Text | yew
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The road of human growth, we are always looking forward to it, we can go smoothly and far.
And when you're hoping for good luck, a lot of things are already doomed.
As the old saying goes, "There will be an end to life, and there is no need to forget it." Everything is hard to calculate, and it is all hit. ”
What your fate is, just look at these few things.
Huang Jiuxi, a migrant worker in Zhejiang, has a poor family and even has to save paper. After divorcing his wife, he took his daughter alone, and his heart was even more uncomfortable.
As soon as he closed his eyes, his mind was full of those hardships, and he also thought about it when he tied the steel bar, and he only felt tired.
After stumbling upon the seal carving, he suddenly decided to be quiet.
Before practicing seal engraving, completely empty yourself. No matter what happened that day, he stayed in the corner by himself, picked up a carving knife and a stone and carved it quietly.
The hurt of divorce, the pain of the family, the things he didn't want to touch, he didn't think about it.
At the moment of the seal carving, he felt that the whole person was relaxed, and then he went to work at the construction site, as if he was not so tired.
His own seal engraving techniques have also become more and more skilled, and they have easily been recognized by everyone.
Huang Jiuxi seems to be lucky, that is because he has laid down his heavy burden, forgotten the anxiety in his heart, and put his mind on the matter in front of him.
If you think about those hardships and worries every day, I am afraid that I will not wait for the better, and I will first boil up my strength.
Tagore once said:
One night I burned all my memories and since then my dreams have been transparent; one morning I threw away all my yesterday, and since then my steps have been light.
Haunting sadness, the suffering of life, what should be put away, what should be forgotten, light, you can walk easily.
On the way, no one knew what bumps would be.
But no matter what kind of road, self-disciplined people can go faster.
There was a peasant woman who was embarrassed at home, and I heard that the local government was running a training for sisters-in-law.
I don't know what my sister-in-law is doing, but in order to earn more money, she gets up early every day to go to class and silently memorizes every action.
Coaxing the child, disinfecting the navel, eliminating the red ass, removing the rash, she learned little by little, and practiced it countless times.
Getting up at 6:30 a.m. every day and going to bed at 10:00 a.m. has become her habit.
At important points in time, she even printed it out and pasted it on the wall so that she could easily do it.
For the sake of the list, she can get out of her hometown and catch an overnight train to the customer's house.
The first order is 3,000 yuan, the second order is 500 yuan, and now, her monthly salary of 10,000 50,000 yuan is enough to let the family live a good life.
Where there is any so-called counterattack, a quick step to achieve the wish, it is because of the ultimate self-discipline.
Yang Dai once said: "Life is geometric, how much fine gold can be refined by stubborn iron, how much can it be?" But different levels of exercise must have different levels of achievement. ”
Know self-discipline, accumulate enough confidence, fate will naturally not be treated badly, try your best to go forward, you can go faster.
Halfway through, there will always be all kinds of people, some of which just pass by and scatter on one side.
Find fellow travelers, support each other, and you'll go better.
I was very envious of the friendship between Shen Congwen and the translator Wang Jizhen.
Shen Congwen once went to visit, and halfway through the conversation, Wang Jizhen suddenly came out of the drawer with his two old works, "Duck" and "Love of the Witch".
These two books, even the second edition of the reprint, are difficult to find.
After more than twenty years, the book has become dilapidated, the pages are yellow, the cover has fallen off, and Wang Jizhen still treasures his immature works in his early years.
Wang Jizhen is older than him and is also very knowledgeable, and the two people often talk about academics and write together, which is a rare fit.
Every time Shen Congwen published a new book, he happily sent it to him, and Wang Jizhen did not feel childish, but just encouraged him and helped him.
The more he wrote, the more energetic he became, and Shen Congwen finally became a literary master, and "Border City" and "Xiangxing Sanji" have been passed down to this day.
And Wang Jizhen, who was lonely doing learning, also had light in his eyes, talked about culture, talked about book manuscripts, and immediately became interested.
With good friends around, hugging the group for warmth, the driving force of the road can also flow continuously.
People who achieve great things do not necessarily only go alone, but intersect with fellow passers-by, use their strength in one place, and the road ahead will be more and more wonderful, and the more smooth it is.
Short-distance travel, only use force, but life is a marathon, going down will always be tired, then the most need to have a good attitude, down-to-earth.
When the security guard Li Mingyong was determined to go to graduate school, his colleagues laughed at him and said that he would definitely not pass the exam.
But he was not affected at all, fully believed in himself, and happily prepared for the exam every day.
He had a weak foundation and failed twice in a row.
When he applied for the third time, more and more people advised him to abandon the exam.
Li Mingyong not only did not give up, but also became more determined, he always felt that he had hope, full of enthusiasm to fight.
He slowly grinded his patience, encouraged himself every day, and thought: "As long as you don't give up, it will be no problem." ”
Finally, he was not only admitted to graduate school, but also won the first place in the written test.
Since then, he has applied for a ph.D. and is preparing to apply for university lecturership.
The ridicule of others is less, he is more confident, every day he is full of energy, every step is very solid, walking very steadily, laughing and watching his dreams come true one by one.
Christopher Meng has a saying: "If you want to get a glimpse of your fate, just look at your mindset." ”
In difficult times, ask yourself, is there still confidence?
In the face of doubt, can we persist and not panic?
Go on with optimism, time will tell you that the road under your feet can be very stable, and the road ahead can be very far.
Everyone wants to go through the whole journey and realize their wishes, but to reach the end and even harvest more surprises, it is fundamentally up to you to save the good.
Heard a true story:
There is a li owner in the restaurant, who often meets an old man who picks up waste at the entrance of the store.
Every time she saved up old paper shells, she gave him empty bottles and often left him meals.
When she met the big Chinese New Year's Eve, the old man had nowhere to go, so she simply took the old man to her shop and spent the New Year together.
Perennial high-intensity work, Boss Li has accumulated fatigue.
Once, when she went out, her eyes went black and she fainted in the snow.
When she woke up in the hospital, she heard that it was the old man who sent her to the hospital.
She couldn't help but feel fortunate: the original kindness was not only contagious, but also life-saving.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", it is said: "The only way not to worry about the back road is to take the road ahead longer." ”
To take the road ahead long, from the root is to rely on the kindness from the heart.
Because of your kindness, even if people don't know, Heaven will know.
With kindness as your background, you will stabilize the basic disk of fate, even if you encounter difficulties, you can turn the crisis into safety.
The one who loves to come is blessed, the one who loves to come out loves to return, and the kind you will definitely smile and go to the end.
Fate comes down to a cycle of cause and effect.
Go longer and farther, and you have to save your blessings on your own.
Plant an empty heart and you get lightness;
Sprinkle the sweat of hard work and self-discipline, and you will reap the success;
Make your best friends, and you will welcome the nobles;
Maintain a steady mindset and you'll step more firmly;
With the greatest kindness, you have a good life.
There is no way out of misfortune, but only man is called.
There is nothing in fate, we are in the long road, but we plant ideas and harvest actions;
Planting actions and reaping habits;
Plant habits and gain personality;
When you plant a personality, you get your destiny.
Author | Yew, the iron lady of the post-90s cute system, can turn the knife with a pen, and the eyebrows are smiling.
Music | "These Ethereal Words"