Wen 丨 Kapok Mom
Saying that you don't want your child to learn well, don't care that your child's academic performance is fake, as a parent, which one doesn't want your child to have good academic performance?
After the child goes to primary school, many parents are caught in anxiety, and begin to worry about whether the child can adapt to school life, whether the child can understand, how to learn, whether it will drag its legs, after all, everyone knows that primary school is the stage of laying the foundation, and it is normal for parents to have this worry.
There is now a popular "eraser" law among elementary school students, and it is said that looking at a child's eraser can tell how the child is learning.
Children with poor grades "swallow" the eraser
There must be such a child around you, obviously the academic performance is not good, and the learning tools are used super fast.
There is such a "scum" in my family, the little nephew has a headache when he mentions learning, but his learning tools are used faster than one, almost two days to use a book, fast when two days one.
His secret is: if the homework is not written on this day, the next day, worried about the teacher's criticism, tell the teacher that the book is lost! Then go home and buy a new homework book and write your homework.
The eraser is used more like swallowing an eraser, too fast, one is that learning is really not good, do not like to write homework, and always write wrong, mistakes should be wiped with an eraser, in addition, the class is boring, there is nothing to play with the eraser, cut the eraser, carve a different shape, a little interesting.
Therefore, those children who learn "poorly", erasers and other learning tools are used too quickly, almost like a spit machine.
A child who learns well can't use up an eraser in a semester
It is not an exaggeration at all, children who learn well, the chance of using erasers is very small, because they listen carefully in class, write homework quickly and well, and the probability of mistakes is very small, so they rarely use erasers.
And everyone knows that the eraser is very durable, if there are fewer mistakes, a piece of eraser can be used for a long time. Those children who study well may not use an eraser for a semester.
In fact, children's learning is only one aspect, good learning and poor learning can not represent all children, but also can not determine the future of children, in the primary school stage, parents should pay attention to cultivate children's ability in these aspects.
1. Develop good habits
Some good habits once formed, will benefit for life, just like Dong Qing, forced by her parents to read, but this habit has been adhered to until now, no matter how busy, Dong Qing insists on getting up early to read, reading has become an indispensable part of Dong Qing's life.
In the primary school stage, parents must grasp the child's habits and supervise the child to develop good habits, such as letting the child go to bed early and get up early, so that the child insists on exercising, which are good habits that benefit the child in the future.
As the mother of Yang Chenyu, the winner of the college entrance examination, said: We must supervise the child to develop good habits before the child has no independent thinking ability, although the process of supervision is difficult, but once the habit is formed, the road behind is easy to go.
2. Cultivate learning ability
Learning is an ability, not who is smart, who learns fast, when I was in high school, we had a high school classmate, strong learning ability, basically winter and summer vacation time, he has learned what he wants to learn next semester, and then after the beginning of the school, learning is very easy, even if the class does not listen to the class, can answer the full score.
Therefore, learning is not without methods, parents should cultivate their children's active ability, learning ability, learning habits.
This year's college entrance examination has come out, the parents of the college entrance examination said: never went to the tutoring class, there is a college entrance examination champion only went to the seven-day tutoring class, when the child has the initiative to learn, with the ability to learn, without going to the tutoring class, the academic performance can also be improved.
3. Cultivate self-care ability
Can you believe it? Self-care ability is closely related to academic performance, as the ancients said: why sweep the world without sweeping a house!
I can't take care of myself, I can't figure out my own things, how can I have the heart to do something else.
Those children with good academic performance are often children who are particularly worry-free in daily life, who will take care of their own affairs in an orderly manner, and have a plan and plan for doing things.
Mian Mama said:
Parents, children's learning is important, but the child's conduct habits are more important, adhere to the correct guidance of children, children will be particularly good in the future!
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