Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
When there was a problem in love, I thought that disconnection was a good medicine to heal myself, and I could let time erase the other party from my memory.
People who love each other may be separated due to contradictions, misunderstandings, etc.
As everyone knows, some love always waits until it is lost to be realized.
Breaking off contact does not mean breaking love.
Some people, the more they break off, the more sober they become. After the disconnection, the woman does the following things to you, because she can't forget you and loves you.
02. For various reasons, I asked you for help
After the disconnection, the woman can't forget you, and she will find a way to intersect with you.
The love that she doesn't dare to say will turn into all kinds of awkward excuses for her to ask for your help.
Qiong Yao said: "Throughout the ages, feelings are stories printed in the same mold, making you sweet, making you bitter, making you sour, and never having time." ”
In the days of disconnection, love is her hand that wants to dial your phone countless times but stops, and it is the words that she has planned thousands of times and deleted in her WeChat chat box.
She awkwardly asks you for one small favor after another, asks for the phone number of the restaurant you used to go to, and asks you where her stuff is......
She asked for help again and again, heard your voice as she wished, and even saw you again with the excuse of picking up something.
In the messages for help for various reasons, her careful love is hidden.
Because she loves you, she is reluctant to completely cut off contact with you. She will ask you for help for various reasons, increase intersections, and re-establish feelings with each other.
03. When you encounter difficulties, she is anxious to give generously to you
After breaking up with his first love Xiao Di, Zhang Yu in the TV series "The Leftover is King" has been remembering each other for many years and dressed up to attend the class reunion, just to see him again.
But God was unwilling to fulfill her wish, but wanted to give her a heavy blow.
The face did not come to fruition, but Zhang Yu learned the news that Xiao Di was suffering from uremia.
Zhang Yu, who is crazy about love, reacted subconsciously to donate one of his kidneys to Xiao Di!
Unexpectedly, her kidney happened to match Xiao Di. She resolutely donated her own kidney.
When love is deep, women can't take care of themselves.
A woman loves you, even if she has been disconnected for many years, as long as you encounter difficulties, she will definitely try all kinds of ways for you in a hurry.
A woman, who loves someone, will put her heart on him, be afraid of him, and be anxious about his anxieties.
Even if you are disconnected, as long as you encounter difficulties, she will be anxious to give generously to you, even at the expense of making certain sacrifices.
04. I still can't help it, take care of you with my heart
After Zhou Jing and Yang Peng broke up, he would always refresh his circle of friends countless times a day, trying to learn about his recent situation through the circle of friends.
Once, she saw Yang Peng post a photo of hanging saline, with the text: Grade 10 autism patient, see a doctor alone.
Zhou Jing's heart suddenly rose to his throat.
It is said that a woman in love is a detective, and a woman after a breakup must be a detective.
She kept zooming in on the photos, looking for clues to the minutiae inside. Finally, she saw the name of the hospital and rushed to it.
When Yang Peng saw her, she was panting because she rushed over, and he asked her why she came.
She only said, "I'm afraid that if you fall asleep alone, what will you do if the blood comes back?" ”
She accompanied him to hang up the salt water, poured water for a while, and covered his hands with a hot water bottle for a while, taking care of him meticulously, as if returning to the days when there was no breakup.
If you love someone, you can't help but think about him.
Even though I have lost my reasonable identity, I still can't help but take care of you with my heart.
Love will make the love in a woman's body overflow, and she can't help but want to take care of him.
Even if you break up and disconnect, she will still remember your situation from time to time. Wait for an opportunity to show up and take care of you.
05. Summary
I once thought that love was like armor, as long as two people had love, they could resist all difficulties.
Until I lose it, I know that love is a colorful cloud that is easy to disperse and a fragile glass that needs to be cared for and managed by both parties.
Contradictions and misunderstandings will cause cracks between two people who love each other.
Over time, the crack became a deep gully separating the two.
Don't wait until you lose to regret it, and don't realize how deep love is after a breakup. From now on, manage well and love with your heart.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.