Nowadays, many young parents have to work after giving birth to a baby, and they want to give their children better economic security and realize their personal social value, and it is simply unrealistic to be a full-time dad or a full-time mother, unless they have accumulated enough funds.
In the first three years of the child's birth, the heavy responsibility fell on the elderly, which made the aunt feel uneasy, and even if the aunt was invited, the help of the elderly was indispensable.
The old man's health is okay, although he is tired and hard, he can still withstand the physical labor with the baby, which makes the young parents seem to have less worries and work with peace of mind.
But when the child goes to kindergarten, the problem comes, some children behave willfully in kindergarten, and even beat and scold the teacher, and the teacher can't control it, so he can only let the parents take the baby home.
At this time, parents realized the seriousness of the problem and began to pay attention to their children's education. 3-6 years old is the development period of children's personality, "three years old is big, seven years old is old." "With careful education, children have the opportunity to change.
The old man should quit when he takes the baby to this age, and it will affect the growth of the baby later than this time:
Before the age of 1 or 3, the elderly take the baby to help the child reduce the burden
Before the age of 3, parents have to go to work, there is no time during the day, the elderly help to take the baby, to reduce the burden on the child, although some of the elderly with the baby, in terms of education may not be able to keep up, parents and the elderly communication, the focus is on the child's living problems, can help.
The matter of educating children still depends on the parents, this is the responsibility, you can't push everything to the elderly, it's easy at the moment, and hard work in the future.
2. 3-6 years old, the elderly should withdraw appropriately
At the age of 3-6 years old, the elderly can withdraw appropriately, otherwise it will be thankless and not conducive to the formation of children's good character and behavioral habits.
The child goes to kindergarten during this period, which is the golden period for the cultivation of various abilities and habits, and the enlightenment habits are cultivated, and the child improves all the way, far surpassing his peers.
Children go to kindergarten during the day, if the parents are not available, the elderly may help pick them up, and the golden time at night is firmly grasped by the parents to cultivate learning ability, living habits, sexual style development and so on.
3. After the age of 6, try to be taken by your parents
If the educational philosophy of parents and the elderly is consistent and they get along safely, the education of children is additional. If there is a disagreement, after the child goes to school, it will make the child's psychology deviate, which is not beneficial to the child's education and plays a negative role.
When children go to school and have a certain amount of academic pressure, the mentality of the elderly is more relaxed, they do not have much demand for their children, and they often dote on their children.
And parents attach great importance to the use of staring method, do not dare to relax, children are born to love to play, if the two sides have differences, children often take advantage of loopholes, children are difficult to manage.
Write at the end
After the child is 3 years old, the elderly appropriately withdraw from the responsibility of bringing the baby, can help pick up and drop off the child, take care of the child's daily life, try not to interfere in the education matters, and leave it to the parents to manage, which is their responsibility and is more conducive to the healthy growth of the child.
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