Yang Dai: No one's life, no problems and troubles, only reading is the best "antidote"; why there are many troubles in life, just because reading too little and thinking too much. One of Yang Dai's most famous quotes is to warn young people: Your problem is that you read too little and think too much. Problems and troubles, in fact, are normal, everyone is no exception, how to solve problems, get rid of troubles, Yang Dai used her own experience to tell us that only reading is the best "antidote".
Yang Dai, who came from a family of scholars, was influenced by her father since childhood and had a special love for reading. Perhaps, from the moment she came into this world, her life was destined to be related to books, because her father was a seed of reading. The father likes to read, but also encourages his daughter to read more, under his encouragement, Yang Dai really regards reading as a lifelong career, and insists on it until the age of 100, reads a wise and elegant life from the book, solves many life problems through the wisdom in the book, and also gets rid of countless troubles and lives a high-quality life.
According to the book "Yang Dai's Women's Philosophy", when Yang Dai was in high school, her father would buy some excellent classic books and intentionally put them on her desk, and Yang Dai would also give priority to reading these books, which was a tacit understanding between father and daughter. These excellent classics also enlightened Yang Dai's future reading path. If it is said that her father taught Yang Dai the great principle of how to behave and deal with things, then it is reading that allows her to learn a wealth of knowledge, both of which are the cornerstones for her to grow up for everyone in the future.
During college, whenever she had free time or encountered hesitant and troublesome questions, Yang Dai would headlong into the library of Soochow University, believing that she could find answers to all her questions in the book. The huge collection of books in the library of Soochow University is a treasure trove for Yang Dai, and she loves every book there, especially foreign literature. In the page after page of the book, she understands many ways to solve problems and knows a lot of principles for dealing with people.
"Yang Dai's Woman's Philosophy" said that with the company of books, Yang Dai's life path is not lonely, and she also learned from the book to think more before encountering things, and must not be followed by others. It can be said that the book has created her unhurried attitude towards the world and made her full of expectations for life.
Yang Dai is a book-loving person, and perhaps it is precisely because of this love of books that Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu have a beautiful marriage. In her memory, when the two fell in love at Tsinghua University, the daily exchange was to introduce each other to the books they were interested in, and finally because the two had a common hobby, they joined hands for life, perhaps this is the wonderful point of fate.
Yang Dai loves books because she can read other people's stories from books, read the ups and downs of the world in other people's experiences, and understand the connotation of life earlier than others. By reading good books, she can listen to good ideas, and through books, she can have a dialogue of ideas with those who have never met before.
In the book "Yang Dai's Women's Philosophy", it is said that people who love to read like Yang Dai can often continue to think about others, enrich the imagination of others, continue the wisdom of others, and contribute their own value. They are wise, calm, usually may rarely speak, but every time you say a word, you will feel that they must be through thinking and deliberation before saying it, in them, you will feel that there is little trouble, when encountering problems, they can always calmly cope, which is the effect of reading.
It should be pointed out that when people read books, they cannot read dead books, and it should be known that if knowledge does not become the wisdom of life, then what they read is just a beautiful ornament. A person, no matter how many books he reads, no matter how much knowledge he has, if he cannot form his own wisdom, it is only a piece of clothing that can be shown off, and the wisdom in the book is the beautiful flesh, and it is the key to solving problems and getting rid of troubles.
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The last thing to share is the book "Yang Dai's Women's Philosophy", although it is Yang Dai's advice to women for a happy life, especially suitable for women to read, but the wisdom in the book is also applicable to all stages, male readers are not obtrusive to read, here is highly recommended to everyone.