The university is the "ivory tower" in the minds of every student, from the moment of school, students will have fantasies and expectations for the university, at this moment, imagine the scene when entering the university, imagine the beautiful life after the university, therefore, the university has become a sacred land in the heart of every student.
Halfway through September, the freshmen who have just entered the university have a good time in the "hall" of the university dream? Is it as beautiful as I thought it was? I believe that most students will feel that the university life is beautiful.
Because there are no too many courses in this, there is no strictness of the teacher, it can be said that it is free, arbitrary, life is called a "comfortable", but students should pay attention to in addition to comfortable, in fact, there will be some "unspoken rules" in the university, most of the new students have suffered losses, don't wait for losses to realize Oh!
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The "unspoken rules" in the community, do not join casually
When you first enter the university, students will find that there are many brothers and sisters who begin to recruit new members for the club at this time, and at this time, they will lure you to join the club by saying "the sky is falling".
When students encounter this kind of thing, do not blindly join, some clubs are not well chosen, not only will waste a lot of students' time to study, but also waste a lot of energy, in addition, some clubs are still very "burning money", so in the choice of clubs do not want anyone to join Oh!
The "unspoken rules" when making friends, the circle that cannot be integrated should not be hard melted
Just entered the university, students will be in the school, meet a lot of good friends from "all over the world", but these students' living habits and personalities are different, especially in a dormitory, day and night to avoid "bumps", at this time, students do not be too strong, otherwise it will cause the phenomenon of being "isolated".
In addition, some students can't find a good friend after college, at this time they will feel that they are very lonely, and even try to find a way to integrate into some social circles, so that not only will they appear to be out of place, but also make themselves very inferior, so the circle that cannot be integrated should not be hard to integrate, and learning is the most important.
The "unspoken rules" in learning, don't let yourself go too far
The college period is completely different from the high school period, there is no teacher's daily chatter here, learning can only rely on their own self-discipline, but it is this laissez-faire, most students think that college is the end of learning, at this time began to let themselves go, skipping classes, hanging subjects, not learning countless, muddled through 4 years.
At this time, you will feel that there is nothing, just hanging subjects, but I don't know how serious the consequences of this simple hanging subject two words will bring you, it will make you unable to graduate smoothly, unable to evaluate excellence, unable to join the party, and even affect your graduate school, etc., this is a fact that the instructor will not tell us.
Analysis: College is like a "small society", many people have a deep understanding, students must understand not to wait until they have suffered losses before they realize it, seeing here many students want to ask, how should they plan in college?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" how to plan the golden 4 years of > university, the author divides the university into 4 stages, and new students can be used as a reference</h1>
Freshman year: It is a starting point, whether the college entrance examination is satisfactory or not, those unsatisfactory will soon pass, and then in this year you can desperately try to do what you like to do, don't be afraid of wasting time, because this time period is to find the direction.
Sophomore year: At this stage, your campus life has become stable, this year you have to find your own direction, start planning your own life, the certificate and grade that you should get, the certificate and grade must be taken as soon as possible, because some things that seem to be far away from you will actually come soon.
Junior year: I think it was a very important turning point in my four-year college career, and you could do addition in your freshman year and sophomore year, but at this time you should do subtraction.
Tell yourself what you want to do in the future, cut off all the directions that are not suitable for you, graduate school employment or entrepreneurship, and go deep into one direction, which is the best choice.
Senior year: At this time, you will find that you are busy all around you, writing papers, defenses, and finding jobs is the first step into society, for an employed person, your resume has been basically fixed, and you will also find the gap between people, but students need to go around the direction set in the third year, so as not to feel confused.
The author's message: College is like a watershed in life, four years is good, you will take the blueprint of life and the determination to win all the way to success, four years of waste, then your life is almost half wasted, life's frustration and dissatisfaction will follow, so students must plan the university for these 4 years, not to mention because of these "unspoken rules" to affect your college life!
Today's topic: Do you know what other "unspoken rules" there are in college?
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