Grandma's Super Parenting Cheats: Building a Better Future for Your Grandchildren
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Hey! Can you imagine? When you become a grandmother one day, it will be a super challenge to educate those pink, soft little babies! Let's talk about this today, and it's guaranteed to make your jaw drop!
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Let's talk about this kid first, but don't be pampered! Now many parents, that is called a cautious, cover the child tightly, this is not allowed to touch, that is not allowed to touch. You say it works? There are no good bacteria and bad viruses in nature, but children have to come into contact with them in order to exercise strong immunity and resistance. We can't let the baby become the weak greenhouse flower, and the wind will lie down as soon as the wind blows! It's like the kid next door to my house, who is protected like something every day, and then gets sick at the slightest change in the weather. Look at the babies in the village who are running crazy in the fields, the body is called a good! Therefore, we have to let children boldly embrace nature, roll in the mud, spread joy on the grass, don't be afraid of dirty, don't be afraid of chaos, this is what growth should look like!
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And then this is very important! That is, you have to take your children to get closer to nature and exercise more. Skipping rope, running, climbing, playing basketball, basking in the sun, these activities are all indispensable. Think about it, if you have exercised your body since you were a child, what are you afraid of when you grow up? Let me tell you, the last time I saw a little boy in the park, running with his father, his face was red, but there was a determination and happiness in his eyes. That's the charm of sports! And sports not only make children healthy, but also cultivate their perseverance and team spirit. For example, when playing basketball, you have to learn to cooperate with your friends and know how to persevere to the end, which is not a precious wealth in life!
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Let's talk about children's interpersonal communication. You have to educate your children to get along with your children, don't be childish, and be generous and open-minded. Make more friends, and when you make friends, don't just look at the shortcomings of others, but look at the advantages. A mother shared on the Internet that her child had an awkward relationship with her friends because of a little thing, and then she patiently taught her children to be tolerant and to see the good of others, and as a result, the child not only reconciled with his friends, but also made more good friends. You see, cultivating children's interpersonal skills from an early age can help them grow!
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Also, a child's ability to live independently must be cultivated from an early age. I washed my own clothes, cleaned up my own room, learned to eat by myself at the age of three, and learned to cook when I was in elementary school. When you travel with your parents, you have to learn to read a map and plan a travel route. I've heard of a child who is in junior high school and can't take care of himself yet, so he has to rely on his parents for everything. What line is this? We can't let our grandchildren do the same. Since childhood, we have cultivated our self-care ability, and no matter where we go when we grow up, we can rest assured.
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The following points should not be ignored, and children must understand the value of money as early as possible. We are all ordinary people, but we can't afford to raise those babies who spend a lot of money. For example, a 5-liter bucket of water in the neighborhood costs 1 yuan, and a 500-milliliter bottle of ordinary purified water in the supermarket costs at least 1 yuan. These little things in life can let children know that it is not easy to make money, and spending money cannot be blind. Some netizens complained: "Today's children don't spend a lot of money, and they don't know how hard their parents work to earn money." "Therefore, we have to establish a correct view of money for our children from an early age, so that they know how to cherish and save.
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Children can't be frizzy when they encounter things. Life is like flowing water, when you encounter obstacles, you have to think about bypassing, and if you can't get around, you wait for the opportunity to accumulate strength. When the ability is limited, it is like a stream flowing slowly; When the ability is strong, it is like a raging river. I remember a child who didn't do well in the exam and was so anxious that he cried, but later, under the guidance of his parents, he understood that failure is the mother of success, and as long as he doesn't give up, he will always succeed. We have to let children have this mentality, not afraid of difficulties, not in a hurry, and steady and slow.
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Also, let children learn to be content and happy. In today's society, there are too many temptations, and children are easy to get lost. We have to teach them to find happiness in ordinary days, and not to look at the mountains high. As the saying goes, "Happiness is not about having more, but about thinking less." "Let children understand this principle, and their lives will be more comfortable.
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Finally, this is also crucial, don't enroll your child in too many interest classes after he goes to school. Give your child enough time to play sports and do what he enjoys. But learning can't be relaxed, after all, for children from ordinary families, learning is really the only way to change their fate. Some parents complained that they had registered their children for a bunch of classes, and the children were tired enough, and the effect was not good. We can't do this, we have to let our children combine work and rest, and grow up healthy and happy.
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In short, when we become grandmothers, we have to use our lifelong experience to educate the third generation of our family, so that they can become honest and kind, not afraid of difficulties, sunny and cheerful, and positive people. This is not only our responsibility, but also our deep love for children. We hope that every child can thrive and have a bright future under our care and teaching! Friends, let's cheer for the children and work hard for their tomorrow!