On June 3, 2021, there was heartbreaking news in the entertainment industry: the famous actor Xin Ming died of illness in a hospital in Guangzhou at the age of 73. This bad news is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for his wife, Song Xiaoying, who is also a celebrity in the entertainment industry.
Imagine that you have just said "good night" to your lover and the next day the news of his death comes out, and the pain is simply breathless. Song Xiaoying locked herself in her home for several days and cried so much that she cried all night.
Her world seemed to collapse in an instant, and all the good memories turned into heartache.
However, there are so many ifs in life, it is so cruel. Song Xiaoying's son has become her strongest backing. This sensible child silently stayed by his mother's side and comforted him softly: "Mom, Uncle Xin is an optimistic person, he definitely doesn't want to see you so sad." You have to be strong so that Uncle Sim will be at ease in heaven.
The son's words were like a shot in the arm, giving Song Xiaoying the courage to move on. She recalled Xin Ming's deathbed entrustment: "I am really reluctant to leave you, you have to live well after I leave."
This sentence became the motivation for her to regain her spirits.
You say, isn't life sometimes particularly ironic? Song Xiaoying finally met her true love at the age of 50, thinking that she could finally be stable and happy in the second half of her life, but who knew that fate would play such a joke again.
She told herself: instead of washing her face with tears all day long, it is better to remember her husband with a positive attitude. The best way to miss Xin Ming is to face life with optimism and a smile every day.
This decision allowed her to slowly come out of her grief.
You must know that in the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, there are not many people like Song Xiaoying who can always maintain their true temperament. Her strength not only touched the people around her, but also moved countless netizens.
Some netizens commented: "Song Xiaoying's experience tells us that no matter what difficulties we encounter, we must live bravely." This is the best memorial to the deceased.
Although Xin Ming's departure brought a huge blow to Song Xiaoying, she was not crushed by grief. Instead, she chose to face life with strength and continue her acting career.
Song Xiaoying's story teaches us that there will inevitably be setbacks and blows in life, but the key is how we respond. As the old saying goes, "It's not that there is no darkness, but that light is chosen."
Song Xiaoying interpreted the true meaning of this sentence with her own actions.
Speaking of Song Xiaoying, the post-80s and post-90s generations may be confused. However, for the post-60s and post-70s, she is a real goddess-level figure! Let's take a time machine, go back to the starting point of Song Xiaoying's acting career, and see how she reached the pinnacle of the film industry step by step.
In 1973, 19-year-old Song Xiaoying officially stepped into the showbiz with "Guerrillas of the Plains". At that time, she was young and beautiful, and her whole body exuded youthful vitality.
If you want to talk about Song Xiaoying's appearance, it is definitely top-notch. 1。 With a height of 68 meters and a slim figure, walking in the crowd is a beautiful landscape.
In the 80s, Song Xiaoying's career was in full swing. She starred in a series of classics such as "The Heart of Suffering", "Ward 16" and "Smile in the Candlelight".
In 1991, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress with "Smile in the Candlelight" and became a well-deserved first-line actress. At that time, Song Xiaoying was the focus of attention everywhere she went, and she could be called a top traffic star.
However, showbiz is never smooth sailing. At the end of the 90s, Song Xiaoying encountered the "cold winter" of her acting career. In 8 years, she barely received any good plays.
Can you imagine? An actress who was once a smash hit suddenly stopped filming. I am afraid that this kind of gap can only be experienced by those who have experienced it.
However, our Song Xiaoying is not the one who gives up easily. In 2002, she took over the filming of "Fanny's Smile" and played the role of a "mother-in-law". This role brought her back into everyone's sight.
Later, she was nominated for Best Supporting Actress at the Golden Rooster Awards for "Lover's Knot". Song Xiaoying proved with her strength that she is not only a beautiful face, but also a powerful actor with acting skills.
You see, Song Xiaoying's acting career is simply a roller coaster! She has experienced both peaks and valleys. However, no matter what difficulties she encountered, she never gave up her dream of acting.
This kind of persistence and tenacity is really admirable.
Recently, "Old Girlfriends" starring Song Xiaoying was broadcast on CCTV's eight prime-time broadcasts, which once again aroused heated discussions among the audience. In the play, she changed her previous image and created a character who spoke loudly and behaved pretentiously, making the audience shout "cute contrast".
Isn't this the strength of the old drama bones? You can surprise the audience at any time.
Song Xiaoying's story tells us that in the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, actors who can always adhere to themselves and keep breaking through are the real powerhouses. She used her own experience to explain what it means to "one minute on stage, ten years off stage".
Looking back on Song Xiaoying's acting career, you will find that she is not only a good actor, but also a person with perseverance and resilience. From the age of 19 to the present, she has been interpreting what it means to be an "actor" in her own way.
After talking about Song Xiaoying's starry star, let's gossip about her love life. As the old saying goes, "safflower needs green leaves".
Her first love was a soldier she met while filming "Guerrillas of the Plains". This little brother in Dalian is simple and handsome, tall, and exudes masculinity all over his body.
The two fell in love at first sight and began a 4-year long-distance relationship.
In 1978, Song Xiaoying was ready to get married. However, the drama continued, and the wedding date was delayed again and again. It wasn't until 1980 that the two finally came to fruition.
However, life after marriage is not as good as imagined. After a long period of separation, coupled with the lack of a common language, the marriage ended in a peaceful breakup.
After the divorce, Song Xiaoying devoted all her energy to her career. But, guess what? At the end of the 90s of the last century, she suddenly fell into an embarrassing situation with no drama to film.
In the past 8 years, Song Xiaoying has hardly received a satisfactory film.
However, God finally opened his eyes. In 2004, Song Xiaoying, who was 50 years old, met her true son - Xin Ming. Xin Ming is the son of the famous actor Xin Jing and is 6 years older than Song Xiaoying.
The two hit it off at first sight and quickly fell in love.
The love between Song Xiaoying and Xin Ming is like a sweet idol drama. The two went to the market together, cooked, walked the dog, and lived a happy life as ordinary people. Sometimes Song Xiaoying is filming in other places, and Xin Ming will fly to visit the class.
They also had a dog named "Rifle". You can often see Song Xiaoying walking in front with a puppy, and Xin Ming following behind to take pictures.
However, the sky is unpredictable. In June 2021, Xin Ming passed away suddenly, and Song Xiaoying fell into a low point of affection again. However, having experienced ups and downs, she chose to face it strongly.
Looking back on Song Xiaoying's two marriages, you will find that her road to love is not smooth. However, whether it is a failed first marriage or a happy but short-lived remarriage, Song Xiaoying maintains a positive and optimistic attitude.
She didn't complain, but chose to face it calmly.
Song Xiaoying's story tells us that there is no standard answer to love. Some people fall in love at first sight, and some people fall in love for a long time; Some people achieve positive results in their first love, and some people go through twists and turns to find true love.
It is important that we maintain a warm and brave heart, dare to love and hate, and are not afraid of being hurt. Because, only by experiencing it, can we truly understand the preciousness of love.
On the stage of Song Xiaoying's life, there is another important role that cannot be ignored, and that is her son.
Song Xiaoying's son was born in 1981. At that time, Song Xiaoying's career was in full swing, and she had no time to take care of her children. In desperation, she had no choice but to leave her son in the care of his mother.
Later, the son went to live with his ex-husband's parents. In this case, if it were someone else's family, the relationship between mother and son would have long since faded like water, right? However, Song Xiaoying and her son broke this curse.
Interestingly, Song Xiaoying and her son get along quite specially. Song Xiaoying called her son "buddy", and her son called her "sister".
In 2001, after graduating from university, my son went to study in New Zealand. After returning to China after completing his studies, he said some warm words to his mother: "Mom, you are still young and can't always live alone, if you meet the right one, I support you to start a new life."
These words brought tears to Song Xiaoying's eyes.
In Song Xiaoying's most difficult time, her son became her strongest backing. After Xin Ming died, it was her son who stayed by her side, silently taking care of her and wiping her tears.
The son said to Song Xiaoying: "Mom, Uncle Xin is an optimistic person, and he must not like the way you cry." When you are strong and happy, Uncle Sim will be happy in heaven.
These words gave Song Xiaoying the courage to regain her strength.
Now, her son often comes to accompany Song Xiaoying, cook for her, watch movies with her, and take her out to see the scenery. These seemingly ordinary daily lives are the best medicine to heal Song Xiaoying's soul.
The story of Song Xiaoying and her son allows us to see a rare parent-child relationship. There is no generation gap between them, there is no estrangement, there is only mutual understanding and support.
The story of this mother and son tells us that no matter how busy we are at work, even if we get together less and leave more, as long as we have each other in our hearts, we will definitely be able to cultivate a deep relationship.
experienced the death of her husband Xin Ming, and Song Xiaoying's life fell into a trough for a while. However, our Song Xiaoying is not a person who gives up easily! With the company and support of her son, she gradually came out of the haze and embraced life again.
In February 2022, more than half a year after Xin Ming's death, Song Xiaoying's life began to return to normal. Although there was still pain in her heart, she chose to face it strongly.
Song Xiaoying understands that life has to go on. She rededicated herself to her acting career and starred in many works such as "Old Girlfriends". In "Old Girlfriends", she changed her previous image and created a character who spoke loudly and behaved pretentiously, which made the audience's eyes shine.
Isn't this the strength of the old drama bones? You can surprise the audience at any time.
Interestingly, the drama "Old Girlfriends" ranked third in the national TV drama list in February.
Song Xiaoying's story teaches us that no matter how difficult life is, we must move forward bravely. She used her actions to explain what "suffering will not defeat me, but only make me stronger".
This spirit is worth learning from each of us.
Today's Song Xiaoying is still active in the film and television industry. She has a career she loves, a caring son, and thousands of fans who love her. Although Xin Ming is missing in her life, she has not stopped moving forward.
What do you say, what will Song Xiaoying's future be? I think it's definitely going to get better and better. Because she is the Song Xiaoying who will never admit defeat! Her story just tells us: there is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, only self that cannot be overcome.
As long as we maintain a positive and optimistic attitude like Song Xiaoying, we will definitely be able to usher in a better tomorrow.
Song Xiaoying, you are amazing! We look forward to seeing you shine on screen in the days to come.