Wen 丨 West Wing has feelings
Time is not long, may you be in my words, see you not too late!
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There are many men who always feel that the mood of middle-aged women changes too quickly, one second is still smiling, and the next second can be like frost.
And this makes many men feel very headaches, because they don't know why their lover is suddenly unhappy, and they don't know what they need to do to make their lover happy again.
In this regard, many men attribute women's behavior to "menopause", but few men reflect on whether they are not doing well enough to fulfill their husbands' duties.
In fact, the mind of a middle-aged woman is very easy to understand. A lot of times her coldness, just because the man didn't meet her emotional needs, made her feel like the man didn't love her enough.
And the coldness she shows is reminding men that it is better to give her more love.
So, if a middle-aged woman keeps a cold attitude towards you for a long time, it often means that you haven't done enough to make women feel satisfied.
Xi Mei feels that when a woman is cold to you, she can make a middle-aged woman fall in love with you and let her continue to exude enthusiasm for you.
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Give her more care and preference
Su Gengsheng once said: "What we want may not be love, but preference, from the preference of others, to confirm that we are unique." Only in this way can we dissolve the loneliness among all sentient beings. ”
In fact, what a woman desires is just as Su Gengsheng said. She hopes to get a unique preference from men, and hopes to have the most important position in men's hearts.
When a man needs to make a choice in her and the rest of the things, she hopes to be chosen by the man immediately and firmly, not to become a choice after the man hesitates, let alone become a victim.
Although the middle-aged woman has passed the age of the little girl, she still hopes that her lover can treat her like a little girl, give her more pampering, and let her live in her own little world at any time.
And if the lover does not meet her emotional needs, then the woman will think wildly, and even begin to deny herself, deny everything that has been. There is no doubt that all of these things will make women start to become cold.
She hopes that in this way, men will feel that they need more love, and hope that men can see through her mind.
So, if a middle-aged woman is very cold to you, then you must not confront her head-on. You know, she's actually telling you that she needs more favoritism and care.
Say more sweet words to her
There are many men who feel that after the lover reaches middle age, he will be more mature and stable, and he does not need to say those sweet words to make her happy.
In fact, when a woman arrives in middle age, she often needs to be cared for by her lover more.
If her lover doesn't say sweet things to her and makes her feel pampered, it almost means that no one will care about her anymore.
Because, at this time, women are usually exporting their love to their parents and instilling love in their children. If her lover can't bring her love, then she will feel the pressure.
Therefore, men should take good care of the lovers around them, so that she knows that no matter what age she is, there will be someone who loves her safely.
Love is something that needs to be met with each other, and a middle-aged woman is cold to you, in large part because you're not meeting her well.
As long as you can give her the feeling of being loved and try to give her warmth and romance, then she will respond to you as enthusiastically as she did when she was younger, and become obsessed with you again.
Give her more kisses and hugs
Physical touch plays a huge role in love, sometimes a thousand words are not as good as a sweet kiss, and a hug can mean a lot.
So, if you want your partner to feel loved and feel that you are her reliance for the rest of her life, then you must learn to use your body to express your affection for her.
You can often take your lover in your arms, let her feel your heartbeat in your arms, let her feel your warmth;
You can give her a hot kiss every day when you are separated, pass on your love to each other, and let the woman greedily grab the breath of your body and feel your enthusiasm.
Never forget to touch your lover regularly and touch her cheek, otherwise it will make the woman feel that you have lost interest in her.
Women are like this, if she unilaterally feels that you don't love her anymore and is cold to her, she will take the initiative to back off, no longer take the initiative to approach you, and become more and more cold.
Therefore, the best thing to do is to try to satisfy her careful thinking, give her more kisses and hugs, not to say that she will always be in love, but the enthusiasm must not be less.
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In fact, middle-aged women want very little things, they do not need men to bring them much glory and wealth, only want to get the care and care of their lovers.
If a man can often tell a middle-aged woman how much he loves her with words and actions, it is enough to make the middle-aged woman feel satisfied.
You know, she has never been afraid to go to the battlefield of life with men, but she is afraid of being left by men in an empty room, swallowed up by loneliness and loneliness.
At this age, she still likes men to say some fleshy love words, longing for men's warm hugs and sweet kisses, but she is embarrassed to express it to her lover.
So, hopefully the man in front of the screen will be inspired to see this, take the initiative with your lover, and let her know how much you love her.
Don't give in silently and foolishly, but express your love to her out loud, let her see and let her hear what you have done for her.
If you are willing to treat her this way, then a woman's life will be full of sunshine. In this way, she will no longer face you with a frost-like face, but will be filled with tenderness and starlight.