Writer Wang Xiaobo once said:
"When people are young, they feel that there are people everywhere and other people's business is your business, and when they reach middle age, they feel that there is nothing left in the world except for their families."
Life is short, and each stage has each stage of cognition, and there is also each stage of comprehension.
When I was young, I didn't know what it was like to be sad, and I kept asking for it, always wanting to leave home to see the bigger world.
After gradually entering middle age and experiencing the vicissitudes of the world and human warmth, I realized that family members are the closest people in the world, except for family members, everything else is floating clouds.
01 The greater the achievement, the more I want to share it with my family
The meaning of a home is not just as simple as having food to eat and a place to sleep.
It's about sharing your joy with your loved ones unguardedly when you achieve excellent results.
Not all joy is suitable for sharing with outsiders, and in their eyes, you will inevitably be suspected of showing off.
People who are stronger than you don't think your achievements are worth mentioning; People who are weaker than you will inevitably feel uncomfortable, and when you share joy, the other party may not bless you, and maybe even cause you trouble because of jealousy.
We live in this world, and everyone wants to love and make a difference.
When something is achieved, everyone wants to pass on that joy to others, and that person is better than a family member, and if the home is empty, that feeling is lonely and sad.
When people reach middle age, they need their families, because in the glory of life, there is half of themselves and half of their families.
Because of their careful care, we can pursue our careers without distraction.
Because of their silent support, we can get out of the predicament as soon as possible in the difficult situation of life and fight back.
Because of their existence, we have someone to share while enjoying the flowers and applause.
Thanking our family members and their company makes us feel the hope of life, allows us to have someone to share the joy, and makes our life full of vitality.
02 No matter how many friends you have, it's not as neat as a family
I used to think that it was easy to walk with more friends, so some people indulged in their friends' cups and cups.
When I reached middle age, I found that most of my friends were just friends of wine and meat, and at most they could only pass the boring time together, and when the banquet receded, I still felt lonely in my heart.
In fact, there are not many friends, and it is enough to have three or two confidants.
When we give most of our time and energy to our friends, we are doomed to neglect our families.
But jobs will be lost, friends will be scattered, no one can be friends for a lifetime, the vast majority of people can only accompany you for a certain period of time in your life, only the family has been in the same place, never abandoned.
No matter what we have experienced or how far we have come, only family members can silently support us in the dark, warm us with love, and give us strength.
No matter how many friends you have, it's not as neat as a family.
Family is the destination of the body and the soul; Family is the driving force for us to strive for, and the person who gives us warmth and happiness.
On the way forward, to be kind to your family is to be kind to yourself and cherish every minute and second with your family, so as to live up to your life and live up to yourself.
03 When there is a physical problem, the more you need the companionship and care of your family
Family is the greatest confidence in our life.
In this world, people who are willing to give themselves a back and are not afraid of being dragged down are probably only their own families.
If there is one place in this world that makes you feel grounded, it must be home; If there is a group of people in this world who can never leave you when you lose your health, it must be family.
When we have physical problems, the companionship and care of family members can help us regain our health and confidence in life, and then spend the rest of our days with each other and support each other.
That continuous love, like a scale, balances family affection and life.
Let us have a place to shelter from the rain when we experience wind, frost, snow and rain; When we are afflicted by illness, we can be cared for.
They will feel sorry for your physical torture and they will also take care of your emotions.
The sea of life, the mountains and rivers.
I have walked through so many places and met so many people, and finally found that the people who can stay by our side all the time are family members, and the people who can treat us well and let us quickly get out of the trough of life are family members.
Family can give us the greatest sense of security.
Please cherish the fate with your family, even if you are in a hurry, don't forget the ordinary and ordinary family.