Every relationship is like an exhibit that tells a different story. If you're sad alone in a corner of the exhibition, then perhaps it's time to stop and re-examine the authenticity of that feeling. Because if he really loves you, he will be more afraid of missing you than you, he will be more afraid of you being uncomfortable than you, and you will not be so sad again.
"True love is silent, and love is unharmed. When a person truly loves you, his every action and every word will revolve around the love and protection of you. He will be like the brave sailor, who will never let his beloved ship be tossed even by the rough waves.
Imagine that if he had you in his heart, he would not let you face difficulties alone, because for him, missing you means losing the beacon of life. He will show up when you need it, not to appear important, but because he wants to be your dependence. He will care about your feelings, because your happiness is his desire, and your sadness is his pain.
If you are always the one who stands alone in difficult situations, the one who wipes tears in the dead of night, then you should probably wonder if this relationship is really giving you the cherishing it deserves.
A person who truly loves you will not let you suffer unnecessary sadness, because he will be afraid of losing you and afraid that you will be wronged a little.
Of course, this does not mean that there will not be any friction and problems in true love, but that when there is a problem, two people will face it together, rather than leaving you to bear it alone. Love should be a mutual process, a journey in which two people decide together to move forward hand in hand.
So, when you're feeling sad in love, ask yourself: Is he really more afraid of missing you than you are? Is he really more afraid of you than you are?
If the answer to both questions is yes, then your sadness is likely to be only temporary and a small episode in the process of growing up. But if the answer is no, then you may need to reconsider the value of the relationship.
Remember, you deserve someone who is not willing to make you sad, someone who holds an umbrella for you in the storm, someone who gives you a warm hug when you are lost. Don't let yourself get caught up in endless sadness, your happiness, your mood, shouldn't go unnoticed.
Let's look for the partner who is willing to sail alongside us, the harbor that won't leave us alone even when the storm comes. This kind of love is worthy of the true love and time we give.