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"If you are blessed, you don't have to be busy, and if you are not blessed, you will break your bowels." Whenever I hear this, I always think of the life experiences of my three aunts. Their stories are like a thick family history, reflecting the vicissitudes of fate and the impermanence of blessings.
My aunt Li Feng is a good wife and mother, and her life is plain but warm and happy. Every time I return to my hometown, I can always see her and her eldest uncle busy in the yard. The eldest uncle was lighting the fire in front of the stove, and the eldest aunt was picking vegetables on the side. Watching their tacit cooperation, I always can't help but sigh that my aunt is really blessed in this life.
"Ah Feng, what are you cooking today?" I asked my uncle.
"Make your aunt's favorite braised pork, and the pickles at home are also pickled, eat more at night." The eldest uncle replied with a smile.
Aunt Li Feng heard our conversation and smiled, "Don't praise him, otherwise his tail will reach the sky." ”
The second aunt Li Mei is a person who pursues freedom and love. When she was young, she fell in love with a man from a foreign country, and although her family was against it, she resolutely followed him to a distant land. After several twists and turns, her relationship with that man did not last long, and they finally broke up. The second aunt Li Mei went through several emotional twists and turns before she found true happiness, but no one could understand the hardships in the process.
"Sister Mei, where are you going this time?" I asked her.
"Go out for a walk, see the outside world, and maybe find happiness that belongs to me." She always replied with an unyielding glint in her eyes.
And the third aunt, Li Lan, is the smartest one in our family. She had excellent grades since she was a child and was the first girl in the village to be admitted to university. Everyone thought she had a bright future, but reality hit her hard. She has suffered repeated setbacks in her career and her love life is not going well. Although she has been working hard, it has always backfired.
"Sister Lan, you work so hard, why do you always hit a wall?" I couldn't help but ask her.
"Maybe it's fate, I can only keep trying." The third aunt's answer was always a little helpless, but there was a momentum in her eyes that she did not admit defeat.
Our family's family background is not complicated. The grandparents were authentic farmers who worked diligently all their lives to raise their four children. My father was the eldest son in the family, and below were three aunts. Although the grandparents are not wealthy, they attach great importance to the education of their children, especially for their daughters, and always hope that they can be self-reliant and not bound by worldly prejudices.
"You guys have to remember that girls can also get ahead, don't be looked down upon." That's how grandma always taught her aunts.
The aunts grew up in such a family atmosphere and each embarked on a different path in life. The eldest aunt chose a stable family life, the second aunt pursued love and freedom, and the third aunt continued to struggle in her career and feelings. Their stories are full of ups and downs, and each person's fate unfolds gradually in the choices of family and individual.
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Aunt Li Feng's life seems to be to interpret the phrase "blessed don't be busy". Her marriage to her eldest uncle was a model of envy for the people of the village. The two have been married for more than 30 years, and their relationship has always been the same. My aunt always said, "Ordinary is bliss." ”
"Ah Feng, do you remember the first time we met?" One day, the eldest uncle asked the eldest aunt in the courtyard.
"Remember, why don't you remember." The aunt smiled, "At that time you were tall, wearing a blue jacket, and you smiled like a fool. ”
The eldest uncle also smiled, "At that time, I was very nervous, for fear that you would not agree to marry me." ”
Aunt Li Feng is not only a good wife and mother, but also a well-known warm-hearted heart in the village. She is always willing to help her neighbors, and she is always the first to run to help when someone has a big or small problem. It is this selfless character that makes her stand out from the crowd and win everyone's respect and love.
In contrast, the life of the second aunt Li Mei is much more tortuous. She has had a restless heart since she was a child, always thinking of escaping from this small village. When she was 18 years old, she secretly ran away with a man from a foreign country without telling her family. During that time, the second aunt had an easy time, and after several twists and turns, she finally parted ways with that man.
"Sister Mei, have you ever regretted it?" I asked her.
"I regret it, and I don't regret it." The second aunt was silent for a while and said, "Without that experience, I may never find the happiness that truly belongs to me." ”
Later, the second aunt Li Mei experienced several more relationships, and each time she was full of expectations and disappointments. It wasn't until she met her current husband that she really settled down. The husband of the second aunt is an honest man, although he is not rich, he is very good to the second aunt. This marriage allowed her to finally find the stability and happiness she had been seeking.
"I'm happy and content now." My second aunt, Li Mei, often said to me, "You see, I finally found the person who is willing to live an ordinary life with me." ”
The third aunt, Li Lan, is the smartest one in the family, and her grades have always been among the best when she was a child. She was the first girl in the village to be admitted to university, and everyone had high hopes for her. However, reality hit her hard. After graduating, the third aunt looked for a job in the city, but repeatedly hit a wall, and her career was always unsatisfactory.
"Sister Lan, why are you always so unlucky?" I used to ask her.
"Maybe it's fate." The third aunt smiled bitterly, "I can only continue to work hard, hoping to see the light of day one day." ”
Emotionally, the third aunt is not going well. She has been in love several times, but each time it has failed. The third aunt has never given up the pursuit of happiness, but life always seems to be against her. Despite this, she continued to fight unrelentingly.
"I don't believe in fate." Sangu said firmly, "I believe that as long as you work hard, you will see hope one day." ”
This spirit of the third aunt infected me. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I always think of her indomitable figure. She taught me to persevere, no matter how hard life may be, because hope lies ahead.
The lives of the three aunts are different, but they all pursue their own happiness on their own paths. Their stories made me understand that happiness does not fall from the sky, but needs to be fought for and cherished.
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Whenever I look back on the different lives of my eldest aunt, second aunt and third aunt, I always feel a complex emotion in my heart. Their respective fates and experiences are like a living textbook, which gives me a deeper understanding of fate and blessings.
The life of the eldest aunt Li Feng is undoubtedly a model of happiness. She uses her gentleness and tenacity to run a harmonious and happy family. She and her eldest uncle are like guests, there are groups of children, and although the days are ordinary, they are full of warmth and comfort. My aunt's life made me understand that sometimes happiness doesn't need to be vigorous, just to stay together and accompany each other in the ordinary.
"Ah Feng, what do you think of our lives?" My aunt once asked my uncle.
"Very content, very happy." The eldest uncle held the eldest aunt's hand and replied with a smile.
In contrast, the pursuit of the second aunt Li Mei is more twists and turns. She longs for freedom and love, and despite the opposition of her family, she resolutely pursues her own happiness. Despite the hardships and ups and downs in the process, she eventually found the person who was willing to live an ordinary life with her. My second aunt's experience made me understand that happiness sometimes requires a price and courage to find a true home on the road of pursuit.
"Sister Mei, do you regret it now?" I asked her.
"There are some regrets, but more than that, there are no regrets." The second aunt smiled, "Every experience is a kind of growth, and the important thing is that I have found my happiness now." ”
The story of the third aunt, Li Lan, is another revelation. She's smart and hardworking, but she always backfires. I was touched by her fighting spirit, and it also made me think deeply: fate is indeed elusive sometimes, but as long as you don't give up hope and always believe in yourself, there will always be a bright day. Sangu's perseverance made me understand that although fate is impermanent, we can still find our own light in the unyielding struggle.
"Sister Lan, you have been working so hard, have you ever thought about giving up?" I asked her curiously.
"Yes, but every time I tell myself, hold on." Sangu said firmly, "Because I believe that one day, I will see the dawn of hope." ”
I learned a lot from the lives of my three aunts. My aunt's ordinary happiness made me understand what it means to be "blessed and not busy"; The twists and turns of my second aunt's pursuit made me know the courage and determination to pursue happiness; Sangu's tenacious struggle made me realize the tenacity and perseverance in the face of fate.
"If you are blessed, you don't have to be busy, and if you are not blessed, you will break your bowels." This sentence is best illustrated in the life stories of the aunts. Their different experiences and fates have made me understand that blessings are not only God-given, but also need to be fought for and cherished. And no matter what fate brings, we must firmly believe in hope and bravely pursue our own happiness.
In this ordinary family, I felt a strong sense of family affection and warmth. The stories of the three aunts made me cherish the happiness in front of me even more, and also strengthened my confidence and courage to face the future.
"Thank you, aunts." I silently said in my heart, "Your life has taught me so much. ”
Whenever I stand in the courtyard of my hometown, watching my aunt Li Feng and my uncle busy, listening to my second aunt Li Mei tell her love story with twists and turns, or reminiscing about her struggles in the city with my third aunt Li Lan, I feel that all this is so real and moving.
In the days to come, I hope that I can be like them, pursue happiness in my own way, cherish blessings, face the challenges of fate, and never give up.