Text/Mo Ran
In our lives, choices are very important, especially for women, and every choice in the future will affect their fate.
For wise women, they tend to think more and will make the most beneficial choice for themselves.
You must know that in life, it is a rare thing to be able to understand that rejection, and not everyone has enough courage to refuse.
And a wise woman will be more rational and sober, know what she wants, and will bravely refuse these three things to make her life better.
Refuse to be dependent
A wise woman will often live more soberly than the average person, and she will also recognize what reality looks like.
They will realize the cruelty of reality, so they will speak independently from themselves.
Many women will feel that as long as they find a person to rely on, they don't have to work hard, in fact, this person may not be able to shelter you from the wind and rain, but the wind and rain are brought by the other party.
If you want to live better, you must first learn to be independent and refuse to be dependent.
At any time, only what you have is the most practical, and it is natural to look at other people's faces when you are attached to others, and you have no ego.
In this society, no one will be your permanent safe haven except yourself.
Learning to rely on yourself, to be independent, and not to be overly dependent is the best way for a woman.
Refuse to compare
A truly wise woman never lives in the eyes of others, but in her own world.
In this society, there is no way to compare, people are different from others, and if you blindly trap and compare, you will lose yourself.
A wise woman will live her own life behind closed doors, and the good or bad of others has nothing to do with her, and she will not lose herself because of others.
When a woman can look down on gains and losses and maintain her inner abundance, it is true wisdom.
In fact, life is all about self-knowledge, and whether it is good or bad depends on one's choices and feelings.
Putting yourself in the right mindset, refusing to compare, doing what you like, and being true to your heart is the best attitude towards life.
At any time, don't let others affect your emotions and life, and be what you like.
Rejection of anxiety
In this society, the reason why many people have a bad life is that they care too much about other people's opinions, so they ignore themselves.
You must know that life is your own, and you have to live in your own world, not in the eyes of others.
We can't change others, but we can change ourselves, no matter what the external environment is, we must stabilize ourselves before we can live our own lives.
Say no to anxiety, be an emotionally stable self, and live the life you want.
Many times, our anxiety is useless, we can't change anything, we will only consume ourselves, and the gains outweigh the losses.
A wise woman will never let herself fall into internal friction because of others.
No one deserves to influence your emotions, don't let anger hurt you.
A truly wise woman often knows how to control her emotions, maintain a good attitude, and live her life well.
Only then will you be happy and live your life.
Summary:
To be a human being, if you want to live happily, you must be brave enough to learn to say no and dare to say no.
When you are able to express yourself bravely and not be trapped by anyone, you will truly live your life.
A truly wise woman will understand the value of rejection, refuse to depend, refuse to compare, and refuse to be anxious.
Only by learning to say no can you better control your life and embark on a path to happiness that belongs to you.
Every rejection is a kind of protection and respect for oneself, and learning to refuse is the key to a woman's maturity and happiness.