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From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

With a vaginal birth and a caesarean section, sometimes it really depends on what doctor you meet.

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The nurse saw that your father came over, explained the precautions to your father, and if there was something, she would come over and then go back to the nurse station.

After the amniotic fluid broke, I became very uncomfortable, and my lower back hurt, from once in ten minutes to once in a few minutes. Your dad was by my side and saw that I was in so much pain. I keep saying, come, my hand to you, you will bite when you hurt.

At three o'clock in the middle of the night, your father saw that I was in so much pain, he called the nurse and asked if he could enter the delivery room. After the nurse saw it, she said that the uterine mouth only opened two fingers, and it was still early, and it was necessary to open ten fingers to enter the delivery room.

At six o'clock in the morning, the nurse saw that I was in too much pain, and told your father to go downstairs to the canteen to buy some food to feed her, and after eating, I went to the delivery room.

Finally able to enter the delivery room, a little excited, at seven o'clock in the morning the nurse sent me into the warm delivery room. When I went through the hospitalization procedures, I told the doctor that I would bring my family into the delivery room, and the doctor told me that the warm delivery room could bring the family.

I was received in the warm delivery room by an intern doctor who saw my uterine opening.

Tell me: Your palace mouth has only opened three fingers. They're sending you in for something. I told her that I had broken the amniotic fluid at twelve o'clock last night and that my waist had been hurting all night.

Intern: waist pain without contractions, uterine opening is useless, your birth canal opening has been swollen, how the child will come out, the child's head has become an olive head. I advise you to still have a good caesarean section, and you can't go along with it like you.

I have been in pain for a night, the intern said so, no idea, my husband is outside again, I want to have a smooth delivery, I can only do a caesarean section according to what she said.

From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

My attending doctor went to work at eight o'clock and asked me as soon as he came over.

Attending Doctor: I heard you were going to have a cesarean section? If you want to have a caesarean section, yesterday you went through the hospitalization procedures and you had a caesarean section, so why suffer a night.

I told her what the intern had told her.

Attending doctor: I know your situation, you have the strength to give birth, you said before that you are afraid of pain, it is recommended that you choose water delivery, but now your situation is not suitable for water delivery. Your waist hurts, I have a way to make your waist not hurt, do you want to choose a smooth delivery. If you choose to have a smooth birth, I will go and get a new form, you sign it first, and then I will sign it with your husband later.

I finished signing, the attending doctor went out with the bill, and came back after a while and told me that your husband signed it. You choose a warm delivery room, and your husband will change into sterile clothes to accompany you. You lie here first and I'll arrange it for you.

My husband came in and told me, just now the doctor took the sheet and told him, your wife is afraid of pain to have a caesarean section, like her situation we have a plan to let her have a smooth birth. Your wife has signed, and now you need to sign and agree, I see that the above signature is not at all like your usual signature.

Attending doctor: The anesthesiologist just went to work, he will come in to give you anesthesia, Dad can chat with Mom more, distract her attention, she wants to eat what she wants to feed her as much as possible, wait for the birth of a child to have the strength to live.

From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

Next door to my delivery room is the big delivery room, which from time to time hears the shouts of the mothers, and the reprimands of the midwives, ah... Don't bark, don't bark. Staying will make you have no strength when you exert yourself, and you will use your calling strength to give birth to a child.

At this time, my back hurt, and I felt that my whole body was dying, but fortunately, the anesthesiologist came in and gave me anesthesia. The anesthetic was administered from the spine on my back, and after the anesthesia entered my body, my waist slowly became less painful, and the midwife came in, and brought a few interns.

The midwife came in and told me that she would listen to her later, and she told me to do whatever I wanted, not to scream when it hurt, and to use my strength on my stomach.

After half an hour or so, the midwife told me that it was almost over, that the anesthetic had begun to dissipate, and that I was going to listen to her and cooperate with her.

From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

She looked at the fetal monitor screen next to her, and when the contractions were severe, she told me to use the same force as LaCang...

Seeing that I had no strength, I told me to take a break, and then came again, and told me that the baby also came out, he was crawling outside, but his strength was not enough, and his mother wanted to help with the force.

The midwife was also by my side to help me push the baby in my belly. After repeating this for an hour, she told me that she had seen the baby's head very well, and asked the father next to her to take a look, and the midwife told me that I would listen to her and use a little force later, and you could come out.

From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

At this time, the father who was next to him was invited out of the delivery room by the midwife, and she told your father that she would come in when he was asked to come in.

After your dad went out, the intern next to him took some surgical tools out. At another time when the contractions were severe, the midwife told me to force it, and then they took the surgical tool to cut me sideways, and my mother finally gave birth to you.

I saw the midwife, cut the umbilical cord and slapped your ass, and you started crying. The midwife held you and showed me and told me you were a baby boy, born at 11:12.

Then she put you on the scale, weighed your body weight and height, and told me that you had no birthmarks on your body, ten toes, and ten fingers.

After weighing your body weight and height, the midwife held you on my stomach and told me that you were not dressed, which was my closest contact with you. You press against me and also contribute to the peeling of the placenta.

From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

Two minutes after you crawled on top of me, they held you aside to get dressed and press your footprints. After they've packed everything for you, a man comes in and takes you to the baby room next door, where they leave you for two hours, and when they're ready, they'll send you to my room.

Before she carried you away, she repeatedly confirmed whether the information on my bracelet was consistent with the information on your bracelet and foot ring, and asked me to confirm it.

It wasn't long before your placenta peeled off, and when you went to the hospital, you told the doctor that we were going to take it away, and they put it in a bag and put it aside, reminding me to take it.

Then came the stitches for me, and if it hurt to have a baby, the stitches hurt even more, and I asked for anesthesia, and they said I had just taken anesthesia and couldn't do it. I didn't scream when I gave birth, shouted when stitches were sewn, the intern sewed needles for me, and the midwife who was just now guided by the side, sewed for an hour and a half.

From pregnancy to the sixth age of her son, a mother's experience (the pain of giving birth to a child, personally experienced to understand

They helped me sew up the needles, cleaned up, asked your dad to come in with me when I went out, and told your dad that when I was done, I could go back to my room.

Your dad came in and told me he had gone to see you, and through the glass he saw several babies inside, and it was the doctor who told him it was you, and you were asleep.

Dad had called the family one by one to announce the good news, telling them that they had a son, and the family was very happy. But your grandfather said that it is better to have a daughter in the first child, and then the second child will have a son. At that time, the two-child policy was not liberalized, and the first child could not have a second child.

My husband and sister specifically called over to tell my husband that I had been suffering from waist pain when I was pregnant, and that after giving birth to a child, it was a confinement, and told me not to sit, to lie down more, and to hold the child less.

After I returned to the ward, my husband told me to rest, and he went back to take his mother-in-law to see me.

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