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In life, the child's IQ is a matter of great concern to many parents, and if you give birth to a child with a super high IQ, it is undoubtedly very exciting.
In the eyes of most people, the child's IQ has a large genetic factor, if the parents are high IQ people, then the child is also a smart baby, on the contrary, if the parents are mediocre qualifications, the probability of the child counterattack is not large.
But this statement is not absolute, some children seem to inherit the high IQ of their parents, but behind the genius may be hidden some kind of incurable disease.
What I want to share with you today is a real case of a "genius child turning into autistic patient".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > children from the stars: a ph.D. couple gave birth to a high-IQ daughter, and behind the genius was autism</h1>
The couple in the picture, the wife is called Du Jialin, the husband is called Xia Yuefeng, both are high-level intellectuals. Because Xia Yuefeng was admitted to a university in Beijing, the couple moved from their hometown in Hunan to the capital Beijing.
After settling in Beijing, their careers developed well, and at this time, Du Jialin also became pregnant smoothly and gave birth to the crystallization of their love, a lovely daughter.
Mom and dad are school bullies, daughter Xuan Xuan also inherited the parents' high IQ, compared with children of the same age, Xuan Xuan's memory is particularly prominent, when he was very young, he could remember a large number of Chinese characters, and Xuan Xuan was therefore considered a genius child.
Du Jialin and his wife were also relieved to see that their daughter was so intelligent.
After the birth of his daughter, his father Xia Yuefeng was admitted to Tsinghua University as a postdoctoral fellow, but just when everyone was immersed in joy, a health screening broke the happiness of the family.
In this psychological screening of 0-6-year-old children, no matter how the doctor interacts with Xuan Xuan, Xuan Xuan is unresponsive, just doing his own thing, and the doctor has diagnosed that the brilliant Xuan Xuan may be suffering from autism.
Autism is what we often call autism, and children with autism are also called "children from the stars" because they are like stars, twinkling alone in the dark night sky.
This news is undoubtedly a heavy blow to Xuanxuan's parents, in order to take care of their daughter and help them do rehabilitation training, her mother Du Jialin gave up the doctoral examination, and her father also changed to a state-owned enterprise with a more relaxed working environment.
Taking care of a child with autism is not an easy task, in order to allow their daughter to live and work like a normal person in the future, the couple expended a lot of energy, training their daughter for at least 6 hours a day.
It is gratifying that with the efforts of the whole family, the state of XuanXuan has improved significantly, she can interact with her parents normally, and even take the initiative to give her mother a dish to eat, and the expression processing is no longer as stiff as before.
Although her daughter has improved, but after all, she has not fully recovered, thinking that her daughter will face the tragic situation of no one to take care of her after a hundred years, 37-year-old Du Jialin decided to have another child.
The risk of having a second child is not small for an elderly woman, but in order to leave a relative for her daughter, she still tried, and fortunately, after being pregnant in October, Du Jialin gave birth to her little daughter Yingying.
After examination, Yingying is very healthy in all aspects and is a very normal child.
The arrival of the second child has brought a lot of joy to the family, Du Jialin said that she enjoys the happiness of having a normal child, at the same time, she did not ignore the eldest daughter Xuanxuan, the mother and daughter training has been insisting.
Under the care of her parents, accompanied by her sister, Xuanxuan has also made great progress, at this time Du Jialin has also become a half expert because of long-term research on the rehabilitation of autistic patients, in order to help more parents with the same disease, Du Jialin also founded a professional rehabilitation institution.
After experiencing the hammering of life, this unfortunate family has gradually stepped out of the wind and rain and seen the long-lost sunshine.
In life, children with autism often manifest themselves as follows: lack of social skills, acts that hurt themselves, difficulty in life...
Many of these children from the stars will be incomprehensible and helpless, like isolating themselves in a dark area where no one is allowed to enter, but in fact, autistic children are very insecure, they need comfort and companionship.
Regarding autism, there is no very effective cure in the world, so we hope that every parent will not give up their children easily, and help them enter the new world with loving companionship and scientific rehabilitation.
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