This girl's story really doesn't taste it in my heart. The 33-week-old twins, bumpy for nine hours on the high-speed train, and the child in her belly still kicked her vigorously, which is going home, which is clearly a heart-rending choice. She was entangled, painful, and felt guilty, but was the root cause of all this really caused by herself?
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Let's not talk about the bride price, right, let's just say that this pregnancy is a matter of the girl alone? Apparently not. But now that the man's family sees that his belly is big, he doesn't want to give 100,000 dowry, and this abacus is really crackling, which makes people feel chilling when they hear it. The girl's mother came all the way from Guizhou, not to quarrel, but for her daughter's happiness. As a result, the conversation almost collapsed.
The man's family finally relented and said that the bride price would be given, and the child would get married after birth, and the household registration would also be moved. But why does this promise sound so unreliable? Just like netizens said, it feels like a delaying tactic, give birth to the child first, and then talk about it, who knows what will happen next?
The girl is now in a dilemma, let's induce labor, the children are so old, I can't bear it; If you don't induce labor, this marriage is so bottomless, how will you live in the future? It's like standing on the edge of a cliff, one step forward is an abyss, and one step back is also a thorn.
This girl's story reflects a lot of practical problems. Getting pregnant before marriage is really risky. In the absence of marriage security, it is difficult for women's rights and interests to be protected. Once there is a problem, women are often in a passive position, just like this girl, led by the nose by the man's family.
The issue of bride price has always been a sensitive topic in marriage. Some say it's a bad habit and should be abolished; Some say that this is compensation for the woman's family and should be retained. There is no right or wrong bride price, the key lies in the communication and understanding of both families. If the bride price is used as a bargaining chip, it loses its original meaning.
In love and marriage, you must keep your eyes open and see each other clearly. Don't be fooled by the sweet words of the moment, but look at the actual actions of the other party. If the other person doesn't respect you and doesn't value your feelings, think carefully about the future of the relationship.
What does the girl need most now? It's the support and understanding of the family. The company of her mother made her feel warm, but it also made her more entangled. What she needs is a shoulder to lean on, someone to talk to. I hope her family can give her more support and encouragement to help her through this difficult time.
As for the comments of netizens, some objectively analyzed the situation, some made suggestions, and some expressed sympathy. Someone suggested that she keep her children and make money by doing live broadcasts; It was suggested that she give birth to someone else; Some people also reminded her that such a man is not worth entrusting for life. Everyone's experience is different, their position is different, and the advice given is different. The final decision is still in the hands of the girl herself.
I want to say to the girl, whatever choice you make, face it strongly. There is no turning back in life, but we can learn from our mistakes and make ourselves more mature and stronger. Remember, you are not alone in the fight, and your family and friends will have your back.