I saw a thought-provoking passage: "The people who contact you every day are not because they are idle and bored, but because they have deep feelings for you; The person who takes the initiative to care about you is not because there is too much time, but because you have an important place in his heart.
People who really care about you will set aside time for you no matter how busy they are, are willing to share the bits and pieces of life with you, respond to your every message seriously, will not be perfunctory, will not be indifferent, they will regard you as the most important existence in life.
No matter how busy you are, don't ignore the person who treats you sincerely, even if you are irritable, don't snub the heart that always thinks about you, after all, it is not easy to meet in life, and a turn may be forever. ”
As Zhang Ailing said: "When you meet the person you want to meet in the vast sea of people, in the long river of time, neither early nor late, just in time, there is nothing else to say, you can only ask softly: 'Oh, are you here too?'" Every encounter in life is a rare fate, and those who treat us sincerely are even more valuable.
In this complex world, everyone is busy on their own life trajectory. However, there are always some people who are willing to make room for you in the midst of their busyness and warm your heart with their care and companionship. It's not that they're idle, it's because you have a very important place in their hearts.
"There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor." Wang Bo's poem makes us feel the power of sincere friendship. Even if they are thousands of miles apart, as long as there is each other in their hearts, that friendship will not fade. A true friend will not reduce contact because of the distance, and will not ignore your feelings because of the busyness of life. They will be there for you when you need it, giving you support and encouragement.
The same is true of love. The person who has you in his heart will still remember to give you a greeting after busy work; At the end of a tiring day, listen patiently to your heart. As Qin Guan said: "If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight." "True love is not about staying together all the time, but about caring for each other in the depths of the heart.
In real life, we often neglect the people around us who really treat us because we are busy. We always use "busy" as an excuse to alienate those who were once close friends; We are always indifferent and impatient to the care of our loved ones because of momentary annoyance. As everyone knows, such behavior may inadvertently hurt their hearts.
"Flowers can be broken straight and must be broken, don't wait for no flowers and empty branches." This poem reminds us to cherish the present moment and grasp the beauty in front of us. Don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it, and don't wait until you miss it to regret it. Because some people, once they miss it, they may never be able to get it back.
Mr. Lu Xun once said: "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat it with the same heart." "When we have the person who is truly free for us, whether it is a friend or a lover, we should cherish it. Respond to their care with our sincerity, and prove their importance in our hearts with our actions.
Cherish the person who contacts you every day, because every greeting they give is from the heart; Cherish the person who takes the initiative to care for you, because every care they give is an outpouring of true feelings. Don't take their efforts for granted, learn to be grateful and learn to reciprocate.
"The farthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but I stand in front of you, and you don't know that I love you." This poem by Rabindranath Tagore makes us think deeply about the subtleties of emotions between people. Sometimes, we obviously have each other's sincerity, but we don't notice it because of our own negligence, which makes this relationship dusty.
In the journey of life, let us learn to stop the hurried steps and feel the warmth around us with our hearts. Don't let your busy life blind us, and don't let trivial things kill our true feelings. Cherish every moment with a sincere person, and let this friendship shine in the long river of years.
"The mountains and rivers are empty, and the falling flowers and wind and rain hurt the spring even more. It's better to take pity on the people in front of you. Yan Shu's words tell us that instead of nostalgia for people and things in the distance, it is better to cherish what we have in front of us. The person who has you in his heart is by your side, and they are the most valuable treasure in your life.
Let us treat those who treat us with a grateful heart, and take care of their hearts with our love. Because, in this world, sincerity is the rarest, and affection is the most precious. Only by cherishing sincerity and being affectionate will our lives be more fulfilling and better.
When we look back on the past, we will not regret that we missed our sincerity, and we will not regret that we have lived up to our affection. Instead, we will be filled with warmth and emotion in our hearts, because we know how to cherish and grasp the best emotions in life.
Please cherish the person who is free for you, and cherish the heart that always thinks about you. Let us embrace the truth with sincerity and write a wonderful chapter of our own with love in this short and beautiful life. Because, it is not easy to meet, and it is even more difficult to stay together, only by cherishing can it be eternal.