Too many vivid examples prove that it is difficult for female stars to harvest a happy ending in the "love brain".
However, even so, there are still people who put out fires for the love moth and plunge into the feelings.
TVB has a famous old drama bone, who has given up his career for the scumbag many times, tried to swallow drugs to commit suicide after being abandoned, and the encounter was really not too tragic.
Fortunately, after a thousand sails, she found true happiness.
On March 23, Han Mali, an old drama bone who has not appeared for a long time, was a guest in the interview program "Origin from Coffee 2" hosted by Ma Junwei.
On the show, she talked about her experience of being critically ill with meningitis and praised her husband Du Yange for giving her meticulous care and security when she was ill.
To be honest, many people may not be familiar with Han Malley, but you must recognize this face.
In the 46 years since entering the industry, she has played countless classic supporting roles in TVB, all of which are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. As a "mother professional household", she has "abandoned" countless children in the play.
But who would have thought that Sister Mary in the TV series was decisive and fierce, but outside the drama, she was a "silly white sweet" in the love world?
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The childhood Hamalley can be said to be a real miss.
Her family lives in Lee Yuen Hill Road, Causeway Bay, equipped with drivers, workers, etc., her father is a pharmacist, and her mother is a teacher who teaches in St Paul's.
However, when he was a child, Han Malley lived with his grandparents in the shek O villa.
Because her grandfather's family was a scholar, her tutoring in her childhood was very strict, and she had many rules to follow. Therefore, when she was young, she was well protected by her family and was very simple and kind.
In middle school, Hamalley's family wanted to send her abroad to study, but was refused. At that time, she only wanted to dance, so she signed up for Li's TV dance artist training class.
Li is the predecessor of ATV, and her classmate at the same time is Liu Songren.
The first time Hammaley gave up his career for the sake of affection was two years after joining Leigh's television.
At that time, her first love boyfriend decided to study in the United Kingdom, and she did not want to leave her boyfriend, so she gave up her favorite dance job and ran to London with her boyfriend.
Han Malley, who had just arrived in a different place, rented a unit there and accompanied her boyfriend wholeheartedly. But half a year later, she found out that her boyfriend was unfaithful to her.
The news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, pouring out her passion for love.
At that time, Han Malley, who was young and vigorous and had not suffered hardships, could not bear this deception at all, and immediately bought a ticket back to Hong Kong in anger, and when she arrived home, her family learned about her breakup.
After returning to Hong Kong, Hammali joined Wireless. Originally, he only planned to be a program assistant, but he was later transferred to report on the program trailer.
In 1975, Wang Tianlin began filming "Lu Xiaofeng", and the executive producer found her to play the heroine Shangguan Feiyan, partnering with her old classmate Liu Songren.
Later, she was arranged to host the TV show "K-100" with He Shouxin, which received the highest ratings of the year.
Only two years into the industry, just a heroine and a high-rating show, Han Malley felt that everything seemed to be handy.
Coupled with the fact that the family environment is too good, she is not worried about eating and wearing the day so that she is completely unmotivated, so she has no ambition and is committed to finding the perfect love.
The first marriage was a bit of a gamble.
At that time, wireless wanted to praise her, she could have a good chance to rise, but Han Malley, who was eager to find someone to rely on, quickly entrusted himself to her first husband, Chen Bobby, and did not care about her career.
When he married, Han Malley was only 21 years old, when Chen Bobi was a TVB show executive producer, and she was a popular artist in the ascendancy of her career.
As for the reason for marrying her first husband, I was only touched by his persistence.
The two were once middle school classmates, and when they were studying, Chen Bobi liked Han Malley very much, and had been pursuing her, and now that they have been reunited for a long time, they did not expect that he still missed her.
In The eyes of Han Malley, Chen Bobi is a good marriage partner. After all, compared to his first love boyfriend, he seems to be very long and single-minded.
Unfortunately, the marriage lasted only two years.
The reason is that without him, even the best youth filter can't stop gossip.
In the entertainment industry, it is inevitable that there will be scandals, especially popular flowers like Han Malley.
At that time, she had a scandal because of the program with He Shouxin, and despite repeated explanations, her well-born husband could not stand these gossip. Moreover, her husband's family originally looked down on people in the entertainment industry, and after this incident, they did not have a good look for her.
Hamaly, who has a strong sense of self-esteem, could not accept this kind of jealous marriage, so he took the initiative to choose divorce.
The failure of the first marriage led to a lot of changes in Hammaly's concept. In her view, the main reason for the failure is that the two people's emotional foundation is not solid, and they do not know how to deal with marriage.
She felt that it was useless to find someone who loved her, she had to like it very much.
Later, Han Malley fell in love with the wireless executive he had always admired, Feng Jilong.
That is, Feng Baobao's brother.
At that time, Feng Jilong's family also liked her very much and tried their best to promote the two of them to be together.
Therefore, although Feng Jilong has become famous, Han Mali, who is blinded by love, still wants to be with him regardless of his disregard, and even directly quit the entertainment circle and washes his hands and makes soup for him.
The results of marriage can naturally be imagined. She regards her husband as her own, but Feng Jilong is difficult to change her true colors.
Han Malley plays the role of a good wife and mother very well, everything in the family revolves around him, even if he is wronged, he will not upset his husband. However, the husband still has constant affairs, and is often exposed to have ambiguous affairs with other people, which makes Han Malley very painful.
And she learned afterwards that the Feng family's parents had taken a fancy to her, only because she was obedient.
In this marriage, Hamalley completely lost his self-esteem and thought about ending his life.
Fortunately, I was later rescued. But because of these things, she also suffered from anxiety disorders.
From time to time, she would start to have a rapid heartbeat, suffocations, auditory hallucinations, sweating all over her body, unable to even take a bath in severe cases, and her hands would be so shaken that she could not even hold her chopsticks steadily. Unable to hurt others, she had to torture herself.
Later, under the guidance of her friend Zheng Mingming, she began to believe in Christ. In reshaping her view of marriage and life, this belief has given her a lot of help to a large extent.
Like the glint of the first relationship, the second marriage ended more than two years later.
Even if it is short-lived, the damage caused to her by this relationship is huge. After many years, when she heard Feng Jilong's name again, her heart would still hurt to the point of bleeding.
It wasn't until Feng Jilong's father passed away, above the Spiritual Hall, that people lived and died, that Han Mali finally let go.
"It's not me who's wrong, there's no reason to keep punishing myself like this."
Although the matter is in the past, this wasteful marriage also allows Han Malley to say goodbye to the position of the heroine completely.
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Three relationships failed three times and met scumbags twice, and Han Malley's luck was also no one.
Fortunately, "Love Brain" also has a day when it encounters really good people, which is also TVB's "green leaf" - Du Yange.
Du Yange, known as "Du Sir" in jianghu, joined the wireless dubbing team in the 1990s and is now a veteran voice actor.
He has almost covered all the first-line male protagonists of TVB such as Gu Tianle, Liang Chaowei, Luo Jialiang, Zhang Zhilin, Chen Hao Chinese dubbing, Yang Guo, Ye Rongtian and other classic roles are from his "mouth".
In that year, Liang Chaowei won the Golden Horse Award for Film Emperor with "Chongqing Forest", so Du Yange also had the title of "Film Emperor on the Microphone".
The two were married to an event at the TVB Artist's House, when Han Malley was drinking coffee in a café, and when he saw Du Yange order a cup of hot milk and drink three cups in a row, he thought this "milk boy" was so strange.
But it was also this time that Hamalley began to pay attention to the man who drank milk in the café.
Later, the two frequently exchanged tapes, saying that he sang like Fei Yuqing, and also felt that he was very well-behaved without smoking or drinking, and thought that he was not as slippery as others, very connotative. In the coming and going, the black tape records the process of the two people's mutual affection.
In 1989, the two married in a low-key manner in Canberra, Australia.
In the third marriage, Han Malley was relatively mature, and her husband was also a very careful and gentle person. After marriage, the two tolerated each other and accommodated each other, and 31 years passed unconsciously.
For the secret of love preservation, the two also reached a consensus, that is, "divorce can not be easily said". Once the hurtful words are spoken, it is not easy to take them back.
Facing reality and ideals, Han Malley, who is in his twenties, is rash and willful and does not know how to cherish the individual, and he struggles in marriage and is also full of bruises;
Han Malley, who is in his sixties, has experienced the baptism of years and marriage, becoming more and more mature and stable, persevering and brave, and maintaining the enthusiasm he once had.
Although the personalities of the two are opposite, they unexpectedly match in the marriage.
She likes to talk, he listens quietly; he likes to send love to the landscape, she accompanies the gossip; she is in front of the screen as a "mother", he is silent behind the scenes.
The long-term relationship not only made up for the damage caused by the past two marriages, but also allowed Han Malley to regain his former self-confidence.
In life, not only her husband hurt her, but her in-laws were also very good to her.
After marriage, the two jointly decided not to have children, and the two elderly people were also very considerate.
Han Malley often lamented in interviews that her family was kind to her.
On the tenth anniversary of their marriage, Du Yange also wrote a poem to give to Han Mali. Just like the tape of the year.
"I just hope she can understand me, read me, accompany me on sightseeing trips, see waterfalls, plant potted plants..."
Old husband and wife, all love is integrated into life, simple and gentle.
In the past two years, Han Mali has reduced production a lot due to physical reasons, not only plagued by emotional diseases, but also suffering from meningitis, and once came to the brink of life and death. But fortunately, thanks to the close care of her, she came out of the valley of death again and again.
On Ma Junwei's show, she generously expressed her gratitude to her husband:
"Stepping into the ghost door with one foot, the biggest feeling is not the fear of death, but the discovery that you are a bad wife. Fortunately, my husband was so nice and nice to me, so good that I didn't know how to thank him, and he let me see that I already had happiness. ”
Those who will not love slowly mature and become strong under the tolerance of love.
The two are often caught going out on the street together, and one person must be in the place where the other must be there, so the good feelings were once regarded as a model couple.
Today, both of them have passed the age of flower armor, and their feelings are still as loving as ever.
32 years of time has not worn away the original heartbeat, but has transformed it into a long stream of warmth.
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Now Han Malley, in addition to acting, has also dabbled in the beauty ranks. Not only did he work as an administrator in his friend Zheng Mingming's company, Beauty School, but he also invested in a beauty center and served as an administrative director in the dance school run by Su Zhiwei, living a stable and satisfying life.
After a failed first love and two painful marriages, the disheartened Han Malley is like a boat that has lost its oar in the sea, flowing with the waves; but when the new love quietly arrives, she is still full of enthusiasm and re-sets sail.
Nowadays, the career harvest and family happiness can also be regarded as bittersweet.
Author: ZAU
Editor-in-Charge: CHEN