Single elderly people are a huge group, they lack of love and lack of companionship, loneliness, boredom is the norm of their lives, their yearning for a better life is more intense than ordinary people, many people with ulterior motives use this opportunity to attack single elderly people.
Last year, a message was pushed on the hot search, a 60-year-old aunt is a loyal fan of Jin Dong, she paid attention to the account of "Jin Dong" on the short video platform, she held the mobile phone and chatted with "Jin Dong" every day, the other party often said to her all kinds of rhetoric, and promised to buy her a house, but also to give her 1 million, she believed it.
The aunt said: "I don't care about age, I want to marry Jin Dong, I am willing to make changes for him, as long as I pay a big price with him, I don't care!" ”
It was not Jin Dong himself who fell in love with the big mother, the account was a fake, the big mother was deceived by the other party, she fell into the trap of others, which caused quite a stir at the time.
Many netizens feel that this big mother is too naïve, there is a world of difference between her and Jin Dong, and they absolutely cannot be together. However, everyone ignores the truth of "the authorities are fans, the bystanders are clear", the big mother is crazy obsessed with her idol, once the other party takes the initiative to show kindness, she will completely relax her vigilance and pounce on it without hesitation, and the result can be imagined.
Coincidentally, some time ago I saw a video, a 76-year-old man fell in love with a 36-year-old young woman, in 4 years he spent 130,000 pension money on the young woman, and finally he was abandoned by the other party, he cried: "I only want to marry her, she cheated me so badly!" ”
Wang Quangui's family lived in Xiangtan, Hunan, and his wife died for many years, and he lived alone in a lonely and miserable life. Like many single elderly people, he usually watches TV, plays mahjong, plays with a group of old guys, and lives a very flat life.
He has been thrifty all his life, reluctant to eat and wear, he saved 130,000 pension money, he plans to use this money in case of emergency.
4 years ago he was 76 years old, he saw a poor woman on TV, her name is Li Xingxing, 36 years old, her child suffers from myasthenia gravis, this disease can not be cured, the husband abandoned the mother and son, she alone can not afford the child's huge medical expenses, she ran to the TV for help.
Wang Quangui felt that Li Xingxing was both pitiful and responsible, he generously donated money to fund Li Xingxing 100 yuan, he did not take this matter to heart, a few days later he suddenly received a phone call, because of this phone he and Li Xingxing had a relationship.
The phone call was from Li Xingxing, she was very grateful to the king and magnates, in the period after that she always sent messages to the magnates, she not only thanked the magnates, she also said some ambiguous words, such as "Every heartbeat is because of your call, thank you for always thinking about me." ”
The magnate had never dealt with a woman so much younger than her, he had never heard such a fleshy word, he had a feeling of excitement, they contacted frequently through their mobile phones, and soon established a relationship.
Every week they called 3 times, they cared for each other and greeted each other, the king and magnate found spiritual sustenance from Li Xingxing, he was always worried about Li Xingxing in his heart, he felt that the day had hope.
After knowing him for more than a month, the king and magnate asked to meet, and after seeing the young and beautiful Li Xingxing, the king magnate could not suppress the joy in his heart, he said: "I am so much older than you, I am worried that I am not worthy of you." ”
Li Xingxing showed a look of indifference, she replied: "Age is not a problem, I know that you are a kind person, I am willing to associate with you." "On that day, the king and magnate transferred twenty thousand yuan to Li Xingxing, and they lived together.
After that, Li Xingxing asked the king for money for various reasons, and the king and the magnate all satisfied her. Li Xingxing wanted 100,000 yuan at most, Wang Quangui did not have so much money, he only transferred 30,000 to Li Xingxing, in order to please Li Xingxing, he specially bought a mobile phone for her.
In the past 4 years, they have met a total of 13 times, and each time Li Xingxing has arranged the meeting place in the hotel, and wang Quangui still does not know where Li Xingxing lives. During this period, Wang Quangui spent all 130,000 pension money on Li Xingxing, which is not counting the cost of each meeting, and his obsession with Li Xingxing can be seen.
Wang Quangui himself saved money and thrift, but he took a shot at Li Xingxing, and his purpose was only one, that is, he wanted to marry Li Xingxing, and in order to achieve this goal, he paid a huge price.
The children of the magnate often advised him not to fall too deeply, and they all believed that Li Xingxing approached the magnate in order to cheat money. Wang Magnate did not see it this way, he firmly believed that he and Li Xingxing were true love, and they would definitely be able to cultivate positive results in the future.
Half a year ago, the king and magnate suddenly couldn't contact Li Xingxing, and he suddenly panicked. What made him even more anxious was that he saw a photo of her and a strange man in Li Xingxing's circle of friends, and he instinctively thought that Li Xingxing was empathetic not to fall in love with the man, he tore the photo in half, and he wanted to completely separate Li Xingxing from the man.
He was only deceiving himself in doing so, and to solve the problem he had to find Li Xingxing. He came to Li Xingxing's hometown with the help of reporters, Li Xingxing's father and Wang Quangui were the same age, they were full of white hair, and it was funny to stand together.
Li Xingxing's father said that he did not know about Li Xingxing and Wang Quangui's love affair, and he did not know that Li Xingxing took away Wang Quangui's 130,000 pension money, he said: "My daughter divorced at the age of 25, she has a seriously ill child, and now she has not remarried." Hearing the news that Li Xingxing had not remarried, Wang Quangui's face showed a smile, and his hanging heart finally let go.
Wang Quangui finally found Li Xingxing in the hospital after several turns, after seeing Wang Quangui, Li Xingxing did not show a trace of affection, she turned around and ran, she wanted to get rid of Wang Magnate, her performance made Wang Quangui very desperate.
Avoidance doesn't solve the problem, and eventually they sit together face to face and talk about things. Li Xingxing admitted that she did not look at the king and the magnate at the beginning, because the age gap between them was too big, and his proximity to the wang magnate was nothing more than to cheat money from him, because her child needed a large amount of surgery fees, her income was limited, and she could only make this decision.
The truth of the matter came out, Wang Quangui is undoubtedly the biggest victim, he wants to marry Li Xingxing, in the end he did not get Li Xingxing, but in vain lost 130,000 pension money, he "lost his wife and folded the soldiers", such a blow is too big for him.
Since there is no hope of marriage, he asked Li Xingxing to repay the money, Li Xingxing was only willing to return 60,000 yuan, and she could only pay back 6,000 per year, the king was unwilling but he could only agree, a relationship that seemed absurd to ordinary people ended hastily.
Looking back at the emotional experience of Wang Quangui and Li Xingxing, their interaction was wrong at the beginning, Li Xingxing is a single mother with limited economic ability and a large burden, she cannot afford her son's high treatment costs, she asks the wang magnate for money again and again in the name of love, she has feelings for Wang Magnate, but this feeling has a strong purpose, and it is doomed to have no good results.
There is a saying in "The Siege": "Elderly people have feelings, just like the old house is on fire, irredeemable." The king and magnate are a vivid portrayal of this sentence.
He saved 130,000 pension money for a lifetime, and after meeting Li Xingxing, he was fascinated, and he wanted to marry Li Xingxing. He did not hesitate to take out all the pension money, he thought he met love, he pounced on it like a moth, he was sincere to Li Xingxing, he never expected that in the end he would end up with two personal wealth.
Nowadays, it is not uncommon for the elderly to be deceived, which has become a norm, and how to avoid this kind of thing is a problem we have to consider.
The elderly who have experienced vicissitudes need the company of their families and the love of their relatives, and once these things are missing, the elderly will take them from outside. They lack enough discernment, lack enough vigilance, are deceived if they are not careful, and suffer a double blow emotionally and financially, which is something we don't want to see.
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