Tsinghua female doctor Feng Yao artificially implanted two embryos, but two months later suddenly split into three babies.
I thought this was a great thing, but after the doctor's examination, he said with a sad face:
"If you want your child to be born healthy, if you want to live well, you have to reduce the baby."
Hearing this, the female doctor decisively refused, the child in the belly was full of meat on the palms and backs of her hands, and now she wants to give up a child, so how can she bear it?
So she insisted on giving birth to triplets despite the doctor's advice, but she didn't expect something terrible to happen......
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Tsinghua doctor Feng Yao and her husband Chang Baojun are both top students of Tsinghua University, they met, knew and fell in love on campus, and finally entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
They are like-minded, have successful careers, and seem to have everything that the world envies. However, the heavens always seem to love to joke with perfection.
After eight years of marriage, Feng Yao's stomach has never moved, which has become an unspeakable pain in the hearts of this talented couple.
At first, they didn't think so. After all, both of them are focused on their careers and feel that sooner or later a child will come.
But as time passed, the concern of family and friends gradually turned into pressure. Some people say that Chang Baojun can't do it, and some people say that Feng Yao won't be born. These gossips were like sharp knives that pierced the couple's hearts.
Feng Yao began to become anxious and often cried alone. Although Chang Baojun is strong on the surface, he is also full of self-blame in his heart.
They tried various methods, Chinese medicine conditioning, Western medicine treatment, and even asked for help from home remedies, but Feng Yao's stomach still didn't move.
After experiencing numerous disappointments and pains, they decided to try IVF.
This decision was not easy to come by, and it is not only a trust in technology, but also an insistence on love. To increase the success rate, they chose to grow two embryos at the same time.
When the doctor informed them that the transplant had been successful, Feng Yao and Chang Baojun cried with joy.
Years of waiting have finally paid off, and they seem to see the dawn of hope.
However, fate once again gave them an unexpected surprise - two embryos actually split into three.
This news exploded like a bombshell in the couple's world. Feng Yao was ecstatic, and Chang Baojun was even more overjoyed.
However, the doctor's next words were like a basin of cold water, dooming their joy.
The doctor solemnly told them that triplets pregnancy is extremely demanding for pregnant women, which will not only bring a huge burden to Feng Yao's body, but may even endanger her life.
The doctor advised them to consider reducing the fetus, which is not only safer, but also better for the healthy development of the remaining fetus.
This suggestion plunged Feng Yao into a deep conflict.
As a highly educated intellectual, she fully understands the concerns of doctors. But as a long-awaited mother-to-be, how could she easily give up any hard-won life?
In Feng Yao's view, these three children are gifts from God, and they are the crystallization of her and Chang Baojun's love. Choosing to subtract any of them is disrespectful to life and a betrayal of love.
She couldn't imagine how she would face this cruel choice if her child was born in the future. It will be a wound that will never heal, a hurdle that will never be crossed.
However, doctors' concerns are not unfounded. When she entered her seventh month of pregnancy, Feng Yao was diagnosed with gestational hypertension.
This is an extremely dangerous complication that can endanger the life of both the pregnant woman and the fetus at any time. Again, the doctor recommended an immediate caesarean section to ensure the safety of the mother and baby.
But Feng Yao again rejected the doctor's advice. She felt that she was not experiencing significant symptoms and that her seven-month-old baby was too small. She hopes to allow her children to spend more time in their wombs and absorb more nutrients so that they can better face the challenges that lie ahead.
The decision was deeply worrying to the doctors, but they were helpless. After all, such a major surgery must be approved by the patient himself. Feng Yao's insistence made everyone fall into a nervous waiting.
However, danger always creeps in when people are most unaware of it.
Just when Feng Yao thought she would be able to hold on to the end, her body suddenly had a serious complication - severe preeclampsia.
It is an extremely dangerous pregnancy complication that can lead to organ failure and even life-threatening in pregnant women.
The doctors held an emergency meeting and agreed that a caesarean section must be performed immediately, otherwise the lives of all four mothers and children would be in danger. This time, Feng Yao finally realized the seriousness of the situation and had to agree to the operation.
In the operating room, the hospital's top team of experts is gathered. Specialists in obstetrics, pediatrics, and anesthesiology perform their duties to prepare for the challenges that lie ahead. The first child was removed soon after the operation began.
However, when they saw the child's condition, everyone gasped.
The baby boy was purple all over, did not cry, and breathed weakly. Doctors immediately began emergency resuscitation.
At this moment, the second child was also taken out, and the situation was the same as that of the eldest brother.
The third child, although in slightly better condition, is still far from a normal newborn.
All three children were rushed to the neonatal intensive care unit. At the same time, the doctors in the operating room are still fighting to save Feng Yao's life.
The complications of a prolonged pregnancy had severely impaired her bodily functions, and the procedure was extremely difficult.
In the intensive care unit, three fragile lives are in a race against death.
Doctors diagnosed all three children with neonatal sepsis and could die of shock at any time.
In order to save the children's lives, doctors had to resort to some extreme measures, including bone marrow aspiration.
This painful treatment process is unbearable even for adults, let alone newborn babies.
However, in order to survive, these fragile little beings had to endure all this. The entire ward is filled with the faint cry of a baby, and every sound seems to touch the softest place in people's hearts.
After fifteen days of hard fighting, the three children's conditions finally improved.
The second and third children have been able to breathe on their own and are gradually out of the danger period. Only the eldest son's condition is still not too rosy, and doctors are worried that he may be left with permanent brain damage.
When Feng Yao was finally able to see her child, she couldn't help crying.
In the past ten days, as a novice mother, her heart has endured unimaginable torment. She didn't dare to fall asleep, for fear that when she woke up, the child would leave her forever.
Finally, a month after the birth of the children, the long-suffering family was finally reunited.
While the three children still need ongoing medical attention, at least the most dangerous period has passed. Feng Yao and Chang Baojun looked at their three children, their hearts full of gratitude and guilt.
This experience made them realize that motherly love is great, but blind motherly love can also have disastrous consequences.
If they had followed the doctor's advice and reduced the fetus in time or had an early caesarean section, they might not have faced such a dangerous situation.
However, it has come to this point, and regret is no longer helpful. The only thing they can do is to cherish the present and create a healthy and happy future for their children. This experience also made them cherish each other more and cherish the preciousness of life.
The experience of Feng Yao and Chang Baojun is not only a story about life, but also a warning.
When faced with major medical decisions, we must not only listen to our inner voice, but also respect the opinions of professionals.
Love is great, but reason is just as important.
Only by combining sensibility and reason perfectly can we make the right choices at key moments in our lives.
Information sources:
[1] Beijing Satellite TV - "The Gift of Life· Life"
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