Mother-in-law, there are too many things I don't know, so, do you know what I want to do in the future? I'm going to tell people things they don't know, to show people things they can't see. I think it must be fun every day. Maybe, one day, I'll find out where you've gone.
At the end of the movie "Yiyi", Yang Dechang said the purpose of his film under the pretext of the little boy Jian Yangyang, to shoot things that others can't see, to tell others what they don't know, in fact, most directors are also doing this.
In real life, everyone's experience is mostly fixed, there can only be one or several ways of life, but the movie provides us with countless possibilities, in the movie we will see a variety of people or things, understand and find those around us that we have not known nor understood people and things, to obtain a more diverse understanding of life and the world.
"Kim Ji-young born in 1982" This Korean film has resources in China, because it is the third cooperation between Kong You and Jeong Youmei after "The Melting Pot" and "Busan Trip", many people can't wait to see this film, the domestic evaluation is very good, basically one-sided praise, for this, I am not too cold and think that the praise of the film is more from the theme of the film than from the film itself.
The film is based on the best-selling novel of the same name "Kim Ji-young born in 82", the novel and the film have a very big controversy in South Korea, the evaluation is polarized, on the one hand, Korean women feel empathetic after watching the film is highly evaluated, on the other hand, Korean men feel that the novel and the film have intentionally or unintentionally amplified the suffering and misfortune of women, the original novel is a novel symbolizing the Korean feminist movement, giving the novel and the film angry bad reviews. It is reported that after the release of the film, there are also Korean netizens who imitate the language style of the original novel and write an article of male complaint to satirize the movie.
Somewhat unexpected is that "Jin Zhiying born in 82 years" in the overall evaluation in the country is very good, as of the time of writing, Douban has more than 30,000 people participating in the rating, the film rating is as high as 8.7 points, which is a very good movie rating, I don't know what the proportion of men and women in more than 30,000 people participating in the rating is, but it is certain that the men who have seen this film in China are relatively tolerant.
As far as the film itself is concerned, I think it is a decent film, there are no big advantages, and there are no big shortcomings. However, for such a film with female themes, the overall treatment of the film is very restrained, whether it is the arrangement of the plot or the expression of emotions are very plain, there is no dog blood, which is very valuable. However, the evaluations of some domestic film accounts and netizens seem to be a bit over-interpreted and deviated.
Kim Ji-young, an ordinary Korean woman born in 1982, is a housewife, has a lovely daughter, handsome and loves her husband, has an independent and assertive personality, and wants to go out to work very much. In life, the husband played by Kong You accidentally found that his wife Jin Zhiying was ill and became a little abnormal, sometimes the wife would speak in the tone of the mother, sometimes in the tone of the grandmother, the husband patiently took care of his wife, while looking for a psychologist for her.
And Jin Zhiying also kept recalling some fragments of the past during the illness, and his father preferred sons to daughters and put more love on his brother. In the workplace, it is ignored by leaders because of gender reasons. When he went to school, he was followed by a boy with bad intentions, and later after being safely picked up by his father, he was criticized for wearing less bees and butterflies. Sacrificing her career to take care of her family and children, etc., almost everything is directed at the fact that she has been treated unfairly because of her status as a woman, and the backlog of various injustices has eventually led to her postpartum depression.
This is also part of some film self-media, netizen capital features, have to say that the overall environment of Asia is not friendly to women, women's survival is too difficult, etc., to a large extent, amplify and exaggerate some encounters in the lives of Asian women, in fact, a large part of the male group also faces similar encounters, there is no easy word in the dictionary of adults, amplifying or weakening suffering is irrational, normal face is good, most of the unfortunate encounters in women's lives do not come from men, but from life itself. Life is ever-changing and difficult to figure out, and most people are stretched thin in front of life.
Of course, this is not to excuse men, many life choices are actually the final choice after weighing, especially for adults to do things completely at will and follow their own wishes may also be a manifestation of irresponsibility. Personally very respectful and loving women, before in the Korean variety show "The Call" heard a song "lullaby" cooperated by Shin Seung-hoon and Bewhy, like it, a song about mothers, rapper Bewhy writes mothers from a novel point of view, the lyrics are excellent, just a few sentences outline the greatness of a young woman growing into a mother.
However, if we write about fathers in this way, we can also feel the greatness of a teenager growing up to be a father to take on family responsibilities and take care of his wife and daughter.
In the face of suffering, everyone is equal, there is no need to exaggerate the unfortunate experience of women or the unfortunate experience of men, everyone lives not easy, men and women are not two opposing groups, life is an insurmountable mountain in front of us.
Moreover, the life of Jin Zhiying in the film is not only the side of unfair treatment, but also she also has her own happy side, the daughter is cute, the husband learned that she has a mental problem and is more loving to her, patient and meticulous, the mother is very loving and very supportive of Jin Zhiying from beginning to end, although the younger brother is deeply loved by his father since childhood, but this does not alienate the feelings of the three of them, the younger brother still loves the sister very much, and the female leader of the past female colleagues and Jin Zhiying get along very well... To understand one thing, sweet and sour is the essence of life, although life may encounter a lot of painful encounters, but those warm and happy moments in life are enough to support us to continue to live and continue to move forward.
I think the biggest contribution of "Kim Ji-young born in 1982" may be to provide a perspective of a woman who is not well known to the public. For example, some unfair treatment of women in life, women's postpartum depression problems, etc., men need to recognize the shortcomings in their lives, try to correct, and women do not need to exaggerate the situation of women in society, in fact, everyone's life is not easy, women are not easy, men are not easy, there is no need to exaggerate and enlarge the situation of each party.
Some netizens said after watching the film that they are more afraid of marriage, quite confusing, Jin Zhiying suffers from postpartum depression, the husband loves the family more than the original, the mother, mother, sister, brother know that Jin Zhiying is in pain after the illness, at most the father prefers sons to daughters, ignores the care of his daughter, such a family is not warm? There has never been a perfect family, and someone is more afraid of marriage because of this movie, I don't understand it very well.