For love, we all have beautiful expectations, hope that we are different in the eyes of our lovers, it is special, I hope that when we meet, even if we are thousands of miles apart, even if there are many people, the other party can still recognize us from the crowd, at a glance, it turns out that I am really special to you.
But the ideal is beautiful, the reality is cruel.
"Untouchable Lovers"
In the movie "Untouchable Lovers", Eun Joo and Xing Hyun are both lonely people.
In order to become the ideal of voice actor, Eun Joo did not choose to go abroad for further study with her hot boyfriend, although it was only three years, but her boyfriend was missing, Christmas, millennium there was no blessing, and she called the past but heard the voice of her boyfriend and a woman.
Have you ever been waiting for someone's phone and was about to jump up as soon as you heard it ringing, eun Joo was like that, sleeping with the phone in your arms, expecting your boyfriend's blessing, only that phone never rang again.
Eun Joo, who learns that her boyfriend is cheating
Although Xingxian has a talent for design, he has been unable to let go of his father's departure when he was seven years old, burning his graduation project, choosing to go to the construction site to do the lowest level of work, choosing to suspend school on the eve of graduation, and also facing a painful choice when his father is seriously ill.
Many times, we all live in a world of self-righteousness, thinking that we have not been loved, in fact, we have all been loved, loved deeply, but some things always have to be regretted after losing.
Group photo with my father
The letter delivered by the two through the time and space mailbox has become a comfort in each other's lives, although they have crossed time and space, they share happiness together, share worries and injuries, and come up with ideas to make each other happy.
The days are lonely and full of anticipation.
Anticipation and joy
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > reality is that you were an ordinary person before I fell in love with you. </h1>
Seung-hyun falls in love with Eun Joo, and when he finally plucks up enough courage, drinks red wine, and goes to the station to find Eun Joo from two years ago, Eun Joo walks towards him with a smile, he is very happy, thinking eun Joo recognizes him, only to find that she just walked towards her boyfriend behind him.
When Eun Joo walked past him with her boyfriend's arm, Seung Hyun smiled and looked at her with a look of heartache, while she looked at the man blankly, and it turned out that she did not recognize him. "Am I still a stranger to you?"
Yes, at this point, he was just a stranger in her eyes.
Yes, two years ago, Eun Joo didn't know Seung Hyun and was still in love with her ex-boyfriend. Even knowing that this was the case, Xingxian was still sad.
Am I a stranger
Coincidentally, in the movie "Your Name", Mitsuba falls in love with Taki and skips class to go to distant Tokyo to find Taki three years ago, she is convinced that Taki will recognize her and expects that the two will be different in the future.
However, Taki does not know her, but instead treats her as a hookup, and the sentence "Who are you?" completely breaks Mitsuba's heart.
The sad and sensitive girl, her face red, fled as if away.
Who are you
The fact that this is truly heart-wrenching, because in another realm of time and space, they are familiar and are about to fall in love with each other, while here and now she is just a stranger in his eyes.
So the injured Xingxian chose to face reality, decided to release the fish that Eun Joo gave him, decided to help Eun Joo to save his love, and chose to leave.
Let go
Mitsuba also felt very hurt, felt lost love, and cut her hair short after going back.
It turns out that before you fell in love with me, I was just an ordinary person.
It turns out that we are still strangers, even in the future we will love each other, deep love, but now, when you don't know me, I am nothing special, I am just an ordinary person, in your eyes, I am an ordinary stranger.
And I used to firmly believe that I am a different person in your heart, and when we meet, we will recognize each other, but this is not the case.
lose
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > so, can love cross time and space? </h1>
True love can transcend time and space.
When Eun Joo saw the love relic and learned the news of Seung Hyun's death, she finally determined her intentions, learned the truth, she went crazy and ran to the beach, hurriedly put the letter in the mailbox, and cried and prayed that Seung Hyun would not do what she promised her.
Evidence of love
Fortunately, time turns back, and in another time and space, they will meet and fall in love.
See you again
After Mitsuba and Taki go through the turmoil in "Your Name", they return to reality and forget each other, although deep down they feel that they have forgotten a very important person, but they can't remember who it is.
One day, the familiar streets, the staggered trains, the moment they looked back, they confirmed that the other party was the person they were looking for, got off the bus and ran wildly, met again, but did not dare to move forward, passing by.
Brush past
About to walk away, Taki still couldn't suppress the impulse in his heart, stopped and turned around, and gently asked, "Where have I seen you?" But Sanye was already in tears, and this time he wouldn't miss it again.
Tearful three-leaf
Because of deep love, so do not want to miss, do not want to lose, so at the last moment to turn around, fortunately, the other party is the same.
Because of deep love, because of trust, across time and space, you are still in my heart, in that most important place, in the closest place to the heart, there is a place that has always been reserved for you, when we meet, "Honey, finally waiting for you."
Some loves are no longer there without having to cross time and space.
In "Five Centimeters of Speed Seconds", Takaki and Akari once had a deep affection, in the cold winter, Takaki took a train to visit Akari, once the train stayed in the deserted wilderness for 2 hours, but when he saw Akari at that moment, Takashi felt that the long wait was worth it.
Long wait
But with the passage of time, they have even forgotten the appearance of the person they once loved the most, and when the two meet again on the street, after staring, they pass by, and have been strangers ever since.
Even though he once crossed thousands of mountains and rivers to meet her, and now lives in the same city, the people who were once so close are now strangers.
A real passing by
If it is true love, love can cross time and space, no matter where you are, you are worried about each other and cannot be forgotten. As Seung Hyun said, "Neither the covenant nor Miss Eun Joo can be forgotten over time."
If there is no deep love, you can't cross time and space, you can't even overcome time, some love you think is love, you just fall in love with the same lonely her, that similar self, like Takaki and Akari.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > time and distance are not problems, the problem is the resulting emptiness and uncertainty. </h1>
Eun Joo's letter to Xingxian said, "Your letter is a kind of happiness for me, but there is always a hint of emptiness in my heart. Could it be because of the man who left me? Otherwise, is it because you are someone I can't see? ”
The unhappiness of reality, the pain of love leaving and the emptiness of not being able to meet, devouring reason, two-year covenant, Xingxian did not appear, the reappearance of her ex-boyfriend crushed all of Eun Joo's efforts, and she made a request to Seung-hyun after she turned around, a request that she regretted.
Eun Joo's choice
Two people who can't be sure of each other's intentions are going to miss out.
Sometimes we can't confirm our intentions, the reality is too complicated, the human heart is too impetuous, there are many chaos, we make decisions that we think are right, we think we have thought they are well thought out, but this is not the case.
Eun Joo's ex-boyfriend's explanation of the infidelity: "Your letter to me is comforting, but I feel more and more tired and start to like the comforting girl around me." ”
Boyfriend's explanation
Long-distance love does have to go through a lot of tests, when sad, when in pain, when they need each other most, the other party is not by their side, phone calls and letters are just comfort, can not comfort the lonely and lonely heart, where is comparable to the smiling greetings and warm embraces around them.
True love is for your sake, reluctant to make you sad, so after Xingxian knew Eun Joo's intentions, he said"Since I didn't accompany you after two years, it seems that our fate is not enough", choosing to do something that makes him sad, but can make Eun Joo happy: to stop Eun Joo's ex-boyfriend from going abroad.
But they all don't know that fate has long been predestined, the fate cannot be rewritten, and he himself has paid the price of his life.
The Last Star Sage
Love you and how to give you sad, knowing that you will be sad and sad and play missing, he has no way to resist the temptation to cheat, but blame the other party why he does not accompany himself more, in fact, he just loves himself.
Long-distance relationships are like this for both people, they will face temptation and face loneliness, but since they are ready to experience the wind and rain together and spend life together, why did you run away when you encountered setbacks?
It should be fortunate that before getting married, this man gave up, ran away, had a new love, and fortunately, everything was still too late, fortunately, it was now, not after the marriage.
Let it all be a dream, a beautiful dream, and from now on, we will be strangers.
The more love, the more it all begins
So, accept the reality that before the other person falls in love with you, and after the other person no longer loves you, you are an ordinary person, nothing special.
vice versa.
But if you love, really fall in love with you, you are the sky, you are the earth, you are the valve of all the emotions of the other party. True love can cross time, cross space, and break down all barriers.
However, sometimes "once people become close to each other, the expectations for each other will become higher and higher", coupled with the absence of the missed person, coupled with the inability to confirm each other's intentions, confusion, loneliness and emptiness will crush a person's self-confidence.
But the magic of love is that as long as you are convinced, as long as you love deeply, once you determine each other's intentions, you have the power to cross time and space, so powerful that no one can destroy it.
So, before we meet, before we love each other, let's all be okay with each other and strive to be a better version of ourselves.
Even if it is ordinary people now, how special it is, the future will all be rewritten, happiness will come sooner or later, when it comes, we will be brave to grasp it and not miss it again.
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Pictured: The movie "Untouchable Lover", "Your Name", "Five Centimeters of Speed"
Text: Tiny luck
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