In March 2024, the Fujian Provincial Regulations on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests added a clause that "wives can inquire about their spouse's property", which sparked heated discussions about "unequal rights and interests of husband and wife".
On April 1, 2024, the city where the interviewee Zeng Jing is located officially promulgated local regulations that the property of husband and wife can be checked by each other.
This article is based on Zeng Jing's oral statement.
My ex-husband Jiang Haifeng and I met through acquaintances.
The introducer's surname is Ding, and she is my mother's high school classmate, and my mother and I trust her very much because of this relationship.
Aunt Ding said that the man is 35 years old, graduated from Beijing University of Finance and Economics, is a civil servant, although his parents are farmers, they have pension insurance, no burden, and he has a younger sister who is married.
My mother asked Aunt Ding: "The man's conditions are so good, why is it so old that he hasn't gotten married?" ”
Aunt Ding replied: "The man is too honest to please the girl." ”
Then, she hesitated for a moment and added: "I am also a little short, only 1.65 meters tall, my mouth is stupid, I speak in a hurry, and I have a slight stutter, but it is not very serious, so I am single until now." ”
As soon as I heard the other party's height, I was not very satisfied, my height is 1.67 meters, and I want to find someone taller than me, who looks more secure and more compatible.
My mother hesitated for a moment and said, "I'm a little older than Jingjing, ten years behind." ”
Aunt Ding lobbied my mother: "The older ones know that they hurt people, and the key to choosing a partner is to look at the character and family background, I have been to the man's house, his parents are honest and duty-bound, and the child must not be wrong." ”
Aunt Ding looked at my mother a little hesitantly, and said: "Jingjing is a girl in the city, marrying into his family belongs to the next marriage, and his family is not allowed to look up to him?" ”
Aunt Ding flipped out the man's photo from her mobile phone to show us, the person in the photo looked ordinary, with small eyes, wearing glasses, not recognizable, with an unsmiling expression, and his temperament was like a teacher.
Seeing that I didn't say anything, my mother replied to Aunt Ding, "Let's think about it again." ”
After Aunt Ding left, my mother persuaded me: "I know you don't like it, the man is short and old, but he has a good job, and he looks quite honest." ”
I bowed my head and didn't speak, and my mother said again: "Marriage is to find someone to live, firewood, rice, oil and salt are fundamental, it's good to be down-to-earth, and character is better than anything." Our family is a single-parent family, and if people don't choose, we will ...... Look everywhere first? ”
I didn't realize at the time that my mother's inferiority complex for divorce and her sense of indebtedness to me would become a bargaining chip for the other party to attack me in the future.
Since I was a child, I was used to following my mother's arrangement, and this time it was introduced by the elders, and I didn't think too much about it, so I agreed to meet him.
I fell in love once in college, and after graduating, my first love went to the south, and the relationship ended without a hitch, so my love experience was basically zero.
The first time I met Jiang Haifeng, I didn't have a good impression of him.
I wore flat shoes, and he was a head shorter than me. His stuttering is worse than Aunt Ding said, and his eyes are very uncomfortable, he never looks me in the face, he always slips away, like a thief.
After that, Jiang Haifeng took the initiative to ask me out a few times.
He was very attentive to me and worked hard, but he took me to eat at roadside stalls, visited free parks, gave me a mobile phone, and only after I got married did I know that it was a benefit from the company. I didn't think much about it, I just thought that this man might be more frugal.
I got along for half a year, and later, he said that his family was urging him to get married and wanted to hear my mother's opinion.
The first time Jiang Haifeng saw my mother, he bowed deeply to my mother, 90 degrees, I was taken aback by him, I didn't expect my mother to be moved by his "big gift", and I had a good impression of him.
After Jiang Haifeng left, my mother said to me: "Let's get along almost as soon as we get along, people look quite honest." ”
I was hesitant and couldn't make up my mind. Later, during the cooling-off period of the divorce, when I went to check his property, I realized that people can disguise and perform, and the more honest people look, the better their acting skills.
During the relationship, Jiang Haifeng took me to his house several times, and his parents were very enthusiastic about me. When I ate, Jiang Haifeng's mother would put all the "hard dishes" in front of me, and she would carefully peel the seafood shells and put the meat in my bowl.
I felt very warm, even a little touched. Because when I was three years old, my parents divorced, and my dad soon remarried, and after that, I rarely kept in touch. In order to make money to support me, my mother fostered me at my grandmother's house and worked everywhere, and I have never been taken care of like this since I was a child.
Before leaving, Jiang Haifeng's mother gave me a red envelope of 2,000 yuan, I accepted it, and I thought that this was a kind of recognition of me by the man's family.
Jiang Haifeng and I only got along for a year, and we got the certificate at the urging of our parents.
The first time we met was on May Fourth Youth Day, and the marriage was on Youth Day the following year, the date I chose, I checked on the Internet, and the divorce rate of couples who got married in May was the lowest. I'm afraid of following my mother's old path, I married Jiang Haifeng for the rest of my life.
Jiang Haifeng's place of work is relatively close to his in-laws' house, we lived with my in-laws, when I first got married, I discussed with Jiang Haifeng to save more money, and when I had a child, I bought a house in the city to facilitate the child's schooling, and the conflict occurred after I gave birth to a child.
During the confinement, his sister-in-law came to see the child and inadvertently said that she had left her mouth. His sister-in-law said: "Fortunately, Guoyu and Xiaojie are leaving, how can you give birth to such a thoughtful child?" ”
I was stunned, and I grabbed my sister-in-law and asked again and again, and she told me that Jiang Haifeng had been married once when he was 28 years old.
The sister-in-law said that Jiang Haifeng's "ex-wife" was from Lincun, and the girl lived in their house for two years, and later, ran away with a Taiwan who was doing business locally, and they only had a wedding and did not register.
I had a feeling of being fooled. When I was in love, Jiang Haifeng told me that he had only been in love once, because the bride price asked for by the woman's family was too high, so he didn't talk about it and broke up.
I questioned Jiang Haifeng. He explained: "I didn't mean to lie to you, that woman, I don't want to mention it at all. "I noticed that he usually stuttered, but when he quibbled with me, he spoke very fluently and quickly.
Jiang Haifeng squatted beside the bed, took my hand and said, "For the sake of the child, you forgive me once." I turned my face away and kept not speaking, and he said, "Now I am like a sinner waiting for judgment." ”
I felt as if I didn't know the man at all and started a cold war with him. In order to please me, Jiang Haifeng took the initiative to bring food upstairs every day, and once brought me food, he stepped on the air, rolled down from the second floor, broke his calf into a bone, and had three stitches on his head, but I still didn't forgive him.
My in-laws tried to mediate, and from time to time they spoke ill of the "ex-wife" in front of me, saying that she was extravagant and disrespectful to the elderly, and that there was no way to compare with me, but it didn't help.
Later, when my father-in-law was at work, he was injured by a falling brick and was admitted to the hospital, and Jiang Haifeng and I had an exchange.
After another three months, Jiang Haifeng was seconded to Jiangsu for two years due to work reasons. After he left, I was relieved, but soon, my mother-in-law's attitude towards me changed significantly.
In the second week after Jiang Haifeng left home, her mother-in-law went to a nearby pickle factory to find a job peeling garlic, working from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. My mother-in-law has a pension of more than 2,000 yuan a month, and I advised her not to be too tired, but she said, "I don't want to eat at home and wait for death, I want to save more money for my eldest grandson."
Maybe I'm too distracted and think she's telling me. It is not easy for me to take care of the children at home alone, in addition to taking care of the children every day, I also have to cook two meals for the whole family.
Once, when the child kept crying and missed the time to cook dinner, I ordered two takeouts, and specially ordered my mother-in-law's favorite bean sprouts, my father-in-law's favorite fat sausage, and my sister-in-law's favorite fried cashew nuts.
Unexpectedly, during the meal, the mother-in-law kept saying: "The takeaway is unhygienic, and the feces in the fat intestines have not been washed." He also pointed to Sang scolding Huaidi and said to his sister-in-law: "In the future, I won't come to eat less, and when you move out of your mother-in-law's house and be in charge of your own house, won't you cook rice?" ”
My father-in-law couldn't stand it, and interrupted my mother-in-law twice, but my mother-in-law suddenly dropped her chopsticks and yelled at me: "Before you entered the door, the family was all right, and as soon as you entered the door, my son was either stitched or transferred, and your father-in-law was also hospitalized." You're a dead star. ”
Before I could explain, she said, "You have to be grateful, because I gave birth to you a man." "I was choked up for a moment.
When Jiang Haifeng and I first got married, I had expectations for the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Before getting married, Jiang Haifeng mentioned to me that his mother suffered a lot when she was young, worked hard for the family all her life, and lived a very humble life. Jiang Haifeng's hometown is in Shandong, when everyone eats, women can't serve the table, they have to serve the people who eat, serve tea and pour water for others, and wait for the people to leave, before picking up a few mouthfuls of leftovers.
As a woman, I sympathize with her.
Therefore, after the child finished the full moon wine, I gave all the red envelopes given by the guests to my mother-in-law. I also bought my mother-in-law a cashmere sweater and a silver bracelet, and she took my hand and said, "You are better than my girls are to me." ”
But I didn't expect that if you are not good to her, she will be good to you.
Since my mother-in-law scolded me for takeout, I started to stop cooking and only order my own takeout, and my in-laws cook and eat by themselves, and they won't bring my portion.
Thinking about it now, it was really silly at that time, I should have left with my baby in my arms. I haven't mentioned these things to anyone, but there's a reason.
I grew up alone, forming a habit of carrying everything by myself, unwilling and unwilling to ask for help, and the strangeness with my parents made me feel that it was difficult to ask them for help.
When I was in college, the money for the meal was gone, and I never opened my mouth with my family, only two taels of rice a day, soaked in hot water, and ate garlic sauce for a week. So, after I got married, I kept hiding a lot of things from my mother at my in-laws' house.
Half a year later, Jiang Haifeng suddenly came back from Jiangsu, and he not only lost his job, but also owed a lot of debt.
When he was studying at the headquarters, in order to make extra money, he resold crab seedlings to the locals, and pressed more than 300,000 yuan into it, because the money on hand was not enough, he embezzled more than 100,000 public funds.
As a result, he was deceived by a middleman, who took the kickback and did not help him contact the buyer. He sold one-fifth of the crab fry he stocked at a low price, and sold the rest to the feed mill to become chicken feed.
His embezzlement of public funds was also discovered by the unit, which not only fired him, but also repaid the loan within a time limit, otherwise he would have to take legal channels.
When he got home, he didn't dare to tell his parents about it, he just told me. He hid under the covers every night and cried, and said, "When I walk on the street, I want to hit a car when I see a car coming by." ”
One night, it was raining heavily outside, and Jiang Haifeng ran out without an umbrella, and I was afraid that he would have an accident, so I kept following behind. He went to the beach near his house and started running wildly, and I was afraid that he would not want to run into the sea, so I finally pulled him home.
A big man, with a scruffy beard and bloodshot eyes, I began to pity him. After all, he is the father of the child.
The in-laws quickly learned the truth, and although they complained about Jiang Haifeng's wealth obsession, they still decided to give 50,000 yuan, and we had to raise the rest ourselves. I hugged the child and said to him, "If the money is gone, you can make it again, as long as people are safe." ”
After Jiang Haifeng's accident, I didn't blame him, my own savings were less than 50,000 yuan at that time, and I originally planned to save enough 100,000 yuan to pay the down payment on the house, but now, I gave him the bank card and asked him to repay the debt.
He hugged me and cried loudly, saying that if it had been another woman, he would have left long ago. Unexpectedly, when we divorced later, he said that it was because of marrying me that he encountered so many unlucky things.
After returning the money from his original unit, Jiang Haifeng escaped imprisonment, but lost his job. He started his own business. He has invested in a plastic factory, made medical equipment, wholesaled seafood, and even opened a pig factory. In the past few years of doing business, he has been complaining in front of me that business is difficult to do, he can't make money, and he hardly gives it to his family.
I'm the kind of person who has a lot of self-esteem, and if he doesn't give it, I don't want it.
Before my child was two years old, I sent him to a nursery and found a job in the community where he could support himself with a modest income.
At some point, we became an AA couple. When he goes to the supermarket together, as long as he consumes more than 100 yuan, even if he buys milk powder for his child, he is unwilling to go out; My children are young, I often get sick, and because of frequent leave, I can't continue to do community work for less than a year, so I can only do some part-time online work at home to earn some pocket money.
Jiang Haifeng's business has always been unsmooth, and he often makes fun of me and my children, and quarrels have become commonplace.
Once, when the child kept crying, he started beating the child, and I went to stop him, and he scolded me: "It's all because you have tired me, you don't even have a job, you are like a parasite." ”
I reminded him not to forget who helped him pay off his debt in the first place, and who brought him back from the beach. He was suddenly stabbed in the soft underbelly, rushed at me with red eyes, grabbed me by the neck and pinned me to the couch.
At that time, I was still holding the child in my arms, and I couldn't beat him at all, and I couldn't scream. In desperation, I kicked him. It was this kick that irritated him, and he dragged me by the hair, dragged me from the bedroom to the living room, and then to the stairwell, and threw me down the stairs.
When he did it, the world around him was particularly unreal.
I only remember hearing the child crying, and I always held the child in my arms during the rolling process, and never let go, but the child still knocked a big hole on his head, and I thought, shouldn't it be swollen after knocking? How can it be concave? It can't be that the bones are broken, until now, the pit on the child's head is still there.
His parents heard the commotion and ran to help me. I shook off their hands, got up from the ground, and walked to the bus stop with the child in my arms, and my father-in-law chased me out and dragged me home, and when I insisted on leaving, he stuffed hundreds of dollars into my pocket.
When I took the car back to my mother's house, my mother asked me what was wrong, and I said that I had a quarrel with Jiang Haifeng, and when I went home, I accidentally fell again.
My mother sat next to me for a while, secretly wiped her tears, and suddenly said: "Women get through this way, for the sake of the child, endure it." It's good when the child grows up. ”
As soon as I heard this, I broke my defense: why endure? Want to pretend to maintain a seemingly happy family? If life is to go on like this, what is the point of living?
I didn't tell my mother about Jiang Haifeng's domestic violence, and I took the children to live at my mother's house. I hurt my shoulder in the process of falling from the upstairs, and I always feel that my shoulder and neck are separated when I walk, which is particularly painful, so I secretly went to the hospital to see it, and the doctor prescribed medicine.
Zeng Jing's medical certificate
During this period, my in-laws called twice, but I didn't answer.
I am the kind of person who is more internally exhausted, when others attack me, I attack myself, I constantly examine myself, whether I am really a shortcoming, whether I am really unlucky, my marriage will come to this point.
Every day when I took my children out to bask in the sun, I would pass by a fortune-telling street, and I don't know when I became obsessed with fortune-telling. I've been to almost every stall, ten dollars at a time, and I've counted countless times, and the fortune tellers have said that my life is not good, and I have to spend money to change my life, but no one told me to divorce.
At first, my mother-in-law tried to redeem it, first my mother-in-law came to look for me, but I didn't open the door, so she slammed the door in the corridor and knocked the neighbors out, she begged me to let her see the child, and begged me to forgive Jiang Haifeng.
That time, my mother was not at home, and I held the baby and curled up under the quilt, never opening the door.
Later, her mother-in-law and Jiang Haifeng came again, and Jiang Haifeng stood behind her mother-in-law, not apologizing or speaking.
The mother-in-law persuaded him: "Who hasn't a husband and wife who have been fighting and making trouble all their lives? ”
My mother ignored her mother-in-law and said to Jiang Haifeng: "If you are still young, I can teach you how to be a good husband, you are all a four-person person, do you still use me to educate you?" ”
After Jiang Haifeng went back, he called and promised to write me a letter of guarantee, promising that he would be good to me in the future. I know that people don't change, and I can't forget his expression when he did it, so I finally made up my mind and filed for divorce.
Jiang Haifeng began to call and harass me constantly, first begging me to give him another chance, seeing my resolute attitude, and then questioning me: "Why did your mother educate me?" Then began to list my countless crimes.
Every time he blamed me, I felt my scalp tingle and I couldn't breathe, and I wanted to avoid this person. The harassment continued for a week, and he finally sent a message saying that he agreed to the divorce.
On April 13, 2024, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities.
We negotiated in advance, there was no house purchase after marriage, and there was no common property, the car he drove belonged to him, and he paid 1500 yuan per month for child support, he thought that the child support was too much, and the bargaining price was 800, I just wanted to stay away from this kind of scum as soon as possible, and I didn't want to entangle with him anymore, so I agreed.
The staff told us that the divorce could not be processed immediately, and we had to wait for the 30-day cooling-off period for divorce.
On May 1, 2024, at about three o'clock in the morning, the child suddenly had a high fever, I ran to the hospital with the child in my arms, the doctor said that it was acute pneumonia and needed to be hospitalized immediately, and I had to pay a hospitalization deposit of 3,000 yuan first.
He only said one sentence on the other end of the phone: "Don't even think about it." ”
After hanging up the phone, I carried the child to the roof of the hospital, and suddenly an idea occurred in my head that if I jumped off with the child in my arms, maybe it would be over. When I was struggling, I was pulled by someone, and when I came back, my mother was standing behind me, and my mother cried and said, "Mom has money, Mom will give it to you." ”
If my mom hadn't arrived just in time, I might have jumped off the roof with my baby in my arms. My mom was afraid that something would happen to me, so she called my best friend Wei Li and asked her to persuade me.
Wei Li felt that my mental state was not right, and said to me: "No one else is important, you are the most important, you have to learn to be kind to yourself." ”
In fact, deep down in my heart, I always felt that it was a very selfish thing to be good to myself, and I woke up: before I got married, I would think about my parents; After getting married, the feelings of the husband and in-laws will be considered; Thinking about my children now, it seems that I really never thought about myself.
The next day, Wei Li called again, and she said, "Why don't you check his property." If you don't, forget it, if you have, you can't be too troublesome, you must fight for it. In the future, the children will be raised by you alone, and you will find a job with a salary of up to two or three thousand yuan, and it will be difficult to support yourself, what will you do to support the children? Do you know how much it costs to raise a child from childhood to adulthood? What's more, if you are still a boy, you will need financial ability to go to school, find a job, fall in love, buy a house, get married, and have children in the future. ”
Wei Li also said: "The city introduced a relevant policy in April, as long as you bring your marriage certificate and ID card, you can go to check the other party's property, and I will accompany you tomorrow." ”
In the past few years that I have lived with Jiang Haifeng, as far as I know, he has no property, not to mention that I can no longer entangle with him, so I rejected Wei Li's proposal.
Wei Li shouted on the other side of the phone: "With his kind of character, can he tell you if he has property?" ”
On May 10, 2024, Wei Li took me to the real estate center, filled out the application form, reviewed the relevant materials, including ID card, marriage certificate, and child's birth certificate, and the staff only took ten minutes to call up Jiang Haifeng's real estate information.
It turned out that the house where Jiang Haifeng's parents live now was sold to his parents' names a month before we got married, and this house is not within the scope of joint property division. That is, we are not married yet, and he is ready for a divorce.
What shocked me even more was that after we entered the cooling-off period for divorce, Jiang Haifeng applied to the real estate center, preparing to transfer a 95-square-meter property in the development zone to his sister in the form of a gift, and I didn't know the existence of this property before.
When I went to check, it was only three days before I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.
Out of the gate of the real estate center, Wei Li pulled me and said: "Jiang Haifeng is a person like Jiang Haifeng, evil in his heart, selfishness in his bones, you can't let him go easily, direct communication with him will definitely not work, let's sue him and find a lawyer to solve it." ”
Soon, Wei Li helped me connect with the director of the community assistance office, lawyer Wang Xin.
After inquiring about my situation in detail, Lawyer Wang suggested that the property that Jiang Haifeng was going to give to his sister belonged to the joint property during our marriage, and Jiang Haifeng's gift was a hidden real estate and was invalid.
However, since it takes a period of time from the time of filing a lawsuit to the court's acceptance, in order to prevent Jiang Haifeng from transferring his property during the appeal period, Mr. Wang proposed that he first go to the court to conduct pre-litigation property preservation on the property involved in the case, and then communicate with the management department of the real estate center to request that the transfer not be granted.
As for the house that Jiang Haifeng transferred to his parents before marriage, if I can provide Jiang Haifeng's bank card and account to continue to repay the mortgage after marriage, I can also get back half of the house money that has been repaid.
At the beginning, when I helped Jiang Haifeng repay his debts, he once transferred the money on my bank card to his own card, which was his usual card, I knew the card number and password, and checked it on the APP, and sure enough, he had more than 5,000 fixed expenses every month, and it was to the same account.
I wrote a power of attorney on the spot, and lawyer Wang first went to the court to apply for property preservation, and then contacted Jiang Haifeng and asked him if he agreed to negotiate a private settlement and divide the property equally, but Jiang Haifeng refused.
Lawyer Wang quickly went to the people's court in the district where Jiang Haifeng's household registration was located to file a lawsuit, and then went to the court to file a case on the spot. Before the trial, Mr. Wang instructed me that before the formal entry into the lawsuit, the court will have a pre-litigation mediation, if the mediation is successful, the court will issue a civil mediation letter, and if the mediation is unsuccessful, it will be transferred to a formal lawsuit, but the mediation process will run through the divorce proceedings.
On May 7, 2024, accompanied by lawyer Wang, Wei Li and my mother, my divorce proceedings officially opened, and most of Jiang Haifeng's relatives attended the trial.
Lawyer Wang argued that Jiang Haifeng's failure to fulfill his obligations to raise children and assume family responsibilities during the marriage, accompanied by domestic violence, caused physical harm to the plaintiff, and should be regarded as a breakdown of feelings, and requested the court to grant a divorce and reasonably divide the joint property of the husband and wife.
Jiang Haifeng began to pretend to be pitiful in order to regain the property, and he said that he had called me countless times during the separation and had been working hard to save this marriage.
Because I did not report to the police when Jiang Haifeng was domestic violence, and Jiang Haifeng's parents denied that Jiang Haifeng had committed domestic violence against me, the hospital diagnosis certificate I provided cannot be used as evidence. But I made my attitude clear and insisted on divorce.
Jiang Haifeng saw that I was resolute, turned his face and said: "I earn all the money alone, and I pay for the living expenses, you haven't paid a penny, you are a housewife, and you don't have a job, you want to share my real estate, it's extortion." ”
Lawyer Wang presented the temporary contract I provided when I was working on the street, the list of payments for part-time jobs online, the list of my monthly living expenses, and Jiang Haifeng's proof of loan repayment.
Lawyer Wang said: "We advocate revoking Jiang Haifeng's gift to his sister and recovering this house as the joint property of the husband and wife; Jiang Haifeng's parents are currently living in the pre-marital property, but the monthly payment should be divided equally based on the date of marriage. ”
The judge reviewed all the information provided by us and declared: "According to the laws of the mainland, the wife's income does not affect the joint ownership of the joint property of the husband and wife, first, the act of making a gift is invalid......
Before the judge finished speaking, Jiang Haifeng's mother shouted at me from the audience: "You have no conscience, you didn't sincerely marry my son in the first place." "Jiang Haifeng also began to insult my mother in the dock, saying that my mother instigated me to divorce.
Jiang Haifeng's mother also threatened me: "If you fight with us for a house, we will fight with you for children, you don't have a job, and our financial ability is better than yours." ”
The sister-in-law also echoed and shouted: "If you want to blackmail us, you won't see the child for the rest of your life." ”
To be honest, I was a little panicked, after all, children are my bottom line.
The judge sharply maintained order at the scene, and Jiang Haifeng's family finally quieted down.
After discussing with the two judges, the judge pronounced the verdict in court: "The original defendant, after getting married, quarreled constantly over trivial matters, the defendant evaded family responsibilities many times, lived a lazy life, and did not fulfill his obligations, in summary, due to the complete breakdown of the relationship between the two parties, the first instance judgment ruled that the original defendant was divorced, the child was still young, and the plaintiff raised it, and the defendant paid 800 yuan per month in child support."
After dividing the real estate in the development zone in accordance with the law, and the suburban housing is assessed by the statutory authority, the total monthly repayment is 220,000 yuan, and the defendant shall compensate the plaintiff with 110,000 yuan in cash. If there is an objection to the verdict, an appeal may be filed within 10 days in accordance with the law. ”
When I heard the judge's verdict, my heart opened like a door.
Three days later, Jiang Haifeng was dissatisfied with the verdict and appealed, and half a month later, the original verdict was upheld in the second instance. Jiang Haifeng's family refused to pay compensation, and I was ready to use legal means to protect my rights and interests again, and lawyer Wang had applied for enforcement within 30 days after the court issued the judgment.
After some tossing, I won the divorce lawsuit, but it was extremely tragic. Next, I'm going to get a job and shift my focus to myself.
I finally realized that forbearance and tolerance in marriage will not bring peace and quietness, but will only make the other person's evil worse. Women, only self-help can have a way out.
What's funny is that on the day I cleaned up my things, I found that the wedding diamond ring that Jiang Haifeng bought for me was actually rusty.