What does it take for a person to be competent?
Devoted to the business sea, from nothing to a rich party; aspire to enter politics, from low-level civil servants to high-ranking officials in temples; Obsessed with scientific research, from unknown to pillars of great power.
Anyone who has made excellent achievements in various fields should be regarded as capable people.
Each of us envies and wants to be a member of it, but the more capable people are, the heavier the responsibility and responsibility, and the higher the requirements for themselves.
Only by recognizing this first can it be possible to become that kind of person. Therefore, we should first learn certain skills of being a human being before we can truly possess those skills.
01
Virtue comes first, and a clear conscience is given
Morality is the highest belief of the Chinese nation, and we have always attached importance to a person's moral cultivation, whether as an official or as a person in the world. A person's life is to constantly cultivate himself.
"University" said: "From the Son of Heaven to the common people, all of them are based on self-cultivation." ”
Whether a person's moral cultivation is good or not, we really don't know, we can't see it, we must feel it from the specific aspects of what he does, what he says and does.
Therefore, one has to constantly revise oneself. In fact, that cultivation is to modify oneself.
People are born with individual differences, that is, there will be some shortcomings.
In this life, we are trying to cultivate the differences of each person, is it not until everyone is the same?
No, because everyone is the same, then the world will be in chaos. We need to cultivate that each person has a very unique expression, so that this society can have a way to divide labor and cooperate.
If everyone is trained to be a boss, then where to find cadres? If everyone has become a cadre, then there will be no leader.
Therefore, everyone has to cultivate themselves into their own special image, which Confucianism calls "Shendu".
Prudence is not as ordinary people explain, when you are alone, you don't see others, you have to be more cautious, otherwise you will mess around.
Of course, this is also a meaning, but the pattern is small. Shendui means that you have potential characteristics, and you are the only person who cannot be replaced.
This sentence is very important, everyone is unique in the world and irreplaceable, so you must know yourself.
My life is to be a very good watchmaker, enough; I've been here to be a very good 100-meter athlete all my life, that's enough......
Everyone, as long as you give full play to your potential strengths, you will fulfill your responsibility.
02
Lead by example and serve the people
First of all, we would like to remind you that it is to serve the people.
It is not only officials who need to do this, all walks of life adopt different ways from different standpoints, from different angles, but there is only one goal: to serve the people.
As long as everyone has such a correct idea, what "black-hearted products" will naturally disappear, and any profiteers, monopolies, conformists, and exploitations will also be greatly reduced.
What is service? This is something that everyone should understand.
We have repeatedly stated that it is not right not to always say, "I have the sincerity to serve, you must give me the opportunity to serve."
For "do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you," but neither can you do unto others as you would have them do unto you. There are many words that are irreversible.
Our ancestors only said "do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself", modern people are smart, saying that this is not positive enough, this is too negative, and they must do to others what they want.
Then he said a widely circulated saying: there are good things to share with good friends. There is no such thing at all!
I like to drink coffee, so I bought good coffee, and then I got all my friends, and everyone poured it hard, they had to drink, they couldn't sleep, that's your family's business...... What is this?
Remember, there are many things that can only be said in this way, not in reverse, and not every sentence is reversible.
People are so good to me, do I have to treat him the way he did to me? Not necessarily, because that's not what he expects.
I have limited power, I can only send you a bouquet of wild flowers, this is already the best I can, as for how you want to take care of me, then you can come with your conscience, you come by yourself, this is right.
Instead of saying that you give me a bouquet of wildflowers, then I will go out and pick a bouquet of wildflowers for you. I don't know what that's for, it's hurting people's hearts!
We must remember that the service should be heart-to-heart, think from the other person's point of view, and think about what he needs.
Therefore, the capitalist society puts forward a sentence: only the people know best what the people need.
I don't accept this sentence either, is it really that the people know what he needs most? Not necessarily.
Now you give him what he needs, and after a while, he feels as if something is wrong, because he doesn't know what he wants in the first place.
03
There is a stop, and reason is the way
What does it mean to stop?
In fact, it is very simple, to be a gentleman, to stop at benevolence; To be a minister, stop at respect; As a son of man, he ends in filial piety; To be a father is to be kind; Friendship with the people of the country ends with faith.
Today you are the supreme leader, and you have to master the word benevolence, not righteousness.
Benevolence and righteousness are not the same, benevolence is by conscience, and righteousness is reasonable. How reasonable? That's the business of the people below, not mine.
When I am the general manager, I only know that our products are for the public, and we are to maintain the health of the whole people.
Our enterprise, no matter what industry, has only one corporate culture, which is to serve the people, which is what I am mastering.
As for the quality of the product and how the price is set, it has nothing to do with me, and all departments must be responsible. But everyone has their own stops, each has his own part, and each has his own responsibility, which is reasonable.
The general manager understands everything, so there must be an omission. Everything is in charge, and in the end it is a mess, which we have seen too much.
So when I see a manager of a company on TV making a lot of remarks, I know in my mind that his company is almost finished.
To be a father is to be kind, to be a son of man, to be filial piety.
This word filial piety is a combination of two words, the above one is called the old, the lower one is called the son, that is, to deal with the relationship between the old and the young father and son is called filial piety.
In fact, no matter what indicators we use to assess people today, the most important thing is to look at the person's character.
I suggest going directly to the home of the person being assessed to see how his relationship with the elderly is doing, which is an important reference item.
Because since ancient times, we have known that loyal ministers come from the door of filial piety. If you are not filial to the second elder at home, can you still be good to the chief? Can it really serve the people?
But we are influenced by the West, we pay attention to everything, and we don't care about it. Because the West separates public and private, I only care about your business, and I don't care about private affairs. In fact, public and private are always inseparable.