Today I read a sentence from "When Nietzsche Wept":
They have no claws and claim their own goodness
The idea of being indoctrinated since childhood is to be kind to people, to be tolerant and tolerant, to be mixed up in the workplace for more than 10 years, and suddenly feel:
善良是一种能力，只有强者才配拥有，弱者充其量只能算个怂包。
Kaka, who was in the third grade, played downstairs, and there was a girl younger than him who always grabbed him skateboarding or playing with bicycles, and he didn't get angry and turned around to play with something else.
I asked, you were offended, why not get angry or fight back?
Kaka said: "I'm stronger, taller, older than her, she's still young, I won't bother with her."
This is kindness, you have an absolute ability to defend your boundaries and show your strength, but you choose to give up this ability and instead come out to understand the kindness of the other person, sometimes just to be at ease.
This is what people often say:
Only when you have vajra-like means are you equipped with a bodhisattva mind.
When bodhisattvas have compassion but are unable to protect you, will you still ask them?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > doing good is sometimes a cruelty</h1>
Osamu Dazai has a sentence in "Human Disqualification":
When doing good, be apologetic, because the most hurtful thing in the world is to do good to people.
Just like Kaka doesn't bother with the little girl, there is a little arrogance and superiority hidden in the kindness, which will make the other party feel: I am the weak, the object of sympathy and care!
The next time, when doing good to someone weaker than you, be sure to put away your sympathy and give him dignity with you.
From the German film Heidi and Grandpa
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > kindness is the most selfish behavior</h1>
Modern economists have widely adopted the following conclusions:
Kindness is one of the most selfish behaviors, because altruistic behavior maximizes self-interest, which is called kindness from a moral point of view and wisdom from an economic point of view.
For example, I make buns from real materials, not because I'm kind and selfless, but because I have a lust: when you want to eat, the first thing that comes to mind is my bun.
For another example, as soon as there is a disaster, those stars who enthusiastically donate will be sought after and paid attention by the public, and the exposure and reputation will be instantly enhanced.
The purpose behind donating for good is to continue to make more money.
So, kindness is the most intelligent kind of selfishness.
This is encouraged by society, "The public good that the 'flower of evil' of selfish desires produces is a goodness that deserves to be affirmed."
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > kindness you will be rich, not rich to become kind. </h1>
As the saying goes: Poor people have treacherous schemes, rich conscience.
When it is seen, Fuyao Glass Cao Dewang, donated a total of 16 billion yuan in 37 years;
When Buffett, the god of stocks, donated $27 billion to the Bill Gates Foundation to end poverty and develop new drugs, you might say:
That's because they have money to be kind, and I want to have money probably more than they donate, more kindly.
The truth is that kindness is the reason they have money, not the purpose of money.
If it's hard to be rich, then at least be kind, and that's something everyone can do.
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > summary:</h1>
Kindness is an ability that only the strong deserve;
When the strong do good, don't forget to give dignity to each other;
Only when selfish goodness is encouraged can altruism and mutually beneficial public interests be maximized;
Kindness attracts money, not suddenly becoming kind after having money.