Aya's growth in the shadow of Big and Small S: a challenging start
In Aya's art school life, every moment is like a long ordeal. In order to be able to join the circle of big and small S, she had to endure some life-threatening behaviors. Aya's eyes gleamed with a desire to be accepted, but the frequent taunts dimmed her light.
The big S sisters unscrupulously belittled Aya for her appearance and figure, ridiculing her for her "ugly appearance and bloated figure", and even said that she "still has a crooked mouth when she laughs". Aya became a "harlequin" in the girlfriend group, and her self-esteem was crushed again and again. Aya's heart aches whenever she hears those harsh mockery, but she can only force a smile and say "I don't care".
However, this injury is not only physical, but also deeply affects Aya's heart. Her eyes began to fill with uneasiness and doubt, and her inferiority complex grew stronger.
Despite this, she still chose to back down and put herself in a humble position, which undoubtedly fueled the arrogance of the Xu sisters, making them even more provocative, and even forcing Aya to do some irrational behavior.
However, Aya's tolerance did not exchange for their "forgiveness", but made the size S even more inches. Big S's desire to control Aya is particularly extreme. Once in an exam, just because Aya didn't help her cheat, Big S broke off relations with Aya for a whole year.
Aya stood in the school corridor, watching Da S pass by indifferently, and the grievances in her heart came like a tide, but she still chose to be silent.
This experience had a profound impact on Aya's psyche, and even after 20 years, she still couldn't really harden up in the circle of the Xu sisters. In 2019, when Aya and the S sisters participated in the variety show recording together, this relationship still existed.
When Aya proposed that everyone go rowing together, Da S directly sang the opposite tune, with anger in his toneAya was worried that the show would be criticized after it was broadcast, so she could only quickly say some good things to round the scene, and finally had to swallow this breath.
However, these difficult experiences were the foreshadowing of Aya's future transformation. Her story reminds us that friendship should be equal, and that those so-called "jokes" are not funny and even transcend moral boundaries.
Aya's experience became her motivation to find herself and pursue happiness in the future.
The love story of Aya and the Living Buddha - "Love Across the Mountains and Seas"
Before 2014, Aya's love life was like a romantic adventure across time and space. She maintained an ultra-long-distance relationship with Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche, which withstood the test of time and space.
There is not only a 12-hour time difference between Aya and Dzokchen Ponlop Rinpoche, but also a straight-line distance of 9,884 kilometers. Although they can only see each other three or four times a year, each time they get together is precious.
Aya has been working in mainland China and Taiwan, while her boyfriend has been in the United States, and in this case, they still hold on to their relationship for seven years.
In this relationship, Aya showed extraordinary patience and persistence. Her choice is in stark contrast to the mate selection concept of some celebrities who "don't marry a wealthy family".
Although Aya and Dzogchen Ponle Rinpoche are 13 years apart, they share a common belief and love to play rock 'n' roll, which has become the bond that binds them together.
At first, Aya kept a low profile about the relationship, announcing that her boyfriend was in the IT industry. This may be to avoid media interference in the private life of Dzokchen Bunle Rinpoche. Aya's thoughtfulness and understanding were important factors in the continuity of this relationship.
Aya was originally an unmarried person and had a free and easy attitude towards life. However, an unexpected pregnancy in 2013 made Aya re-examine her outlook on life. This accident became a turning point in her life.
She decided to change her mind and agreed to get married to Drukchen Bunle Rinpoche.
This experience witnessed Aya's dedication to love and her courage to change and accept life's challenges. The love story of Aya and Dzogchen Ponle Rinpoche transcends the boundaries of age, distance and culture, demonstrating the power of genuine affection.
It is this kind of persistence and courage that laid the foundation for Aya's happy life in the future, and also allowed her to gradually grow from a follower of the big and small S to an independent woman.
Aya's gorgeous turn in life is: meet true love.
In 2014, Aya shook the entertainment industry in an unexpected way. She publicly told everyone that she was married and had a daughter, and the news instantly sparked a heated discussion among the public.
At that time, while everyone was speculating about who Aya's husband was, an answer that surprised everyone was revealed - Aya married a monk who had already returned to the world, the Living Buddha Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche.
The middle-aged man in a robe and gold-rimmed glasses has a high status in Tibetan Buddhism, and his followers are said to include the princess and the famous actor Tony Leung. Aya's choice to marry shatters the public's traditional perception of her.
Not only is Dzhuchen Ponlop Rinpoche 13 years older than Aya, but he also has a special status, so Aya's married life has attracted much attention.
However, life after marriage is not as simple as a fairy tale. Aya takes care of her daughter alone in Taiwan, while her husband works in United States. Although Aya's life is difficult, she seems to have found her happiness.
She does not take it as her responsibility to reproduce children, and she naturally satisfies this open-minded attitude by having a daughter with her husband, which is in stark contrast to the married life of big and small S.
Aya's married life has aroused a lot of questions, and some media have asked, is this kind of marriage with less gathering and more separation really happy? However, Aya seems to be unfazed by this, and her life situation shows an unprecedented sense of open-mindedness.
This marriage not only made Aya happy, but also gave her a strong backing. When she faced Big S again, she was no longer the submissive follower. During a variety show recording in 2019, when Big S expressed dissatisfaction with Aya's boating proposal, although Aya still chose to back down, her attitude has changed significantly.
More importantly, this marriage provided Aya with a stable financial foundation. Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche's financial strength enabled Aya to pursue her career aspirations without having to rely on others.
Aya's choice to marry became an important turning point in her life. Not only did this change bring about a new state of life, but more importantly, it helped Aya rediscover her self-worth and pave the way for her future growth and success.
From the follower who was once belittled by the size of S, to the happy and stable life now, Aya's transformation is all remarkable.
Breaking into a Butterfly: Aya's journey of self-awakening
Aya, who is married, has found a new direction in her life. She is no longer satisfied with Xiao S's follower, but chooses to start a journey of self-growth. Aya did not hesitate to give up her career and resolutely chose to go abroad for further study.
This decision reflects her determination to pursue personal growth and independence.
Aya's efforts paid off. After years of preparation, in 2018, she launched her solo show "Adventures in Life". As soon as this show was broadcast, it received countless praises, making Aya make a major breakthrough in her career.
Aya combines years of hosting experience with newly learned knowledge to successfully create a unique program style.
In the process, Aya has shown amazing perseverance and ability to learn. The "harlequin" who was once ridiculed has now grown into a host who is in charge of himself. Aya's success is not only reflected in her career, but more importantly, her inner growth.
The girl who once sacrificed herself in order to fit into the circle of big and small S, has now learned to respect and love herself, and does not have to rely on the approval of others to prove her worth, but shows her inner confidence and charm.
Aya's growth is also reflected in the transformation of her relationship with the big and small S. Although she chose to back down in the variety show in 2019, she is no longer the follower who completely obeys the big and small S.
She has learned to take care of other people's emotions while also taking into account her own needs.
This experience made Aya realize that true growth is not about surpassing others, but about surpassing her past self. She has grown from a "pleasing personality" to an independent woman who can stick to herself.
Aya's successful transformation is not only her personal achievement, but also sets a benchmark for many people, demonstrating the power of self-realization. Her experience tells us that as long as we stick to ourselves and continue to learn and grow, everyone has the potential to break through their limitations and achieve a magnificent transformation in life.
Cultivating the right fruit: Aya's road to a happy life winner
Today's Aya is already a winner in life and lives an enviable life. She and her husband, Dzhuchen Bunlop Rinpoche, live in a mansion worth tens of millions. Aya's daily life revolves around happily bringing up a baby, no longer wronging herself to cater to others, but truly living the way she wants.
In her career, Aya has found her own position, she is no longer a foil for big and small S, but has become a host and producer who is in charge of herself.
Her show "Adventures in Life" continues to receive praise, this show was carefully prepared by her for ten years of hard work, and has received countless praises since it was broadcast.
Aya's years of experience as a moderator and Djokchen Ponlop Rinpoche's strong financial foundation have enabled her to find a balance between career and family, no longer neglecting her own needs in order to please others, and learning to take care of herself while taking care of others.
Looking back on the past, Aya's upbringing is impressive. She has grown from a small follower who did not fight or grab at the beginning, to an open-minded and confident woman. Aya's transformation is not only reflected in external success, but also in inner growth and progress.
Now she has gotten rid of the shadow of being belittled by the size S back then, and has found her own way of life.
Compared with the married life of Big and Small S, Aya's happiness is more distinct. When Big S's marriage was in trouble, and Little S gave birth to a boy for her husband's family, Aya was able to face life calmly, and did not take reproduction as her mission, and a daughter already made her feel very satisfied.
Aya's success lies not only in material abundance, but more importantly in her inner peace and contentment. She used her own experience to prove that as long as you stick to yourself and continue to grow, everyone has the potential to become the protagonist of their own life.
The reason behind Aya's transformation from a ridiculed "harlequin" to a winner in life lies in her persistence and continuous growth. Her story is undoubtedly a stark example of how everyone can draw strength from it, showing how to rise in the face of adversity and finally win a happy life of their own.