introduction
The bottom line of marriage is the cornerstone that everyone should stick to. So, what is the bottom line of marriage? An emotion expert takes a closer look at this. He pointed out that marriage, as a kind of commitment and contract, requires both husband and wife to follow a set of basic principles and bottom lines. Only in this way can a marriage be stable and happy.
The expert further elaborated that the bottom line of marriage has many aspects. The first priority is that husbands and wives should respect each other, not only in terms of their wishes, personality and rights, but also in their daily lives. Respecting each other's opinions and choices, not imposing one's own ideas on others, and not wantonly exploring each other's privacy is the cornerstone of building a harmonious and equal relationship between husband and wife, and it is also a source of strength to face the challenges of life together.
Second, trust and honesty are also indispensable in marriage. Husbands and wives should treat each other with sincerity, do not deceive or conceal, encourage and support each other when facing difficulties and challenges together, and work together to tide over difficulties.
In addition, taking on family responsibilities is also an important part of the bottom line of marriage. In the face of family responsibilities, husbands and wives should support each other and share responsibilities, rather than passing the buck. This sense of responsibility and spirit of responsibility is the guarantee of long-term happiness in marriage.
Finally, fidelity is at the heart of a marriage's bottom line. Resolutely not doing anything to hurt the other party is the cornerstone of maintaining the dignity and longevity of marriage.
However, in real life, there are always people who regard marriage as child's play, wantonly cross these bottom lines, and end up in an embarrassing situation. This is the case of Shanxi woman Shi, who crossed the bottom line of marriage without authorization and put herself in embarrassment. What's going on here? Next, let's unveil the story.
Overview of the event
29-year-old Shi married Zhou, a man from a neighboring village, six years ago. According to common sense, they should usher in a new life in the second year after marriage, but Shi failed to have children. The couple went to the hospital for an examination, and the results were shocking: Zhou was infertile.
Faced with this reality, the couple discussed raising a child, but found that the road was difficult. Despite their attempts at various attempts, they were never able to adopt them.
In order to improve the economic situation, Zhou went to Africa with the young people of his village to work two years ago. Due to the backward communication facilities in Africa, Zhou almost lost contact with Shi during his part-time job.
Recently, Zhou returned to China, but he was shocked to find the scene at home: Shi was holding a child in his arms. Zhou hurriedly asked, at first Shi said that he was adopted, but then felt that the truth was difficult to hide, so he admitted that he was cheating.
Zhou had a fiery personality, and after learning the truth, he was furious and kicked Shi out of the house. Shi had no choice but to go back to her parents' house with the child, but she didn't expect her mother to be disgusted by her cheating, and scolded angrily while driving away. Shi cried in front of the villagers.
According to a villager Zhang, under the persuasion of everyone, Shi's mother reluctantly took her in, but said that she would not let her live for a long time and asked her to solve the trouble by herself.
This matter has attracted widespread attention on the Internet, and netizens have launched heated discussions.
Netizen voices
Netizen "Years Like a Song" said: In rural areas, this situation is not uncommon. He thinks Shi's behavior should be understood, after all, her husband Zhou has been abroad for two years.
Netizen "How can you be embarrassed" pointed out that the husband is not at home all the year round, which may indeed lead to his wife cheating. As a husband, this should be taken into account and reflect on it.
In short, netizens have a lot of discussions on this matter, and they have different opinions.
Lao Hu's point of view
Cheating will indeed bring deep emotional damage to the other half, which is unavoidable, so Shi should also understand her husband Zhou's anger.
However, Lao Hu thought it was inappropriate for Shi's mother to expel her daughter from the door. Although her daughter Shi's behavior is indeed disgraceful and brings shame to the family, she is always her mother's daughter. When her daughter is in trouble, how can a mother bear not to take her in? Lao Hu believes that such an approach should not be done.