Mr. Ge, who lives in Fuzhou, has recently had a very tense relationship with his mother, and Mr. Ge said that because of the conflict with his mother before, he was even angry enough to move out with his wife and children.
He got into conflict with his parents and ran away from home with his wife and children
Father: I hope my children and grandchildren will come home
On the evening of June 9,
Mr. Ge and his parents had an argument,
Running away from home with his wife and children overnight,
Temporarily stay at a friend's house.
Mr. Ge's father, Ah Zhong, said
He hopes that his children and grandchildren will return home soon.
Son:
The mother was addicted to mobile games and neglected to take care of the family
Earlier, Mr. Ge told the mediation team,
On June 9,
The electric gate at home was closed twice by the mother,
The family's lives have been affected.
Father Ah Zhong explained
The son cut off the network at home,
As a result, the two of them can't use their mobile phones,
His wife, Alain, closed the electric gate in a fit of rage.
Mr. Ge told the mediation team,
Sixty-year-old mother Alain has long been addicted to mobile games,
Even neglecting the care of the family,
Mr. Ge came up with the idea of disconnecting the Wi-Fi,
Don't let your mother surf the Internet.
For the mother to play mobile games things,
His wife Ah Zhong did not deny it.
Then Alain has really put the mobile game
Playing to the point of so-called obsession?
Does the family's conflict really stem from this?
Mother: Playing games is just a pastime and not addictive
Upon learning of the arrival of the mediation team,
Alain also told us about her grievances.
Mother Alain felt like she was playing games
Only stay in a state of pastime,
But the son Mr. Ge thinks
The mother had begun to indulge.
Ah Zhong and Alan said,
They only occasionally serve as a pastime,
But it does not affect her love and care for her children.
Mr. Ge hopes that his mother will play less games.
Take care of your body.
The Mediation Panel felt that
Young people should understand the emptiness of the elderly at home,
Of course, the elderly play games for recreation
Also pay attention to moderation.
In addition, the Mediation Team felt that
Parents help their children with grandchildren
It's love, not duty,
As a son and daughter-in-law, you should be grateful to your parents,
Spend more time with your parents in your spare time.
Old Ge: There is too much monitoring at home
Feeling not trusted by my son
Ah Zhong and Alain felt aggrieved,
Mr. Ge is their only child,
The couple put almost all their energy into their lives
All for the son,
In exchange for not being respected.
Not only the living room of the home,
The rooms of the elderly are also monitored.
Ah Zhong felt son
It's not trusting them two old.
Under the persuasion of mediator Liu Qianwen,
Mr. Ge agreed
Turn off the smart speaker in the parents' room.
Parents: Have given everything for their son
Why not be understood
Alain's brother also came to the mediation scene,
He told us,
The old man's game caused contradictions
Just the surface.
Ah Gui told us,
For the happiness of Mr. Ge,
Mr. and Mrs. Ah Zhong poured all their energy into it,
Not only bought a house for his son in Fuzhou,
Even my son's foreign debt was paid off.
The content of the son's circle of friends makes the parents sad
The couple for Mr. Ge,
Sold the house in my hometown,
Now he lives in Fuzhou with his son.
Unexpectedly, after the two sides had a contradiction,
Mr. Ge sent a circle of friends saying,
I have never had a relationship with my parents.
Alain felt,
Give everything for your son without reservation,
As a son, Mr. Ge rarely thinks about his parents.
This made the second elder very insecure.
Alain proposed,
Hopefully, this property will be able to add its own name.
Mr. Ge's words once again made parents feel sad,
Mediator Liu Qianwen will be Mr. Ge alone
Take it aside to persuade.
Son: The love of parents feels like a heavy burden
In Mr. Ge's heart,
The efforts of his parents, he has always remembered in his heart,
I am also very grateful.
However, after getting along with my parents,
He felt that the love of his parents had become a burden of happiness.
Mediator: Juniors must be grateful
Despite the parents' way of expression
Unable to make the younger generations have emotional resonance,
But as a junior, you must have a grateful heart.
Meanwhile, mediator Liu Qianwen
Also persuaded the two elderly people.
Due to the differences in the habits of the two generations,
Living under the same roof for a long time,
Bumps and bumps are inevitable.
Mr. Ge decided to rent outside for the time being.
Wait for both sides to calm down before making a decision.
Mother and child embrace reconciliation
After learning of Mr. Ge's decision,
Ah Zhong also said that he respected his son.
In response to Mr. Ge's disrespect for his parents,
Mediator Liu Qianwen suggested to Mr. Ge
I also apologized to my mother.
After Liu Qianwen's mediation,
The Ge family opened their hearts,
Mr. Ge also promised that every weekend,
Will take the children home to visit their parents,
We also hope that in the future both sides can live in harmony,
Create a happy life together.