In order to allow their children to get good grades and be admitted to a good university, many parents are heartbroken, not only spending a lot of money to make up classes for their children, but also acting as accompanying parents, responsible for their children's diet and daily life, and supervising their children's learning.
But can this kind of dedication be exchanged for good grades for children? Not necessarily, I'm afraid
A few days ago, a parent in Jilin expressed his disappointment with his son on social platforms: their family belongs to the ordinary working class, and in order to train their children to become college students, the two of them have tried their best, usually saving money and spending as much as possible on their children's studies. In three years of high school, she spent about 100,000 yuan on make-up fees, and she also moved to accompany her near the school, with an annual rent of more than 30,000 yuan. Unexpectedly, this year, my son was only admitted to a private undergraduate, and the tuition fee for a year was 52,000.
Faced with such a result, the two of them were very disappointed, but the son said that although there are college students everywhere now, he also wants to go to college, even if it is two books.
After listening to her son's words, she couldn't hold back at all, crying and scolding loudly: Why did you sign up? Don't you know what it's like at home! Give me a part-time job!
Afterwards, after discussion, the two of them still thought that it was useless to let their son study in a private undergraduate, and they couldn't learn any useful knowledge, so it was better to go out to work and make money.
Once the related post was released, it resonated with many netizens, and many netizens recognized the choice of the parents, believing that the current private undergraduate degree is not competitive in employment, and there is no need to study, it is better to go out and work directly.
Some netizens suggested that children should go back to repeat their studies and strive to be admitted to public undergraduates next year. Some netizens also think that rereading is a redundant move, parents have been studying like this for three years, and they have made up classes, which shows that the child's learning attitude and learning ability are very problematic, and rereading cannot be scored.
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The three-year make-up fee for high school is 100,000 yuan, plus the rent and other expenses for accompanying the students, 200,000 yuan is indispensable, but the child was only admitted to a private undergraduate, and it is impossible for parents not to be disappointed.
To be honest, in the current society is becoming more and more involuted, although academic qualifications are depreciated, they are necessary when looking for a job, and many jobs without a bachelor's degree have no opportunities at all. However, judging from the reaction of parents, it is not that they do not want their children to go to private undergraduates, but that they really cannot afford the high tuition fees.
I have to say that this is the sadness of many children from ordinary families. Obviously, the family conditions are not good, but he is unwilling to work hard, and he will only realize the bad consequences later, but everything is irreparable.
Of course, in front of the parent, in addition to letting the child go out to work, there are two ways: one is to let the child go back to repeat his studies and strive to be admitted to a public undergraduate next year, and the tuition fee will be much lower; The second is to let the child go to a technical school, and then go out to work after learning a skill, so that the child can find a job better.
Either choice depends on the child's personal awareness. If he doesn't work hard, no matter how much his parents worry about it, no matter how good the plan is, it will be in vain.
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