Her name is "Sainan", and her mother is a woman who regards having a son as her life's work. Her sister has a birthmark on her face, she was sent away after birth, and she has never seen each other again, she lives in an area with a very strong patriarchal mentality, and her ancestors have grown up in such an atmosphere for generations, so in their consciousness, "how can a girl not be beaten", and the fate of a girl is to wait for their parents to have another boy.
But when she grew up, after she was able to leave that home, she immediately chose to leave. "Soon after graduating from college, my boyfriend proposed to me, and in order to leave them forever and leave the home I hated, I decided to marry him immediately." But even though she has left her original home, she still cuts off the exploitation of her daughter by family members, and even does not hesitate to let her daughter divorce and return to that place that makes her miserable.
But she chose a different path, and she started a completely new life. Now that she has a child of her own, she is far from the place that makes her miserable, and she becomes a new mother. But everything in the past still remains in her heart, and it still has an impact on her.
But fortunately, she now hopes to write as a career and express her heart in words. Therefore, her past experience has become the content of the book "Birthmark" that we are reading. In this book, we can read the most authentic accusation of a daughter from the heart, which makes us cry after reading it, and makes us think about the mental devastation and pain that we suffer as a woman and live in a distorted environment.
Of course, in this book, we can also read that the emergence of such a family atmosphere is not only due to personal reasons, but also to the whole society. Therefore, the story in this book is not only limited to the small family, but also extends to the more atmosphere of the author's life.
For example, the author once told a story about his grandmother in the book, because the author was young since he was a child, and my grandmother was inspired by the fortune teller, so I worshipped Si Chenguan as a godfather, and insisted on a ritualized life. In my grandmother's mind, it was a ritual that I couldn't afford to be careless.
From such stories, we can see the grandmother's love for the author, but that kind of distorted superstitious thoughts must also be deeply rooted in the grandmother's heart and cannot be separated. Of course, some other ideas, such as patriarchy, will also affect the grandmother in the process, and affect everyone around her, which is actually a direct manifestation of ignorant thoughts.
What about the other stories? There are many more in this book, which can give us insight into the various difficulties encountered as women in that existential predicament through the author's narration, and let us see the unfair treatment suffered by the author.
Of course, as a writer, the text of this book itself is actually very charming, after all, good stories need good words to present, and these stories can deeply infect us, which is in itself a victory for the author's words.
Then let's feel the charm of the author's literature through the reading of this book, feel the author's predicament as a woman, and feel the author's accusation of this predicament. #胎记##女性成长##女性#