I shared an article with you before, which mentioned that if a loved one dies, there are five categories of people who are best not to go to the funeral.
As mentioned in the article, it is better for children not to go to funerals, especially children under the age of 10, whose minds have not yet matured, and taking them to funerals often does more harm than good.
Not long after the release of this article, it also aroused heated discussions among many netizens. Many of them also left messages saying that not only the funeral, but also four places where children should not be taken there, and the editor thinks it is also very reasonable, so I will share it with you today. Do you know which four places they are? This is not a superstition, but a concern for the child's physical and mental health.
First, let's talk about why children should not go to funerals.
Many people believe that if a loved one dies, especially the closer to us, then the more important it is to go to the funeral, and it is better for the whole family to go. Therefore, many people do take their children to the funeral. However, if you think about it, children under the age of ten are really not suitable for funerals.
As we all know, a funeral is an occasion filled with sadness and a heavy atmosphere, where people express their condolences and thoughts for the deceased. However, for children, their psychological and cognitive development is not yet mature and may not be able to understand the true meaning of death.
Add to that the sadness of the funeral, the sound of crying, and some rituals can make children feel frightened and upset, and even leave a psychological shadow on them. In addition, the funeral site has a large number of people and a complex environment, which is also easy to increase the risk of children falling, being injured, or some other accidents.
For example, some families take their children of a few years old to the funeral, the children don't understand at all, they chase and fight at the funeral, and some of them cry and cry, and they need to be coaxed by adults, so it's better not to bring them? What do you say?
Let's take a look at the other four places that the child should go to less.
The first is the hospital.
For hospitals, the vast majority of parents know that their children should try not to go if they can. If you want to visit relatives and friends in the hospital, you will try not to take your children there. If the child can't get out, he will let a neighbor or a friend take care of it. It's not that their children are delicate, but that children can try not to go to the hospital if they can, this is the experience of the older generation, and it should be listened to.
From the point of view of modern science, the hospital is a place full of germs, and although the hospital has strict disinfection measures, it still cannot avoid the spread of various germs.
And the child's immune system is relatively weak, so it is more susceptible to germs. In addition, children love to run and touch everywhere, which can easily increase the risk of infection.
Try not to take your child to the hospital if it is not necessary, especially during the season when infectious diseases such as the flu are high. If your child needs to see a doctor, take protective measures such as wearing a mask and washing your hands frequently.
The second is places such as temples and Taoist temples.
The ancestor left a piece of advice: one person does not enter the temple, two people do not look at the well, and three people do not hug the tree. In addition, there is "it is better to stay in a deserted grave at night than to live in an ancient temple at night". Although this is the experience of the ancients, it is to remind us to pay attention to safety outside, but the older generation often said that temples and Taoist temples should not go if they can. Why?
As we all know, temples such as Taoist temples and temples are places where people burn incense to worship Buddha and pray for peace. However, these places are smoky and the air is filled with a lot of soot and harmful substances, which is not good for the child's respiratory health.
In addition, the architectural style and decoration of temples and Taoist temples are often more solemn and solemn, which may make children feel depressed and uncomfortable. It may even leave a shadow on the child, which can frighten the child. After all, children are not fully mature and do not know much about many ghosts, so taking them to temples, Taoist temples, etc., may have nightmares at night.
The third is entertainment venues such as bars, KTVs, etc.
These are places for adults to relax and have fun, but not for children. These places are often dimly lit, noisy, and chaotic. Children are easily frightened in such an environment.
At the same time, prolonged exposure to high decibel noise may cause hearing damage to children.
Moreover, the people in the entertainment venue are complex, and there are some unsafe factors, which can easily pose a threat to the personal safety of children.
The fourth is funeral parlors, cemeteries, and cemeteries, among others.
These places are closely associated with death, and the atmosphere is often eerie and oppressive. Children have a rich imagination and are prone to fear and associations with these places, which in turn affects their mental health.
Therefore, if a relative or friend who is not particularly close to you has passed away, it is best not to take your children to the funeral, especially not to take them to a funeral home, cemetery and other places.
In short, parents should try to choose a suitable place for their children when they go out with their children to create a healthy, safe and happy environment for them to grow up.
As children grow up, we need to pay attention to their physical and mental health and avoid exposing them to things and environments that may have a negative impact on them. Let us accompany our children to thrive with love and care. #秋日生活打卡季#