At the peak of his career, he resolutely gave up his singing career, faded out of the public eye, chose to return to his family, and became a full-time dad, which surprised many people.
In the face of everyone's concern, he only said lightly that this is what a father should do.
A father has only done one thing in 10 years, that is, to accompany his sick son to grow up slowly! There was too much bitterness, too much tears during this period.
Years later, he took his son to the stage and sang the song "GrowIng Up Together", which was tailor-made for his son - the lyrics of which read: "Since we have the opportunity to meet, I will not give you up, you are the continuation of my life..."
When Qin Yong, the current lead singer of the Black Panther Band, stood on the stage and emotionally performed this song, everyone shed tears of emotion, and he interpreted what is not to give up with practical actions.
Jet Li bluntly praised Qin Yong as a true master!
Qin Yong, who stood on the stage, did not complain, only thanks, let us see a father's full love for his son, but also felt what is father's love like a mountain!
Now, more than ten years later, what happened to Qin Yong's sick son? In the past ten years, what has happened to the most touching stories?
First, the big pearl that loves to beat people
On October 16, 1996, a white and fat little boy was born, and Qin Yongrong was promoted to father. Seeing that the boy was white and fat, it was very cute, and Qin Yong named his son Big Pearl.
The arrival of his son added a lot of fun to Qin Yong and his family, and the whole family was immersed in the joy of the arrival of the child. Especially Qin Yong, he thought that his son was a lucky star!
In the previous year, Qin Yong's acting career had stagnated for a while, and there was no performance. It is strange to say that on the day of his son's birth, Qin Yong suddenly received a call from the performance. This made Qin Yong have no time to take a good look at his son, and he had to go out to perform non-stop.
After more than a month, Qin Yong performed every day, he came out early and returned late, busy on all fours, and there was no time to accompany his wife and children.
Because Qin Yong did not have time to take care of the children during the performance all day, and his wife also had a job, the two of them combined to plan to send their two-and-a-half-year-old son to kindergarten early.
On the first day of entering the park, Qin Yong and his wife were very nervous. Unexpectedly, the two-and-a-half-year-old pearl behaved quite calmly, at the entrance of the kindergarten, without crying or making trouble, he obediently followed the teacher into the classroom, so that Qin Yong's two hanging hearts immediately relaxed.
Who knew that just a few days after entering the kindergarten, Qin Yong received a call from the teacher, saying that the big pearl was very naughty in the kindergarten and always hit the children.
At first, Qin Yong and his wife thought that the children were mischievous and mischievous, and it was normal to fight and make trouble, so they had to apologize to the parents of the bullied children.
Who knows that this situation is getting worse, and Big Pearl constantly fights with her classmates in kindergarten and bullies her classmates.
Qin Yong and his wife kept receiving calls from teachers, saying that big pearls had hit people again, and the kindergarten even had to dissuade big pearls.
Qin Yong and his wife had no choice but to transfer the big pearl to another kindergarten.
Unexpectedly, not long after staying in the new kindergarten, Big Pearl repeated the previous problem, beating people and making trouble and children could not get along well. The kindergarten had no choice but to dissuade the Big Pearl again.
In this way, Qin Yong and his wife transferred their children to many kindergartens, but the problem was still not alleviated.
Qin Yong and his wife have always thought that the boy is naughty and active, and there is no way to take the child.
Until one day, a mother of a bullied child reminded Qin Yong that it is best to take the child to the hospital for a good examination, and there are many differences between your child and the child of the same age.
In fact, Qin Yong and his wife have not checked the child before, but the doctor said that the child has no organic problems, and it is estimated that the child is stunted, and his speech is relatively slow, and it will get better slowly for a long time.
Therefore, in the face of children fighting and making trouble, Qin Yong and his wife did not think much about it.
But this time, the parent's words made Qin Yong still giggle in his heart.
How are big pearls different from children of the same age? Qin Yong pondered this sentence seriously.
He found that his son Big Pearl was really different from children of the same age: Big Pearl was three years old, but he still stumbled when walking, his coordination was very poor, and the movement of his limbs seemed to be not directed by the brain.
The big pearl is three years old, but she can only call her father and mother, and the other words are like foreign languages, which are completely incomprehensible; the child's temper is also particularly grumpy, and he will start beating people when he is unhappy.
Qin Yong decided to take his son to check it out again. This examination directly frightened Qin Yong: the big pearl had an IQ of 0 and suffered from severe sensory system disorders!
Second, in order to take care of the sick child, his father gave up his singing career and became a full-time nursing father
Seeing that his son was ill, or a rarely heard sensory system disorder, the whole family panicked. Qin Yong also learned in detail about sensory system disorder: the information of various organs of the human body is integrated, and the brain is integrated to complete the response to the perception of various parts of the body.
In other words, sensory system disorder is that the sensory information of various organs of the body cannot be integrated and coordinated, and the brain and body cannot develop in harmony.
The doctor also pointed out that the child's reactions in infancy are not obvious, but as he grows older, he will always stay at the level of intelligence of the baby.
No wonder Big Pearl is 4 years old, but he has an IQ of 0!
Hearing this, Qin Yong almost collapsed! He never thought about his hard-won precious son, but he had a disease like sensory disorder, and his IQ was 0!
Looking at Qin Yong, who was almost desperate, the doctor told him that sensory imbalance is not an incurable disease, as long as there is a loving company, he may grow into a genius in some aspect...
accompany? How easy is it to be the lead singer of a popular band? Qin Yong was busy performing every day, running around, often so busy that he didn't even have time to sleep. It was almost impossible for him to accompany his son with all his heart now.
On the one hand, the sick son, on the other hand, the career he loves, how to choose?
After careful consideration, Qin Yong finally made a decision that shocked everyone: quit the Black Panther Band, go home to accompany his son, and be a full-time dad!
Qin Yong later said that when choosing between career and son, he would choose his son without hesitation, because this was the continuation of his bloodline.
After that, Qin Yong cut his trademark long hair short, collected his beloved guitar, and changed from a radiant lead singer to a very ordinary home father.
He wants to accompany his son wholeheartedly, cure his child's illness with love, and let him regain his new life!
Third, the difficult years of accompanying his son to recover
For Qin Yong, who can only sing and rarely spends time with his family, how to accompany children with severe sensory disorders? How can I help my child recover? This was a big problem facing Qin Yong.
Qin Yong remembered the doctor's words again: This disease can be improved or even cured. The key is to spend more time with him, to care more about him and communicate with him!
Next, Qin Yong gave all his patience, time and love to the Big Pearl.
The big pearl could not speak, and the language expression ability was very poor, so Qin Yong took the time to teach his son to speak.
He held his son every day, teaching big pearl to speak, expressing basic needs, eating, drinking water, going to the toilet, simple words that other children may learn in seconds, but big pearl often takes several days to master a word.
In addition to teaching the Great Pearl to learn basic expressions, Qin Yong began to teach his son mathematics and English. Big Pearl is not sensitive to mathematics, and a simple number often takes most of the day to teach.
Qin Yong was very patient with his son, reading numbers over and over again, teaching his son over and over again until he learned.
When learning English, often a simple word such as you and me, Qin Yong has to repeat the time of the day. The son had just learned, and Qin Yong asked if the Great Pearl would meet? How to read?
The Big Pearl would say slowly, "I don't know! Qin Yong looked at his son's helpless smile, turned his head and continued to teach his son to read.
Just teaching his son to master the basic language, Qin Yong spent more than a year. There were all kinds of hardships repeatedly in the middle, only he knew it, but Qin Yong never compromised or gave up.
In addition to basic language training, physical coordination is also more important.
How to let the big pearl walk safely, learn to dress, eat, and maintain the balance of the body, this is a problem that makes Qin Yong extremely headache.
These simple movements, in ordinary children, may be learned in an instant, but for the big pearl, it is simply more difficult than ascending to the sky.
No matter how hard it is, you have to learn!
Qin Yong said to himself over and over again in his heart that this was his son and he must not give up.
One day in June 2007, Qin Yong taught his son to ride a bicycle for the first time.
When Qin Yong helped his son to the bicycle seat, if he didn't pay attention to the big pearl, he would fall off the seat. After practicing like this for more than half a month, Big Pearl was barely able to sit on her seat.
The big pearl just sat down, Qin Yong let go of his hand, and the big pearl fell to the ground again, and he fell and cried.
The son fell and hurt, as a father, what is not painful?
But if it hurts, the big pearl will never learn. So Qin Yong gritted his teeth and continued to help his son to the bicycle.
After the continuous practice of the father and son, after more than half a year, the big pearl was finally able to sit firmly on the bicycle. But his feet didn't listen to the call and couldn't keep pace with the pedals of the bicycle.
Don't give up when you encounter difficulties, keep practicing! Qin Yong said to himself.
In this way, the coordination of the big pearl was practiced for more than half a year, and he could finally run forward on a crooked bicycle.
At first, Qin Yong was not at ease, and the big pearl pedaled the car in front, and he chased after the back.
Until one day, Qin Yong saw that his son could ride forward on a bicycle steadily, and he stood in the same place and couldn't help but cry...
After a year and a half of hard training, the Big Pearl can finally ride a bicycle with dexterity and ease, although this picture took a year and a half to arrive, but it is very precious to Qin Yong and the Big Pearl...
After Big Pearl learned to ride a bicycle, his coordination ability was much better, dressing, eating, going to the toilet, and tying his shoelaces, and the whole person became confident and cheerful.
The big pearl that was gradually optimistic and cheerful made Qin Yong more confident. Qin Yong found that his son was interested in painting and history.
So Qin Yong bought a bunch of painting materials, let the big pearls doodle at will, and each time the big pearls could be painted for most of the day.
Big Pearl is also interested in history books. Every time Qin Yong told his son a historical story, Big Pearl listened very carefully.
The big pearl also has the ability to never forget, and many historical stories can be repeated word for word.
Because I have heard more historical stories, the scope of historical knowledge has gradually broadened. The big pearl gradually has a special love for the history of the Qing Dynasty and the Dream of the Red Chamber, and has learned a lot about the history of the Qing Dynasty and the Dream of the Red Chamber.
Once a historian friend of Qin Yong came as a guest, chatted with the big pearl about history, and directly exaggerated that the history of the pearl was knowledgeable and a small historical genius.
The great pearl that loves history quotes the title of the ancients, changing the name of Qin Yong as the father and king, and calling the mother the mother.
Yes, this father king gave too much in his way to growing up. If the big pearl is a small genius of history, then the military merit medal is half the credit of his father!
Now, after more than 10 years of careful companionship and care, Big Pearl's condition is becoming more and more stable, and he has recovered! Has grown into a handsome young man!
IV. Afterword
Looking at his son who was gradually recovering, Qin Yong showed a long-lost smile on his face. He was no longer young, and his face was full of vicissitudes.
But whenever Qin Yong and Big Pearl performed on the same stage, when Qin Yong looked at his son, his eyes were so kind and loving, full of affection.
Perhaps at that moment, the four words of Father's love like a mountain were hidden in that gentle smile.
Now the big pearl has become an adult and grown into a handsome big guy, but his father Qin Yong is gradually getting older, and his former style is no longer there.
But what's so bad about that? With his own ten years in exchange for the health and happiness of his son's life, Qin Yong felt that it was all worth it.
Qin Yong stood on the stage, still singing the song he wrote for his son, "Growing Up Together"
"There is no color in your world, no song in your world, but you have the brightest smile that proves that you still have dreams in your life."
The world is too big for them to see you, and at this time, you can only leave footprints step by step by yourself, and you may step out of the world..."
Every time I listen to this song, I am touched once...
Qin Yong used his love, dedication and perseverance to successfully help his son get out of the haze of illness and lead his son to a bigger and broader world!
The efforts of more than ten years are so pale to describe in flowery terms, because it is a father's unconditional love for his children...