Tell my son what is the best arrangement before going to bed. Looking at my son who slept next to me now, I am even more convinced that everything is the best arrangement, and now is my best time.
The daughter-in-law took her mother-in-law to the hospital in an ambulance. Just now, the son was half awake to see that his mother was not around, grabbed his pillow and prepared to go to his mother. He thought that my mother thought that I was snoring and went to sleep in the living room, and when I couldn't see it for a while, he thought that my mother couldn't sleep. After I told my son why, my son got into my arms and held my arms tightly, and when he turned his back to sleep with his back to me, I heard the child's sobbing, and my little body trembled slightly, and then I held him deeply from behind in my arms, and kept saying in his ear that it was okay until he fell asleep.
I suddenly felt that this time was the happiest time of my life. The son is cute and studious, although he is young, he is clever and loves his lover, and his daughter-in-law is considerate and gentle and virtuous, and he takes care of the family inside and out in an orderly manner. The most valuable thing is that my parents and my daughter-in-law's parents are also there, although the body has minor diseases, but fortunately still accompanies us, when we go home, there is always a parent call, and there are still people who hurt us.
Life is actually a practice, always have to go through the joy and sorrow to be complete, but also always have to taste the sour, sweet and bitter to be counted as a hundred flavors of life. No one can escape the joys and sorrows that time brings us, and no one can escape the separation of the years brought to us by growth. It's just that I always greedily hope that this time will give me a little longer, a little more.
Although the epidemic in recent years has made life inconvenient, I want to thank the epidemic, and this seemingly contradictory mentality is actually exactly what I really think. People my age, old and young, are working hard to make money. At this age, we always have to be diligent and conscientious, and if we lie at home one day, we will definitely be laughed at as irresponsible people who are not doing their jobs. And the pandemic has given me the opportunity to stay home justifiably and comfortably. In recent years, although I have been going back once or twice a week on weekends, every time I have been in a hurry like a war. Both parents' families were only staying for half a day or so and had to go to Xi'an, watching their parents have sideburns and silver silk, but they were struggling to travel and miss the opportunity to accompany their parents. When I was a child, I always hoped that I would grow up quickly, and when my wings hardened, I wanted to fly as far as I wanted, and now that I am getting older, I have children myself, and after becoming a parent, I found that the place I wanted to go the most was home. Where the parents are, it is home.
In the past few years, the epidemic has been locked down twice, probably because God wants to complete me. The two lockdowns were once in meixian and once in Xi'an. These two times just happened to live with the parents on both sides for a while. Every day, I can sit with them and eat steadily, and happily talk and laugh. Then play cards together and count the days together in anticipation of unsealing.
When I was in my hometown, we cooked together every morning, studied the oil-poured noodles and steamed cakes together, and sat around the small dining table next to the kitchen together and talked about the bits and pieces of my childhood. I also because of the disagreement on eating, my father was so angry that he ran away from home when he didn't eat, and as a result, no one looked for him for half a day, and he pretended to be indifferent and came back to ask what to eat. Mom is always anxious to make a mess of herself as soon as she mentions cooking, and she will look for this and do that, and the result is that people can't eat for half a day. Duo Duo always can't get out of bed, as if stuck to the bed, every time she eats a meal, she comes out half awake to forage, and playing cards at night is always scolded by the big family because she can't cooperate with the pig teammates. If it weren't for the occasional online class, I would have forgotten that she was still a student. However, after the epidemic was lifted, it had to set foot in Xi'an to continue to run. When I left that day, I stood alone in the kitchen and looked around at every pot and pan in the kitchen, and my mind played back like a movie to the crisp sound of their collision during this time, and I didn't know when I would be able to spend some time with my parents for a while. It was definitely the longest time I've had with my parents since graduating from high school.
During this time, Xi'an was locked down, and when home isolation happened to live with her daughter-in-law's parents and mothers. In September this year, my mother-in-law has been living with me since she came to Xi'an for medical treatment. I was very welcome to have them come and stay. After the mother-in-law came, the daughter-in-law was much more relaxed. Every morning we just slept, the mother-in-law cut the dishes early and waited for us to get up, and when we finished washing, the delicious meal was already on the table. After we finished eating, my daughter-in-law helped clean up the kitchen. I took the baby to start his day of studying, and it was fun. Sometimes in the evening we would play cards together, and my son had just learned to play, and the little hand could not hold the cards in his hand like the adults, but could only open a card and put it all on the table. In this way, his cards basically belong to the open side, and every time he loses, he is unconvinced to turn around, causing his grandparents to laugh. Because the courtyard of the community does not allow to turn, every time they eat, they will go to the corridor to help digestion, and because a few days ago in the grandfather's pocket found lighters and cigarettes, the son will always quietly say that he went to monitor the grandfather after the grandfather went out, and then mysteriously went out, and sneaked back. Because of the total lockdown, the supermarkets and vegetable shops in the courtyard of the community are closed, so the lack of materials is a common disease in the whole of Xi'an. But because the mother-in-law's sitting I am not worried at all, the refrigerator is so much inventory, she can always change the pattern to make us delicious, the most classic is a variety of sauce, sandwich steamed sauce is absolutely a must, even if I have a bad stomach to eat on the diarrhea, I always can't help but steal a few bites, and then a person alone to occupy the toilet. Unfortunately, after all, it is the beginning of the serious illness, the various functions of the body still need to be restored, and sometimes it is sleepy and weak, which makes people anxious. The daughter-in-law is a super skillful chef, as long as she is happy and wants to eat delicious food, she will always create surprises for you in the kitchen, and the homemade croissant bun and rolling dough skin are just read the tutorial on Douyin. Had to serve. I've also always felt that my daughter-in-law was the best I've ever met in my life.
Actually, I enjoy my current state. Younger brothers and sisters are sensible, the son is smart and studious, and the parents are all there, although they cannot be rich and expensive materially, but there is still more than enough to cope with food and clothing. I've always thought of our parents as our biggest treasures. Parents are there, we are still children. If our parents are not there, we can only be us. With our parents, we are blessed in this world. And when our parents grow old, we will enjoy all the blessings of this world.
I am especially afraid of the New Year now, every year the parents will grow one year old, and the children will grow up to be one year older. And what makes me most nervous right now is that I feel like time is passing faster and faster, like an acceleration. Let the children grow up and gradually face all kinds of troubles in life until they leave me, and let their parents grow old quickly until they leave me. Sometimes I can't think about it, I can't even remember how I suddenly changed from a hairy boy in my twenties to a middle-aged uncle in my thirties, and how my parents suddenly changed from a young and powerful young man to an old man with white sideburns. In the middle, it's like a time machine suddenly brought over. Dad will retire next year. This is a very troublesome and painful thing for me, I am happy that my father has received a pension, and my father has always been a decent person with money and power. I didn't like that my dad was already in his 60s, and I seemed to miss his 50s and 40s. At the snap of a finger, it has indeed been nearly 20 years since I came to Xi'an to study. My parents also became grandparents.
Some people say that it is so difficult to make money. In fact, the most difficult and painful thing in life is not to make money or work, but to grow up more painfully and uncomfortably than this, and growth will have life and death. And the most painful thing is that we all know it will happen, but there is nothing we can do, we can only watch him happen around us, one by one to take our loved ones away, until one by one into cold black border photos hanging on the wall, including ourselves. This kind of pain will become more and more clearly engraved in the depths of our hearts as time flies. Therefore, compared to the parents will gradually grow old and the health is deteriorating, it is much easier to work and make money.
Now that I understand the lyrics of the chopstick brothers more and more, I hope that time will slow down. Let me enjoy the happiest and happiest time of my life. Don't let me feel the pain of parting too early, although I know the stage that this practice must go through, but I still hope that he can be one day late.