Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love is like a beam of light that shines in your world, allowing you to see hope and see light.
A man truly loves you, and in his eyes, you are priceless. Owning you, making it worth it for him to give everything.
After being with the woman he loves, the man will try to take on his responsibilities, manage his life well, and improve his abilities to give his beloved more security.
Women, when men, treat you as a beloved, a sign of truly spoiling you, two words: give up.
02. Give up your bottom line and compromise with you everywhere
Once, I went to visit a buddy's house. As soon as I entered the door, I was attracted by the decoration style of the home.
The whole room is decorated like a fairy tale, with a blue roof, light pink walls, and furniture that is also cartoonish and cute, which is extremely inconsistent with his preferences.
I remember that his favorite color was black, white and gray.
I asked him what was going on, and he was embarrassed to say, "My wife likes it, so I redecorated it." ”
Looking at his dress, it is also obviously different from before. Dressed younger, no longer looking old-fashioned.
He said that his wife bought clothes, shoes, and everything in the house. It turns out that if you love someone, a man will rest assured that he will leave everything to her to take care of.
A man loves you, puts you in a very important place in his heart, and he gives up his bottom line for you.
He will be willing to change his habits for many years for you, and he will change himself according to your preferences.
Gradually, you will find that what you love to eat is what he loves to eat, and your habits are his habits.
Writer Su Xin said: "In this world, no one is more stupid than others, some people admit it for you, some people forbear it for you, and some people support you unconditionally, just because of deep love." ”
When a man gives up the bottom line for you, plans his life by you, and even changes his life, he readily accepts it, then he really loves you.
03. Give up your own plan and be willing to rewrite your life for you
Sun Yulou in "Jade Mansion Spring" is a rich boy, and he spends his days drinking and messing around.
He doesn't like to read or write, he doesn't want to enter officialdom, and he doesn't want to live a life of deceit.
However, when he met Lin Shaochun, everything became different.
Shaochun hopes that he can gain fame and fame in the future, so that there will be fewer unjust cases in this world.
In order to be recognized by Lin Shaochun, Sun Yulou began to study hard, gained fame, and became a good official, which completely rewrote his fate.
A man really spoils you, and he will imprint you in his life. For your sake, he is willing to give up his plans and rewrite his life for you.
As Wang Xiaobo wrote in "Loving You Like Loving Life": "You are so cute, people love you so much." As soon as you come, I am determined to live a serious life, not a sloppy life, even if it takes painstaking effort, even if I have to sacrifice. ”
Perhaps, he used to live a chaotic life, and he had to get by. But, for your sake, he began to fight hard.
Set goals for yourself, add you to your future plans, and work for your happy future. Even if the road of life is difficult, he has to try it desperately.
04. Give up your preferences and accommodate you in life
Women, men who really love you, he will accommodate you in life.
Even, for the sake of you, he is willing to change some of his living habits and give up some of his preferences, just to get along better with you.
You like to drink coffee, he likes to drink tea, but he is willing to give up the teahouse and accompany you to the atmospheric coffee shop.
You like to eat hot pot, he likes to eat light food, he will still accompany you to eat hot pot, and he will not spoil your interest.
You like him to wear bright clothes, you like him to wear sneakers, he changes his previous dressing style, even if he is not used to it, but if you like it, he will try to adapt.
In the past, he liked to play games and stay up late, but when you got angry and didn't want him to play, he really got rid of this bad habit.
A man spoils you from the bottom of his heart, and he will change his living habits for you, just to accommodate you better.
Ni Yining wrote in "Give Me a Reason to Fight in Armor Again": "What can give people a sense of security is never love but preference. ”
Living with you, he is willing to accommodate you and listen to you. As long as you're happy, he'll find it worth it.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
A woman, a man who truly loves you, will put you in the most important position in his heart, and he is willing to accommodate you and compromise for you.
Living with you, he will always lower the bottom line for you, silently guard you, accompany you, and make you happy.
No matter how boring life is and how ordinary the days are, he will still hold you in the palm of his hand and spoil you.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.