Love, sometimes like a bubble in the sun, only lasts for a short time, fleeting.
Some people's hearts only stay in you for a short time, but they are just playing, and they don't really move their hearts.
Or ride a donkey to find a horse, or be lonely for a while, or just think you're so flirtatious.
There are many reasons why a man starts a relationship, and women should judge for themselves, be reserved, and be rational.
In these aspects, the more a man "doesn't mind" and behaves generously, it shows that he is not sincere to you.
Doesn't mind if you spend money for him
I've heard a very strange story:
The woman earns more than 10,000 yuan a month and meets a second-married man.
Men are very handsome, but they don't do their jobs, don't go to work, play games every day, and have bad habits, all of which are raised by women.
The woman gives the money she earns to the man every month, and the man spends the woman's money with peace of mind.
As the man's appetite grew, the woman could not afford to support him, so he went to work in a bright place, and finally the man learned about the woman's work and wanted to break up with the woman.
For such a woman, I am really sad and angry.
It's obvious that the man is with her for money, but she stupidly invests in it and buries her life for a scumbag.
A man really loves you, how can he spend your money without blinking his eyes, he can't get over it on his conscience.
The man who takes a fancy to your money, he doesn't mind how much you spend for him, it's just not enough, and he desperately squeezes your value. Such a man, even if you give everything you have, you can't get half of his sincerity.
Don't mind the opposite sex getting close to you
My cousin likes a guy, but she's not sure if the other person likes her or not, and wants to test it.
The boy gives her the feeling that she is about to leave, and will say some ambiguous words and do some actions that make her think more, but there is no further action.
I proposed to let her find a test of the opposite sex, lie about being her suitor, attack her, and see how the other person reacts.
As a result, the boy didn't react at all, and even jokingly said that his cousin had finally blossomed and opened up.
Obviously, this is a sign of dislike.
In love, no one can generously accept the proximity of the opposite sex to the person they like, and they will be like facing a great enemy, erecting a radar all over their body, and beware of all the invisible "enemies" around them.
Once someone of the opposite sex expresses a good impression of you, they will behave abnormally, knock over the vinegar jar, and become stingy and calculating.
When the opposite sex approaches you, he is indifferent, he just doesn't like it, without exception.
I don't mind if you give up on yourself
What does true love look like?
It is two people who look at the same place, have common goals and ideals, spur each other together, and move forward together.
In this relationship, each other can be nourished, and we can have the determination to be better and become a better version of ourselves and a better us.
It is to support each other, supervise each other, and not allow any party to be left behind.
When he is down, you give him encouragement, give him strength, and help him rebuild his faith.
You can't see hope, and when you want to give up, he will keep beating you with a whip to get you back on your feet and don't give up easily.
Compared with "I raise you", such a momentary and irresponsible love words, I am willing to make you a better version of myself, and I am really responsible for you.
A man loves you, he doesn't want to see you give up on yourself, he doesn't allow you to fall willingly, he will lead you with practical actions and work hard with you to move forward.
If you give up your self and don't remind you, and even take the initiative to ask you to sacrifice yourself to fulfill him and return to the family, such a man is selfish and doesn't love you at all.
Love is illusory and realistic.
True love will be put into practice, return to life itself, as long as you pay attention, you can come up with the answer.
The man who loves you will be stingy and mind everything.
The kind of man who is generous in everything and doesn't care about you, if he doesn't love you, just give up.