Recently, a video has sparked heated discussions on the Internet, in which a low-level woman works alone with two children, facing the pressure of life and the crying of her children, her emotions are uncontrollable, and she feels unable to be a good mother. Such a picture is poignant, and it also makes people have a lot of conjectures and discussions about the fertility of the poor.
For a long time, the topic of the poor people's childbirth has attracted much attention, and some people think that the poor have children in order to continue suffering, so that children come to this world to suffer with themselves, so not having children is a kind of kindness; There are also people who believe that childbearing is the mission of every woman, and whether she is rich or poor, she should be brave enough to give birth to children.
Such topics involve marriage, childbirth, family and society, etc., which require us to look at them with a more rational and inclusive attitude, and also need more people to pay attention to and conjecture, and give appropriate help and support.
First, the content of the video has sparked heated discussions
Recently, a video has sparked heated discussions on the Internet, in which a low-level woman works alone with two children, facing the pressure of life and the crying of her children, her emotions are uncontrollable, and she feels unable to be a good mother. Such a picture is poignant, and it also makes people have a lot of conjectures and discussions about the fertility of the poor.
In the video, the woman's living environment is very simple, she lives in a small rental house with her children, and the daily necessities and children's toys are very messy, and it can be seen that she does not have much energy and time to take care of these trivial tasks.
And at work, women also need to take care of their children, but the children cry non-stop, and women's emotions have become very bad, she can't control her emotions, and even pulls the child hard, which makes people feel very distressed.
Through such videos, we can see the life difficulties and sad encounters faced by low-level women under the pressure of raising children and working alone, and it also makes people have many conjectures and touches about the fertility of the poor.
2. The pros and cons of fertility for the poor
1. Fertility is a mission
Regarding childbirth, some people believe that no matter whether they are poor or rich, they should be brave enough to give birth to children, because childbirth is the mission of every woman and the source of happiness for the family.
No matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks you encounter in life, you should face them bravely, because with the company and encouragement of children, life will become better and more meaningful.
Moreover, the birth of a child will also bring endless joy and happiness to the family, no matter what difficulties and setbacks are encountered, they will become strong and brave because of the child, and they will also know more responsibility and love.
2. Don't have children because you're poor
However, there are also people who believe that it is not necessary to have children because they are poor, and that childbearing is not something that every woman has to go through, and that not every family can afford the responsibility and pressure.
Especially in today's society, the pressure of life is very great, if the family conditions are relatively poor, the living environment is relatively simple, then the child's growth environment will be affected to a certain extent, and even affect the child's physical and mental health.
Moreover, the current social competition is very fierce, if the child does not get a good education and growth environment, he will face difficulties in employment and development in the future, and even continue to perpetuate the poverty of the family, which is not a good result for the child.
3. Perpetuating suffering or kindness
Some people think that the poor give birth to children in order to continue suffering, so that children come to this world to suffer with themselves, so not having children is a kind of kindness, and it is also for the sake of children.
If the family conditions are relatively poor and the parents' feelings are relatively fragile, then the child's growth environment will be affected to a certain extent, and even face family conflicts and pressure, such children will easily become unhappy and even hurt.
Moreover, there are many unfairness in the current society, if there is not enough ability and background, it is difficult to gain a foothold in this society, and it is difficult to get the respect and care it deserves, and the future life path of such children will be full of ups and downs and setbacks.
3. How to treat the fertility of the poor
1. Social support and assistance
We should take a more rational and inclusive approach to the issue of childbirth for the poor, and we should also give appropriate help and support.
The problem of fertility is not only about personal choice, but also about social systems, policies and resource allocation.
On the issue of childbirth for the poor, we should provide more social support and help, not just moral condemnation and dissuasion, but through policy support and charitable help, so that these families can feel the warmth and care of the society, and also let children get a better growth environment and educational resources.
2. Pay attention to marriage and family education
In addition, we should also pay attention to marriage and family education to avoid unhappiness and suffering of children due to family conflicts and pressures.
Both parents and society should give their children enough care and companionship, so that they can thrive in a healthy and happy growth environment, and also educate them to know how to be grateful and responsible, so that they can become talents who are beneficial to society.
3. Pay attention to the working and living environment of women at the bottom
We should also pay attention to the working and living environment of women at the bottom, give them more career opportunities and welfare protection, avoid them falling into a dilemma between work and raising children, and also allow them to have the ability and confidence to raise their children well.
Epilogue:
Childbirth is something that every woman will experience, and it is also an important guarantee for social development and progress, but in the face of the problem of poor people's childbirth, we need to look at it with a more rational and inclusive attitude, and we also need to give appropriate help and support.
Whether it is childbirth or education, it requires the joint participation and efforts of the society to give every child a fair and beautiful opportunity to grow up, and to make the society more harmonious and happy.