Our parents' generation, because of the limited education they received, coupled with the influence of feudal ideas, there were many "crooked truths" in parenting. Sometimes parents believe it, and it is likely to have a negative impact on their child's life. Therefore, if you want to become a qualified parent, you must learn a scientific view of parenting.
When the child's body is abnormal, he should seek medical treatment in time and go to the hospital to find answers, no matter whether there are serious problems, only in this way will he be at ease and more responsible for the child. After all, what evidence is there that "out of ordinary people" must be a child prodigy? There have been many cases around us where children have been hurt due to ignorance, and I hope we can take this as a warning.
When the child is first born, I wonder if you have carefully observed the various parts of their bodies? There are many babies, there will be a small hole in the ear, in the eyes of the older generation this is a symbol of wealth, representing the child is the proud son of heaven, there is good luck in life, but in fact, this is a congenital disease. Many parents do not pay attention to this because they believe their parents' words, resulting in their children suffering a lot. So what kind of impact will this "little eye" growing next to the ear have on the child? How should parents cope?
First of all, let's take a look at what this small eye is, in medicine, its name is called the preauricular fistula, which belongs to congenital external ear malformations. Clinically, such cases are not uncommon, and according to statistics, about 8% of babies in China have this fistula every year. The cause of its onset is unknown, but studies have shown a close genetic relationship, which means that if this is the case with one parent, then the child is also very likely.
Next, let's analyze the performance of it at the time of onset, because this belongs to the external ear deformity, coupled with the small area, so it has almost no impact on hearing, so the doctor will not clearly tell the parents when they are born, but as parents we must know it. Since it is a disease, it will cause certain damage to the body, but this disease is an opportunistic disease and requires a certain external effect.
In general, the following behaviors are the triggers for the onset of the disease and must be avoided.
Refuse to squeeze. As a fistula, it connects to a certain part of the inside of the ear, and sometimes white liquid flows out. Many mothers are curious, they will involuntarily squeeze the baby, but they do not know that this will only squeeze bigger and bigger, resulting in the direct bulge of the small hole that was originally inverted, and the situation of inflammation.
At a time, you can recover by taking some anti-inflammatory drugs, and in severe cases, surgery is required. Once the operation is performed, it means that it is not a simple problem, which may not only affect the appearance of the child, but even lead to hearing loss.
Scratching is prohibited. Under normal circumstances, this fistula is not painful or itchy, but when the baby's body resistance decreases, it is prone to infection, and bacteria will invade through this fistula, resulting in discomfort inside the ear. The child's control ability is poor, and if there is discomfort, he wants to scratch it, which will only aggravate the disease. As a parent, when it is found that the child has scratching behavior, it must be stopped in time, take the child to the doctor, and take precautions to prevent the deterioration of the condition.
Some parents know that the "small eyes" next to the child's ear are fistulas and become cautious and trembling, in fact, it is precisely because it is not serious, so the doctor does not prompt. Although the child's body itself has this defect, as long as it is properly cared for, it will not get sick, and as they age, their resistance gradually strengthens, and spontaneous onset is rare.
Of course, in life, we will not only hear the fallacy of "the small eye next to the ear is the representative of the rich", although some people often say "do not listen to the old man's words, suffer losses in front of the eyes", but not all "old people's words" have a basis, as young people in the new era, trendy parents, to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, some words can be listened to, some words can not be heard. Do you know what other "old man's words" should not be heard? Let's popularize some of it.
Shaving your hair can make your hair more exuberant
Many older people say that they must shave their newborn babies so that they will grow new hair that is more vigorous in the future. As everyone knows, the baby's skin is delicate, the scalp is even more lacking in protective layers, and the fetal hair is the only guardian, which can keep warm and cold and resist the invasion of pathogens from the outside world. Once the hair is shaved off, on the one hand, the protective layer disappears, the resistance declines easily to catch a cold and fever, on the other hand, the hair follicles are destroyed, which will directly lead to the child's baldness.
Eat more salt to be strong
Elderly people in their hometown often say that they should give their children more salt, because they lived in a time when salt was more expensive than gold. But in fact, infants and young children within one year of age, the function of various organs of the body is not perfect, eating excessive salt will increase the burden on the kidneys, destroy the function of the kidneys, once irreversible damage occurs, there will be kidney failure, at this time, parents regret it is too late.
As a parent, I am worried that my child's body is normal, but you must not worry about it. As long as you pay attention to the above points, try to avoid letting children catch colds, pay attention to nutritional balance in diet, and eat less spicy, they will grow up healthy and healthy.