Male to female, which makes many people unacceptable, and Venus is the first to break this unrecognized controversy.
20 years ago, I married a foreigner and adopted three orphaned children, and there are still people who poke Venus in the back.
was called "irresponsible" back then, and 20 years later, after all this Jin Xing did, she understood her good intentions and competence!
Venus, who was born in a military family, is different from his friends in the same alley, when other children are obsessed with touching the gun and learning how to crawl forward,
Venus seems to have a deep obsession with another thing, but she is interested in other girls wearing skirts with various patterns, and even has other perceptions of her own gender.
Although the parents are both soldiers, the parents still relatively rarely interfere with what the child has to do.
And Venus looked at the big sisters in beautiful dresses, and even stood on the stage and danced, and when she lifted the skirt and turned in circles, she was deeply affected by her mind,
At this time, Jin Xing knew that she was a boy, and it was impossible for her to wear such a beautiful dress and stand on the stage to perform for everyone in her life, but she still did not give up.
The idea of a boy becoming a girl also took root in her heart from this moment, and she also knew that once she made this decision, there would definitely be many people who slandered and did not understand her.
So with the intention of rejecting herself and various moods, she participated in the registration of the military region, and soon she was hit by the Shenyang Legion, she really hated herself and did not make steel.
On the one hand, she wants to wear a beautiful dress and be a beautiful woman, and on the other hand, she very much hopes that her masculinity can be retained in the army.
It may also be the reason why she is melancholy about something every day, as a man but wants to be a real woman, so she is very entangled in this matter every day.
Basically, every time there is thunder and rain, Venus will always come out and look at the sky, as if to complain to the heavens about the unfairness to him, and tell God about it.
went to the army, and it didn't change Venus's unique thoughts, she even had more extreme ideas, that is, she wanted the rain and thunder to hack her and make her a woman.
In the face of a gay man with such a character, her friends around her will often call her a sissy, but Venus was happy in her heart at that time, after all, she was close to women,
As a parent, I don't really think much about Venus's thoughts at this stage, after all, everyone at this age also has a trace of rebellion, which is normal.
But as time goes by, I don't know that this idea of becoming a woman has not been eliminated little by little here in Venus, but the strong sense of becoming a woman is stronger.
Until Venus makes the most important decision in her life, the big stone in her parents' heart can be regarded as a smooth landing, otherwise she is worried every day.
But as Venus's parents, they didn't stop their son from wanting to be a boy to a girl, after all, it is true that the child is healthy, safe and happy.
When Venus was 18 years old, she used all her essence to dance, and vented all her happiness, depression and incomprehension with dancing.
After she stepped on the stage, she was even more in the realm of no one, that year the audience was full, she danced her own dance alone, and successfully won a championship in the "Taoli Cup".
And Venus has always closed herself at home, and after locking herself up, she concentrated on studying dance, and directly created the men's pointe dance, which attracted the attention of the world as soon as it came out.
Since then, Venus's name has become popular all over the country in the international arena, and it is precisely because of her original dance that she has won large and small championships.
In an instant, Venus became the focus, and then in their dance troupe, Venus also completely became a pillar of the stage, with Venus there, the members of the entire troupe can also stabilize their minds.
The success in their dance troupe, and at the same time, Venus also received invitations to tour abroad, and it was at that time that Venus knew that there were transsexuals.
But at that time, it was not as developed as we are now, and Venus was not selfish, and she always considered her parents' feelings in everything she did.
So when she was 28 years old, Jin Xing told her parents all her thoughts since she was a child, including the idea that she wanted to wear a skirt and become a woman.
Venus's parents also knew their son's thoughts, mainly adhering to the idea that the child had already made up their minds, so they didn't stop her in line with the idea of how the child was happy and how to come.
That's it, Venus embarked on her transformation journey, made an appointment for surgery, and she lay on the hospital bed as promised, and was pushed to the cold operating room.
Yes, that's right, the whole process of this operation is long, and it is also a pain that ordinary people can't accept, just like pulling bones and tendons, and it's not general anesthesia.
For 16 hours, Venus was in a semi-comatose state, waking up in pain, waking up in pain, like a dream, coming to the world to experience a catastrophe.
Although the doctors in the operating room have sufficient qualifications, the accident still happened, and there was a state of heavy bleeding during the operation, which made the family members outside uneasy.
But in the end, fortunately, the doctor did not panic, but dealt with the hemorrhage in an orderly manner, and just when everyone's hearts were put down, another big thing happened.
As a pillar of the entire dance troupe who dances for a living, the leg is the most important part, and after experiencing heavy bleeding, he was told that all the muscles in his left leg were necrotic.
It was like a thunderbolt from the blue, and it punched Venus in the head, and the news was even more uncomfortable than letting her die in the operating room, and she couldn't accept it.
However, due to Venus's persistence in his dance dream, after the operation, Venus went to the rehabilitation route, and trained with more hard and painful than ordinary people.
But fortunately, she worked hard to do postoperative rehabilitation and insisted on acupuncture treatment every day, although her body was very uncomfortable, she still survived and survived.
At this moment, after she got her identity back up, Venus standing in the sun became a woman completely, but this also made her mother's heart overflow, she wanted a child, and raised it.
But he couldn't have children, so he adopted a child when everyone tried their best to prevent it, and took good care of the child.
Then in 2002, Venus adopted two children again, and since then, Venus's family of four has officially begun, and Venus has almost fulfilled all the responsibilities of being a mother.
And now one of her three children is engaged in the latest AI work in London, and the other child is more obsessed with novels, so she has been preparing to write a novel.
Another child, under the hard work of Jin Xing's teaching, was also admitted to the Department of Business Administration of the University of Hong Kong with his own strength, and Jin Xing and his husband also received their certificates in Shanghai.