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A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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Ma Jinyu, a girl who came out of this land, also longed for the outside world, longed to measure the broader world with her footsteps, she desperately absorbed the nutrients of knowledge, such as the tenacious growth of poplar in the desert, and tried to root deeper, just to one day be able to touch the branches of dreams, finally, she got her wish and was admitted to the bustling Shanghai to become a student majoring in Chinese language and literature

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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Shanghai, this international metropolis, busy with traffic, neon flashing, exudes the atmosphere of modern civilization everywhere, and Ma Jinyu's memory of the hometown is completely different, she just arrived, her eyes are full of curiosity and excitement, she strolls on the Bund, feels the wind of the Huangpu River, as if also blows open the infinite vision of the future in her heart, she is secretly determined to take root in this city full of opportunities, break out of a world of her own

After graduating from university, Ma Jinyu successfully entered the media industry with her solid writing skills and keen sense of news, she is like a sponge, greedily absorbing all kinds of knowledge and experience, from the initial intern, step by step to grow into an excellent reporter, she rushed to the news scene, recorded the changes of the times with the tip of the pen, and captured the world with the lens

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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Fate always likes to joke with people, just when Ma Jinyu's career was booming, an interview experience completely changed the trajectory of her life, that time, she was sent to Guide County, Qinghai, to interview a beekeeper named Xie Decheng, Xie Decheng lived in Tibet, living a simple and pure life, in stark contrast to the bustling world in which Ma Jinyu lived

Maybe it was Xie Decheng's indifference to the world, or maybe it was the clear sky in his eyes that deeply touched Ma Jinyu's heartstrings, and she began to contact Xie Decheng frequently, sharing her life and feelings

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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Once the seeds of love sprout, it will grow rapidly, Ma Jinyu resolutely resigned from her job in Shanghai despite the opposition of her family and friends, followed the footsteps of love, and returned to the grassland that haunted her dreams

The life after marriage is not a romantic fairy tale imagined by Ma Jinyu, she took off her professional suit, put on coarse linen clothes, and worked with her husband at sunrise and sunset, living a simple and hard life, they beekeeping, farming, and running this humble home with hard-working hands

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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With the birth of three children one after another, Ma Jinyu's life focus has completely shifted to the family, she is like all ordinary mothers, laundry and cooking for children, housework, once dreams and pursuits, are submerged in the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, in order to subsidize the family, Ma Jinyu opened an online store to sell local products from her hometown

Ma Jinyu's story was once shaped into a "love fairy tale" by the media, and she was also named the title of "inspirational woman".

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

The picture comes from the Internet

It turned out that after marriage, Xie Decheng's temperament changed greatly, he often drank heavily, and he would add punches and kicks to Ma Jinyu after drinking, Ma Jinyu was not spared during her pregnancy, and even once, Xie Decheng also punched and kicked her, causing her to give birth prematurely, in the face of her husband's violence, Ma Jinyu did not think about resisting, but for the sake of the child, she chose to endure again and again

Ma Jinyu's forbearance did not bring her husband's repentance, but made him even worse, and in the end, Ma Jinyu mustered up the courage and took her three children to escape from the place that once brought her infinite longing, but left her bruised all over her body

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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Ma Jinyu's experience has aroused widespread concern and discussion in the society, and some people sympathize with her experience and accuse Xie Decheng of atrocities; Some people also questioned her choice, thinking that she was too impulsive and gave up everything for love, and finally ended up like this

Ma Jinyu's story is a tragedy about love, marriage, and dreams, which allows us to see that love is not a fairy tale, and marriage is not a safe haven. Perhaps, everyone has a different answer in their minds

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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Ma Jinyu's story has also triggered our deep thinking on the issue of domestic violence, domestic violence has never been a "family matter", but an illegal act, in the face of domestic violence, we can not be silent, let alone condone, we must stand up bravely, take up legal weapons, and protect the legitimate rights and interests of ourselves and our children

Today's Ma Jinyu, with three children, lives alone, she works hard to repay debts, while facing life positively, she believes that after the storm, there will always be a rainbow

A highly-paid female journalist gave up her job to marry a Tibetan farmer despite opposition, and lost everything ten years later

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