that cannot be healed.
At the age of 11, with apprehension and anticipation, Batu mustered up the courage to write a letter to Indah. This letter encapsulates the child's longing and longing for fatherly love for many years. Reading between the lines reveals his eagerness to connect with his father.
Batu even asked his father to give him a contact information in the letter, so that he could communicate with him in the future. However, all that awaits Batu is a relentless silence. Yingda didn't even reply a word, and ruthlessly crushed his son's sincere heart.
This feeling of being completely ignored by his biological father is undoubtedly a heavy blow to a child who is in the middle of puberty. What's even more heart-wrenching is that when Batu's grandfather, Indah's father, dies, something happens that completely chills Batu's heart.
Song Dandan, in good faith, specially called Yingda, hoping to let Batu attend his grandfather's funeral. After all, that was Batu's own grandfather and Yingdah's biological father.
Third, Yingda's reaction was incredible. He coldly refused the request, and even said hurtful things like "Batu is not a descendant of the Ying family". This sentence was like a sharp knife that pierced deep into Batu's young heart.
From that moment on, Batu understood that he was nothing more than a dispensable existence in his father's heart. These experiences have caused great psychological trauma to Batu. He began to develop a strong resistance to Yingdah, and even held a grudge against the man who had never given him his father's love.
However, as a mother, Song Dandan saw it in her eyes and was anxious. She has always worked hard to teach Batu to be virtuous and not to hold a grudge against Indah. Despite this, Batu's inner pain is difficult to erase.
This lack of father's growth experience deeply affected his character formation and outlook on life. He had to learn to be independent, to find his place in a world without a father.
This road to find his father is full of bitterness and bitterness, but it also makes Batu stronger. Although the shadow of childhood has always haunted his heart, with the encouragement of his mother Song Dandan and his unremitting efforts, Batu gradually came out of the haze.
He began to make a name for himself in his career, showing great talent and ability. Fate seems to have finally smiled at this long-suffering young man. Batu's success didn't happen overnight, but because of his dedication and love for his work.
He inherited his mother's tenacity and his father's talent, and gradually gained a foothold in the entertainment industry. Although Batuu's career achievements are not specifically mentioned in the article, we can speculate that he may have achieved some success in acting or directing, and won industry recognition.
While his career was thriving, Batu also gained his own love. He met and knew the actress Wang Bogu who he had loved for a long time, and the two soon fell in love.
Wang Bogu is gentle and considerate, understands Batu's past, and gives him unconditional support and love. This relationship is like a long drought and a rainstorm, which heals the wounds in Batu's heart for many years.
The next year, the good news came that Wang Bogu was pregnant with Batu's child. The arrival of this new life made Batu feel unprecedented happiness and responsibility. He secretly vowed to be a good father, give his children full love, and make up for the lack of his childhood.
Fourth, with the blessing of relatives and friends, Batu and Wang Bogu held a warm and low-key wedding. This child, who once lacked fatherly love, now finally has a small family of his own.
He cherishes his hard-won happiness and manages this relationship and family life with his heart. Since then, Batu has lived the happy life he has always dreamed of. At work, he continues to work hard and keep forging ahead; In the family, he was a gentle and considerate husband and loving father.
Batu is deeply grateful to his mother Song Dandan for her dedication and perseverance over the years, and it is her love that has allowed her to grow into such an excellent person as she is today. In 2024, a sudden news shatters Batu's peaceful life.
When she learns that Batu has a child of her own, Indah suddenly shows interest in this "own grandson". He offered to see his grandson, whom he had never met, as if he wanted to play the role of a loving elder again.
This sudden "family" move caused Song Dandan's anger. The resentment and disappointment that had accumulated over the years exploded in full swing at this moment. Song Dandan unceremoniously pointed out Yingda's neglect and hurt of Batu over the years, and asked him why he only remembered to be a father now.
She angrily counted down Inda and criticized him from head to toe. Song Dandan's words were full of disappointment and anger towards Yingda. She questioned Yingdah, how could she be so ruthless to Batu back then, and now she remembered to be a kind grandfather? How Batu has grown up without father's love over the years, doesn't Yingda care at all? Faced with Song Dandan's questioning, Yingda was speechless.
He probably didn't expect his actions to provoke such a strong reaction. Yingda was speechless, and finally had to leave in disgrace. This scene completely exposed Yingda's indifference and ruthlessness over the years, and also tore off the mask of "loving father" he tried to wear.
When Batu learned of this, he completely lost the last trace of affection for this blood father. He understands that a truly loving father will not choose to leave his children when they need them most, let alone remember to do their part when they are adults.
Yingda's move is undoubtedly trying to redeem her role as a father and grandfather. However, Batu's success and happiness have ruthlessly torn off this layer of hypocritical disguise.
Fifth, it reveals a brutal truth: even though Batu has started a family, Indah still cannot truly understand and fulfill the responsibilities of a father. This incident became the end of the relationship between Batu and Yingda.
It not only completely shattered Yingdah's illusion of wanting to rebuild the relationship between father and son, but also made Batu cherish his existing happy life even more. After so many twists and turns, Batu was not consumed by hatred and resentment.
Instead, he chose to approach life with a more open-minded and tolerant mindset. This attitude not only shows Batu's maturity, but also shows the strength of his heart.
Talking about his own experience, Batu said something thought-provoking: "Life is like this, often when you feel the most painful, the truth will be revealed.
I am already very content to live such a life now, so why bother with some unsatisfactory things in the past? These words not only reflect Batu's open-mindedness and wisdom, but also the best interpretation of that painful past.
Instead of choosing to dwell on the pain of the past, he learned to let go and to cherish the happiness he has now. Batu proves with his actions that true success is not only the fulfillment of career and family, but also an attitude towards life that can transcend pain and be tolerant.
He saw through the hypocrisy of the world, but he did not become cynical because of it. Instead, he chose to approach the world with understanding and tolerance. This positive attitude towards life is undoubtedly Batu's most valuable asset.
It not only helped him get out of the haze of his childhood, but also allowed him to maintain a calm mind when facing Yingdah. Batu's story teaches us a vivid life lesson, teaching us how to grow in the face of adversity and how to find strength in pain.